This is kind of off topic but I have had this problem for a long time and to avoid peoples feelings getting hurt I stuck it out.
There is this guy at work, we will call him Fred. I originally started working where he worked about 5 years ago and thats how we met. I am a friendly person, so of course Im pretty much nice to everyone.
Now this guy Ted is basically a huge loser. I dont judge people on looks or how they talk or anything like that which is probably how I got into this trouble in the first place. Ted is a huge fat guy and im not exaggerating. He has a voice kind of like High pitched Eric from the Howard Stern show(if you have ever seen or heard) and is a really really wierd dood.
Im pretty much force dot see him because of my job. It was just a matter of time before he asked me to hang out. Now i didnt really want to but me being the nice guy I am and not really thinking much would come of it, I said sure let me know. Now I dont know how he got my phone number but he literally calls like 5 times a day. I know his number by heart so of course I dont asnwer the phone when i see his digits flash across the screen.
I figured he would get the hint but here I am 4 years later, sigh.
He still leaves me messages and always chases me down at work etc. I have hung out with him maybe a few times out of work and he basically scares everyone away, girls boys, animals you name it. Hes a good kid and all but just not the type of friend I would like to have. Now I blow him off like every day and he still doesent get the message? WTF? So tell me how can i get him off my back without making it uncomfortable for me to work with him?
Oh did I mention his dad is a big time Judge and I work for the state. I dont want to screw up my career either
There is this guy at work, we will call him Fred. I originally started working where he worked about 5 years ago and thats how we met. I am a friendly person, so of course Im pretty much nice to everyone.
Now this guy Ted is basically a huge loser. I dont judge people on looks or how they talk or anything like that which is probably how I got into this trouble in the first place. Ted is a huge fat guy and im not exaggerating. He has a voice kind of like High pitched Eric from the Howard Stern show(if you have ever seen or heard) and is a really really wierd dood.
Im pretty much force dot see him because of my job. It was just a matter of time before he asked me to hang out. Now i didnt really want to but me being the nice guy I am and not really thinking much would come of it, I said sure let me know. Now I dont know how he got my phone number but he literally calls like 5 times a day. I know his number by heart so of course I dont asnwer the phone when i see his digits flash across the screen.
I figured he would get the hint but here I am 4 years later, sigh.
He still leaves me messages and always chases me down at work etc. I have hung out with him maybe a few times out of work and he basically scares everyone away, girls boys, animals you name it. Hes a good kid and all but just not the type of friend I would like to have. Now I blow him off like every day and he still doesent get the message? WTF? So tell me how can i get him off my back without making it uncomfortable for me to work with him?
Oh did I mention his dad is a big time Judge and I work for the state. I dont want to screw up my career either
