A decent woman has become extremely hard to find

[skinnyguy]

Hey guys don't feel so bad if you feel unsuccessful with women. Most of the women you are pursuing aren't even out there. As stated on these forums previously, most women are either:

1) In a relationship
2) Wh*re
3) BPD
4) Single mommy
5) Fugly

These are all deal breakers for me, obviously since I go for quality.

In reality, it's not that you don't do well with women; it's that they are so low quality that they only go for retards

Self respect is such a huge thing - I know most of the guys on this board are decent guys and you guys should be proud of who you are. Don't let the fact that you're single make you believe that you're a "beta faggot" cause the truth is that we all have a ton to offer low quality women want low quality men. That's why there are so many divorces and cheating going on. When you're out, realize that you really are the prize because you don't have a jacked up life like most women do!

 

[Tictac]

If you meet an *******, you met an *******.

If all you meet is *******s all day.....

 

[EbbsAndFlows]

Hey guys don't feel so bad if you feel unsuccessful with women. Most of the women you are pursuing aren't even out there. As stated on these forums previously, most women are either:

1) In a relationship
2) Wh*re
3) BPD
4) Single mommy
5) Fugly

These are all deal breakers for me, obviously since I go for quality.

In reality, it's not that you don't do well with women; it's that they are so low quality that they only go for retards

Self respect is such a huge thing - I know most of the guys on this board are decent guys and you guys should be proud of who you are. Don't let the fact that you're single make you believe that you're a "beta faggot" cause the truth is that we all have a ton to offer low quality women want low quality men. That's why there are so many divorces and cheating going on. When you're out, realize that you really are the prize because you don't have a jacked up life like most women do!

Sort of agree. I've been the same way most of my life. Makes reaching relationship benchmarks trying as I often don't know how to execute them perfectly.

 

[[S]alvatore]

I agree with you, the amount of low quality people out there (both male and female) is staggering. This makes things more difficult because you have to filter through the bullsh1t, but it is possible to find a good one. Screen them hard.

 

[JoeMarron]

This is one of the reasons why I decided to say fvck it and wife one up early. I'm sure as hell am not going to wait until my 30's and wade through a possibly even larger sea of vapid wh0res to find a decent woman. I'd hate to look like I'm advocating a scarcity mindset but a quality female or a quality person in general really is a scarce product.

 

[Robert28]

I probably should have settled down and got married in my 20's but I was too focused on other things and I never dreamed how much dating and women would change when I hit my 30's. Had someone told me society was going to go to sh!t really fast and dating would be nothing like I'd been experiencing, I probably would have not believed them. I was NEVER bitter or negative about women when I was in my teens or my 20's. Never. I was successful with women but I don't know wtf happened when I turned 30. It's like now I find myself pre-judging a girl before I even know her. The sad part is I'm usually right about her, but my point is I never did that before. I dunno, I don't mind being single more now then I ever was before.

 

[skinnyguy]

This is one of the reasons why I decided to say fvck it and wife one up early. I'm sure as hell am not going to wait until my 30's and wade through a possibly even larger sea of vapid wh0res to find a decent woman. I'd hate to look like I'm advocating a scarcity mindset but a quality female or a quality person in general really is a scarce product.

I see your point. I'm 31 and there are much fewer quality females my age than there were when I was say, 24. I think a lot of guys say "fvck it, i'm going to stay single and have fun" but then they do end up cynical due to all the flakes/wh*res/golddiggers etc that they have to deal with.

I originally thought this was just a California thing but I'm starting to think maybe it's a global epidemic.

 

[RagingBalls]

I fvckin love wh0res. Chain them to bed and feed on my fvckin c0ck juice. Bltches and wh0res love fvckin c0ck juices.

 

[Larry Mongoose]

I fvckin love wh0res. Chain them to bed and feed on my fvckin c0ck juice. Bltches and wh0res love fvckin c0ck juices.

ahahahahahahahahaha I love this guy!

 

[Dhoulmagus]

Ya i plan on wifing a euro

 

[ArcBound]

"If everywhere you go it smells like **** maybe it's time to check your own shoes"

 

[asa_don]

most guys think they have a decent woman until they change in the relationship.

