90 Days NoFap challange

[Albatross953]

I remember fapping and then I got to my GF's place and she was all dolled up for me...I was too tired/spent to have sex...she cried, I felt awful.

Heck kid I'm 15 years older than you, and I'd have to fap while running on a treadmill to be too tired half an hour later...

 

[mangotot]

Heck kid I'm 15 years older than you, and I'd have to fap while running on a treadmill to be too tired half an hour later...

Fapping must have resulted in him losing se*ual drive and could not f*** his girlfriend which, made her cry. You really do, feel sorry for the girl. Especially as she was all dolled up as well.

Anyway, day 4 and no fapping done.

 

[Heisenberg]

To me this falls into the tried and true "everything in moderation" category.

Yes, scaling back the masturbation is a good thing. I can relate with what other posters are saying, when I lay off masturbating for extended periods I find myself more motivated to meet new women.

But just like you don't have to give up all junk food all the time, you don't have to go 90 days or 30 days or 100 days without giving yourself a release. If you let it build up for too long it's going to make you frustrated, irritable, and when you do have sex you're going to last .5 seconds.

Just don't do it so much that it's killing your sex drive and making you feel crappy. Only do it when you need to. Whether that's 3 days, a week or no pattern at all. Just don't go crazy. The only people who need to do a 90 day challenge are guys who have a serious problem, in the same way that the only people who have to swear off alcohol are alcoholics. Are you really addicted to jerking off? Do you really do it every day, sometimes multiple times a day? If so, okay, maybe you need the 90 Day No Fap Challenge. Haha.

 

[Beetlesales]

If you are having sex at least once every few days, you don't need to fap. I'm at like day 20 already.

 

[mangotot]

Day 5 no fap.

 

[mangotot]

Day 6 no fap.

 

[mangotot]

Apparently these are benefits of not fapping:


http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/1qe22v/benefits_of_not_masturbating/

Not sure about about some of these such as 'Music sounds better'!

Day 7 no fapping.

 

[mv.89]

I've done this challenge numerous times. My fail rate was 0.08.

For me I've noticed that the destructive part is pronography and not the masturbation part.

If I do fap - I make sure I don't watch more than 3-4 clips and try not to fast forward them lol . Might sound weird but try that .

Pron is the enemy and the fap in itself isn't as destructive.

 

[mangotot]

8 days with fapping.

 

[backbreaker]

lol got all you dudes beat. I haven't fapped since last year's black friday lol.

the first 30 days are going to be hell. the next 30 days are going to be hell but not as bad. the last 30 days are going to be a breeze but you're going to be kinda depressed.


if you grew up like i did fapping once a day, okay, fapping 2-3x times a day, try it. give it 90 days and watch your life change. you don't even know you're miserable lol. The dopemine rush that you get when you PMO is similar to the one you get when you take drugs, that's all it really is.


Dudes wonder how I have the energy to go to the gym 6 days a week, run a business, donate time to charity, **** my wife, play baseball with my son and still have time to post here and play the piano. I'm not a hormonal dopmaine crazed wreck lol


read this

http://www.yourbrainrebalanced.com/index.php?topic=12556.msg349974#msg349974


at one point in my life I had quite a bit of those symptoms

 

[mangotot]

Interesting post dude. I have been whacking myself everyday since I started ejeculating at the age of 13 and that is like a good 15 years ago now. (From about 13 to 17, sometimes it was like 5 times a day). When I went to college I stopped for a day or so at the start because I thought there'd be chicks who'd replace fap but sadly it did not materalise too much.

I came across these no fap stuff challenges about a year ago and done it on and off for a few days here and there but never for like a couple of weeks let alone 90 days.

So it will be interesting to see some positives, if any.

lol got all you dudes beat. I haven't fapped since last year's black friday lol.

the first 30 days are going to be hell. the next 30 days are going to be hell but not as bad. the last 30 days are going to be a breeze but you're going to be kinda depressed.


if you grew up like i did fapping once a day, okay, fapping 2-3x times a day, try it. give it 90 days and watch your life change. you don't even know you're miserable lol. The dopemine rush that you get when you PMO is similar to the one you get when you take drugs, that's all it really is.


Dudes wonder how I have the energy to go to the gym 6 days a week, run a business, donate time to charity, **** my wife, play baseball with my son and still have time to post here and play the piano. I'm not a hormonal dopmaine crazed wreck lol


read this

http://www.yourbrainrebalanced.com/index.php?topic=12556.msg349974#msg349974


at one point in my life I had quite a bit of those symptoms

 

[Cerwin Vega]

Well, I did break no fap on multiple occasions, but reducing masturbation and porn drastically did work; instead of the usual everyday 2-3 times fap, ever since I started (2 months including last no fap), I did it about 10 times (as opposed to 150~ times for 60 days which is the norm for me).

The result?
My d1ck finally got warped by a warm pvssy, after a 5 month absence.

I'm going full on no fap until the next time I have sex:
a. So I can feel it better, imagine having a numb penis from all the fapping + a condom on
b. So I'll be a lot hornier and cvm easier, took me about an hour of fvcking and then 10 minutes of head to cvm
c. I feel more focused, productive and attractive when I don't fap

Gentleman, it's working.

 

[bcollarmechanic]

ok porn and fapping is really ruining my sex drive

day 1 starts today, no porn or fapping for 90 days

does this include sex though? im starting to sleep with this girl and dont want to cut it off, just porn and fapping as it seems to lower my sex drive with the real thing

i sometimes find it easier to get harder with porn than the real thing and hopefully this help reboot my sex drive in my brain

 

[mangotot]

10 days without fapping.

I have become more aggressive which is great because I have had enough of 'Mr Nice Guy'.

 

[mangotot]

13 days without fapping.

 

[backbreaker]

you're about to hit the flat line. .. any day now. it's going to suck. bad. really bad. it's not linear. about day 14-16 of my first real time doing no fap i got cold / flu like symptoms, in the middle of june lol, got really depressed and down. it will pass.

just force your self to day 90/100. by then you should be on the up and up.

 

[latinnova]

No fapping is awesome. It's been right at 3 months now and I feel great. I always have morning wood every morning and every once in a while just start getting a boner for no reason, lol. That hasn't happened to me since I was 20, which is 15 years ago. I don't think it's the no fapping though, I think it's the whole no watching porn. Kinda resets the brain back to what it should be. I'm just going to do it old school the rest of my life and not have any option to see a naked girl unless that girl is naked on my bed with passion in her eyes.

 

[bcollarmechanic]

same here for me, its more about porn

i usually have to watch certain types of porn to get me off, nothing extremely kinky, stuff like lesbian porn, but so far i find myself getting turned on by basic pictures of hb9s, its a good reset for my brain

anyways one week passed, no fap or porn

 

[latinnova]

One thing to note too. Schlong is hanging down a lot further and thicker when flacid, lol. Can't beat that. Well I could, but I choose not too . Anyhow, it's confidence inspiring.

 

[mangotot]

16 days without fap.