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A Brief History & Review of NLP

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The following is adapted from a few discussions from 1996 in the Church of Virus forum archive:

Natural Language Programming (NLP), or Neuro-Linguistic Programming, originally started as a hybrid of clinical hypnotherapy, systems theory as applied to family dynamics and counseling, information science, linguistics, and oddly enough, mathematics. Like every profoundly useful thing, it has rapidly evolved since it was introduced in the early to mid-seventies in Santa Cruz, California.

NLP was developed by John Grinder, a linguist, and Richard Bandler, a mathematician, while studying, or rather, benchmarking the most effective agents/facilitators of permanent, effective personal change. in this case, Milton Erickson, a psychiatrist and clinical hypnotherapist who did ground-breaking work on the de-mystification of hypnosis and the links between hypnosis, communication, and info theory; Virginia Satir, who was making huge breakthroughs by applying systems theory to psychology, and Fritz Perls, the Founder of Gestalt therapy, and Gregory Bateson, a well-known anthropologist.

At the core of NLP are a few basic hypotheses: human brains are hardwired, more or less, the same in most people; there are only a few basic modes to operate the brain in based on which sense is taking up the most clock cycles at the moment, etc. In addition, the basic idea that there is a powerful, transparent, modeling strategy/methodology (a model for modeling, or "meta-model"), which is relatively easy to impart to others and has the advantage that you only need to learn it once. It then allows the user of the strategy to quickly model, duplicate, acquire, and improve any ability he can observe in someone else.

Grinder and Bandler attained a great deal of credibility by using this modeling methodology. They were able to quickly equal and surpass the abilities of the master therapists they were studying, and they were able to explain what these experts were doing unconsciously (things the experts themselves had not been able to transfer to their students very well before because although they could do it brilliantly themselves, they couldn't explain how to others). Most of all, the model's ability to explain why a given technique was effective, and its predictive ability to improve or generate even better techniques made folks all over the world sit up and pay attention to what would otherwise have been just another weird idea from California that started a weird movement only Californians would join…

Bandler and Grinder went off to do their own things more than a decade ago, but not before training a bunch of NLP practitioners and stoking them up with huge doses of curiosity as to how the meta-model could be applied to other aspects and areas of life. Both of them got tired of the therapeutic, remedial idea quickly, and instead wanted to do creative, generative stuff, taking good things and making them great rather than just fixing dysfunctional folks.

They left behind a few “disciples", for example, Tony Robbins, who uses the meta-model in his introductory seminar to replicate, and your average Joe Six-pack modern American. The shaman, who can walk on burning coals barefoot without injury, as well as a host of other brilliant users of the meta-model.

There are two reasons you should know about NLP: first, it can function as a social manipulator par excellence, and thus for the same reason people should be aware of memetics, they should be aware of NLP. Second, it is just plain incredibly useful.

NLP history

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memes = "mind virri" an example would be when NAZI Germany got swept up with the idea of Anti-Jews. Or any other culturally accepted idea.

memes are like "markers" in your mind that the society implants on you.
 

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No, that's an inaccurate definition of a meme.

MEMBOT: A person whose entire life has become subordinated to the propagation of a meme, robotically and at any opportunity. (Such as many Jehovah's Witnesses, Krishnas, and Scientologists.) Due to internal competition, the most vocal and extreme membots tend to rise to top of their sociotype's hierarchy. A self-destructive membot is a memeoid. (GMG)

MEME: (pron. `meem') A contagious information pattern that replicates by symbiotically infecting human minds and altering their behavior, causing them to propagate the pattern. (Term coined by Dawkins, by analogy with "gene".) Individual slogans, catch-phrases, melodies, icons, inventions, and fashions are typical memes. An idea or information pattern is not a meme until it causes someone to replicate it, to repeat it to someone else. All transmitted knowledge is memetic. (Wheelis, quoted in Hofstadter.) (See meme-complex).

MEME-ALLERGY: A form of intolerance; a condition which causes a person to react in an unusually extreme manner when exposed to a specific semiotic stimulus, or `meme-allergen.' Exo-toxic meme-complexes typically confer dangerous meme-allergies on their hosts. Often, the actual meme-allergens need not be present, but merely perceived to be present, to trigger a reaction. Common meme-allergies include homophobia, paranoid anti-Communism, and porno phobia. Common forms of meme-allergic reaction are censorship, vandalism, belligerent verbal abuse, and physical violence. (GMG)

MEME-COMPLEX: A set of mutually-assisting memes which have co-evolved a symbiotic relationship. Religious and political dogmas, social movements, artistic styles, traditions and customs, chain letters, paradigms, languages, etc. are meme-complexes. Also called an m-plex, or scheme (Hofstadter). Types of co-memes commonly found in a scheme are called the: bait; hook; threat; and vaccime. A successful scheme commonly has certain attributes: wide scope (a paradigm that explains much); opportunity for the carriers to participate and contribute; conviction of its self-evident truth (carries Authority); offers order and a sense of place, helping to stave off the dread of meaninglessness. (Wheelis, quoted by Hofstadter.)

MEMEOID, or MEMOID: A person "whose behavior is so strongly influenced by a [meme] that their own survival becomes inconsequential in their own minds." (Henson) (Such as: Kamikazes, Shiite terrorists, Jim Jones followers, any military personnel). hosts and membots are not necessarily memeoids. (See auto-toxic; exo-toxic.)

MEMEPLEX: See meme-complex.

MEME POOL: The full diversity of memes accessible to a culture or individual. Learning languages and traveling are methods of expanding one's meme pool.

MEMETIC: Related to memes.

MEMETIC DRIFT: Accumulated mis-replications; (the rate of) memetic mutation or evolution. Written texts tend to slow the memetic drift of dogmas (Henson).

MEMETIC ENGINEER: One who consciously devises memes, through meme-splicing and memetic synthesis, with the intent of altering the behavior of others. Writers of manifestos and of commercials are typical memetic engineers. (GMG)

MEMETICIST: 1. One who studies memetics. 2. A memetic engineer. (GMG)

MEMETICS: The study of memes and their social effects.

MEMOTYPE: 1. The actual information-content of a meme, as distinct from its sociotype.
2. A class of similar memes. (GMG)

META-MEME: Any meme about memes (such as: "tolerance", "metaphor").

META-MEME, the: The concept of memes, considered as a meme itself.

MILLENNIAL MEME, the: Any of several epidemic memes which predicted catastrophic events for the year 2000, including the battle of Armageddon, the Rapture, the thousand-year reign of Jesus, etc. The "Imminent New Age" meme is simply a pan-denominational version of this. (Also called the `Endmeme.')
For more information on memetics: http://bbs.metavirus.net/viewforum.php?f=5.
 

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hey demon have you looked in to neurosemantics its a branch of nlp go to this site to find out about it. neurosemanticss.com
 

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Originally posted by Demon
No, that's an inaccurate definition of a meme.
WTF are you talking about?

I said "mind virus" and you gave the definition of a virus, and then told me that I was wrong...?
 
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