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and to the original poster who's name i cant even type out - MAJORITY, thank you, we want to use the information that applies to the MAJORITY don't we????
You can use the copy/paste function on your computer when speaking to me if you cant type out my nick... Alternatively, you can type my nick out like "aequitas".
Anyways, back onto the topic... When I post I post my OPINION... and I do not talk about the
majority of the cases... I talk about the realistic view on something. In your other thread that I have been following about "looks" Shezz even pointed out to you that he knows of ugly guys pulling hot girls... So he knows people like that, I know people like that, so its not THAT much of a minority... Possibilities are endless... If an ugly guy meets a woman that will find him being funny, or him making her feel good about herself when she is with him to be a turn-on to her, then if she is not shallow, and if she is mature enough to realise that looks will fade one day and its the person himself that she wants to be with, then its very possible for that to happen. So my point is that just because its not LIKELY to happen, it shouldn't stop ugly guys aiming high and going for the HB 8's and 9's. What I understand from you is that ugly guys shouldn't even bother to try and go for 8's and 9's because the chances are, are that he will get rejected. But what I am saying is, WHO CARES? So he will get rejected a hundred times... but I can assure you that out of those 100 girls he will find at leas one that will take some kind of interest in him, just because of his confidence, positive values in his personality, the way he makes her feel, etc. Imagine u get this HOT woman, but nobody ever makes her feel special or cares about HER... everyone just cares about getting in her pants etc... And then this ugly guy stats speaking to her and actually making HER the subject of the conversation... making her feel special etc... I have seen with my own eyes how making a girl feel good/comfortable/special around a guy can make a girl fall for a guy, even in some cases where the guy isn't that good looking (ug3) and she is a really attractive woman (hb8) ... So like i said... though the CHANCES of it happening might be slim, that does NOT mean that ugly guys cannot get hot women.
If you are an ugly guy, then there are still things you can do in order to come out to being
attractive to a girl... You can work on things such as:
1) Your personality - Be funky, full of life, nice to be around
2) Hit the gym, eat a good healthy diet, get your body in shape
3) Your conversation skills.... when you talk to someone, do u talk like a shy ugly person? Or do you come out as being talkative, interesting, good listener, etc?
4) The way you treat a woman - When you in the company of a woman, make her feel good when she is with you, make sure she is having fun, throw in a few confident compliments here and there to make her feel special, etc.
5) Learn how to dance - Clubs, bars, etc, wherever you go dancing is always a good thing to know how to do.. So go out there and start dancing, and learn how to do it well... I have heard endless amounts of women go on about how "sexy" it is when a guy knows how to dance.
I could list many more things, But overall, just work on everything else about being YOU, a unique person, that is perfect in his/her own special way. If you aren't blessed with looks, then that doesn't mean that you have to be an ALLROUND 3... if your looks are a 3, then by hitting gym u already improve ur looks, then workiong on everything esle that u can (ie: like the examples I listed above) .. If you have the willpower and the right mindset, then life will be a lot easiyer if you are one of those people that werent gifted with looks.
aim high, strive for the best, be positive, dont give up or lose hope, be the best person that you can be, and you'll be bound to attract positivety into your life, be it with women, friends, businesswise, etc... There is no person on this Earth that doesnt have the potential to be great, but like i said, its about your mindset, your outlook on life, and your willpower to be the best that u can be.
Laterz...