 

[TheException]

In reality, it's not that you don't do well with women; it's that they are so low quality that they only go for retards

Self respect is such a huge thing - I know most of the guys on this board are decent guys and you guys should be proud of who you are. Don't let the fact that you're single make you believe that you're a "beta faggot" cause the truth is that we all have a ton to offer low quality women want low quality men. That's why there are so many divorces and cheating going on. When you're out, realize that you really are the prize because you don't have a jacked up life like most women do!

Cant agree with the bolded above.

This is the ole "I dont want to change" fallacy rehashed as "we are all great guys, its all the women's fault". I get that the majority of women will be low quality, there is zero denying that......but the majority of men are also low quality. Period. I agree that just because you are single, that is not a direct show of your value, there is so much more than that.

 

[sambwoy]

This is the ole "I dont want to change" fallacy rehashed as "we are all great guys, its all the women's fault".

Well in some ways, whilst improving oneself is personal responsibility, we still have the issue of many women lacking the empathy part when moralising to guys about things like, say, looks. You get the feeling some were not taught about boundaries when respecting others- other women as well as men. Maybe only the 'hotties' lack empathy, I dunno.

As men it was enforced we show civility and respect to others.

Example, I was on forums a while ago with body image issues, and all that resulted was I was talked down to by female posters with posts that only served to heighten my anxieties. And we still have newfangled white knights telling us they are the fairer sex to whom we should be respectful to? I have never been able to have confidence in women for this reason.

And because I am a man, I had to eventually go it alone and seek a psychotherapist after episodes of internal aggression (i.e. self abuse) and its-all-over feelings over this stuff. An insecure woman who feels unattractive can actually get help and empathy.

 

[the_stig]

I think the biggest problem is that decent women not only have unrealistically high dating expectations, but unreal expectations for what they are worth themselves.

On the contrary, if the roles were reversed and I had women throwing themselves at me from every angle.. i'd probably hold out for the best of the best too.

 

[Shivastorm_88]

Hey guys don't feel so bad if you feel unsuccessful with women. Most of the women you are pursuing aren't even out there. As stated on these forums previously, most women are either:

1) In a relationship
2) Wh*re
3) BPD
4) Single mommy
5) Fugly

These are all deal breakers for me, obviously since I go for quality.

In reality, it's not that you don't do well with women; it's that they are so low quality that they only go for retards

Self respect is such a huge thing - I know most of the guys on this board are decent guys and you guys should be proud of who you are. Don't let the fact that you're single make you believe that you're a "beta faggot" cause the truth is that we all have a ton to offer low quality women want low quality men. That's why there are so many divorces and cheating going on. When you're out, realize that you really are the prize because you don't have a jacked up life like most women do!

And yet... I have met many of my girlfriend's female friends, and not one of them fit your average *****, BPD, single mommy or fugly criteria. So one has to wonder what the issue is here. Is it that you do not meet women at the right place (i.e.: rely on clubs in the hopes of meeting decent women), or perhaps your view what a decent woman should be is simply not in tune with today's reality

 

[CaptainSaveAh0]

All i heard was excuses, step your game up.

 

[JohnChops]

you know what im starting to find, people on here just complain about things around them for the reason they cant get women.

detach yourself, stop fvcking trying to get a god damn "relationship" or "good girl" because women are all "good" until you fvck them, then they are just as slutty as the others.

stop making fvcking excuses, get the fvck out there, if you dont want to go out then tough luck. be alone.

 

[tripod23]

I think the biggest problem is that decent women not only have unrealistically high dating expectations, but unreal expectations for what they are worth themselves.

On the contrary, if the roles were reversed and I had women throwing themselves at me from every angle.. i'd probably hold out for the best of the best too.

finally someone is seeing what iv been seeing for a long time..............RESULT..............ITS CALLED ENTITLEMENT ATTITUDE..............NOT A GOOD THING TO BE UNDER THE SPELL OF.................

 

[TheTruth]

All i heard was excuses, step your game up.

Stop being so judgmental. It's not helping.