A dilemma

[RSST]

Hi, I've been hanging out with this girlfriend of mine for more than a year now, it's all great but one thing troubles me consistently. She has a personality of 9/10 or 10/10 (she really has all the important traits you would want in a girl) but her looks is 7/10 or 6/10 (depends on a day). I see many gorgeous ladies all the time, they're often like 9/10 or so and I feel like hitting on them but I don't cause of my g/f. The thing is, I really love her, sex is great too, we have a lot of fun together but you see, her looks doesn't satisfy me 100%. I thought that this feeling would vanish as the time passes but it didn't. Maybe some of you had similar problem already? What should I do

 

[Desdinova]

The thing is, I really love her, sex is great too, we have a lot of fun together

This is what REALLY matters when you're in a LTR with a woman.

but you see, her looks doesn't satisfy me 100%.

Here's a sad reality to think about... ALL women's looks will go downhill at some point in time. They get older, more wrinkled, their butt sags, their boobs stretch, they gain weight, etc etc etc.

If you pursue one of those good looking women for a LTR solely based on her looks, they will eventually go downhill. If her personality is 5hit, then you'll have absolutely no reason to stay with her.

It all depends on what you want at this point in your life. If you're looking to be with a woman for the long haul, the personality is what will really matter and will eventually be the only thing left keeping you attracted to her.

However, if you're only wanting to go out and have fun with attractive women, date whoever you want. If you're not ready to be in a LTR, then you shouldn't be in one.

 

[AngelusPUA]

Hi, I've been hanging out with this girlfriend of mine for more than a year now, it's all great but one thing troubles me consistently. She has a personality of 9/10 or 10/10 (she really has all the important traits you would want in a girl) but her looks is 7/10 or 6/10 (depends on a day). I see many gorgeous ladies all the time, they're often like 9/10 or so and I feel like hitting on them but I don't cause of my g/f. The thing is, I really love her, sex is great too, we have a lot of fun together but you see, her looks doesn't satisfy me 100%. I thought that this feeling would vanish as the time passes but it didn't. Maybe some of you had similar problem already? What should I do

The fact is you are not totally satisfied in this relationship so you should end it you don’t want to spend the next few years of your life in an unfulfilling relationship. I always said personality is important but looks are to, if you need a pretty face to be happy then good for you. Don’t cheat on your GF just breakup with her it’s the healthiest thing you can do right now……

 

[RedPill]

What is your age?

 

[RSST]

Thanks for the replies

What is your age?

I'm 24, she's 21