Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
You've seen people trying to formularize game before, but never have heard Atom Smasher weigh in. As you know, I regularly frequent 7 dimensions, and I now gift you with 7 words, one from each dimension, that will completely end your fear of rejection and your sense of lack.
Ready to enter the next level? Here we go... the seven words:
"Be bold and don't give a sh!t".
How many times do we see men on this board pining away for that one target that is in his sites? He has reduced himself to a ball of worry and indecision, constantly asking himself, "What is wrong with me?"
I'll tell you what is wrong with you: You are not bold, and you care too much.
Boldness is the domain of men, and mostly absent in women, who go through their day with both physical and social safety in mind. Masculine boldness is the polar opposite of feminine carefulness, and that is why she finds boldness immensely attractive. We are attracted to that which we do not have.
I'm currently seducing a women in an office I frequently visit, and the bold things that come out of my mouth and my bold actions amaze even me, who a few short years ago couldn't even conceive of anything but being a "safe", nice guy.
The phrase "fortune favors the bold" is an axiom that should be brought to mind every single day. Boldness is the very essence of the "bad boy", but his boldness is uncalibrated and therefore damages himself and others. The Don Juan understands that he can harness boldness and leverage it to his advantage while mostly avoiding the repercussions because his boldness is tempered by common sense.
When it comes to life, the aim of boldness is to attain prosperity and influence among men. When it comes to women, the aim of boldness is to shock them into understanding that you are unafraid, that you are in-touch with that masculine core that she finds so attractive.
Some examples: Just the other day, I picked up a ruler and told (commanded) a girl to stand up. I had just shown her a picture of my Harley. I then proceeded to measure her ass (from a slight distance) in order to "see if she would fit well on my motorcycle as I'm considering giving her a ride". She ate it up like candy, even though on one level she was shocked.
I also like to demonstrate that I'm inspecting and judging her body. The judgment is always either good or difficult for her to discern. I will take her hand, usually compare it to mine (so she can be made subconsciously aware of my masculinity, the polar opposite of her femininity), and to give her physical sensation. I will put my pinky next to one of her fingers and comment how my little pinky is bigger than any of her fingers. I will then proceed to inspect her fingers very closely, in obvious judgment of them. Me: "You don't wear nail polish?" Her: "Oh I do, I do. Just not all the time." Me: "I see a little dirt under your nails. Did you replace a muffler yesterday?" Her, embarrassed: "OMG, really? I must have been working in the garden." You get the picture.
Inspect her body. It will take you very far. And I mean an uncomfortable (for her), close-up inspection. She will love it. What kind of man has the audacity to take hold of parts of her body, inspect and make comments on them? The kind who she craves, that's what kind.
Boldness will take a man very far in life, and it is admittedly very difficult to achieve the younger you are. This is just nature and maturity at work. Young men simply haven't yet acquired the ability to nuance enough in order to find that fine line between being a complete jerk and being a bold man who shocks women into loving him. A young man can circumvent a lot of this by valuing the experience of those who have gone before him and emulating not only their actions but their motivations behind their actions.
Everything I do, I do with deliberation and thoughtfulness, even though it appears completely spontaneous. It takes maturity to know how to do that well, but the time to start is today.
The second part of the axiom, "Don't give a sh!t", should be fairly self-explanatory. It's all about never, EVER fixating on one particular target unless and until she has proven that she is madly in love with you. Until that time, spin plates and make yourself conscious of the abundance that is out there but which has been hidden from your awareness all your life. Women will become abundant when you declare them to be so, and when you loosen up and devote yourself to fun and bold interactions with many women. Tease them, stay loose and provide fun for them. The seriousness will come later.
She hates, hates, HATES the "nice guy" because the nice guy is just like her, living life in a safe way. And she secretly hates the fact that she must always live carefully and in fear of getting hurt. If she hates her own need to live with constant care to her safety, she will hate YOU for being the same way. Remember, she craves her polar opposite.
You need to be like an amusement park ride. When you're riding an insane wooden roller coaster, there exists the constant illusion of imminent catastrophe, like you're going to go off the rails at any second. You are being thrashed about, if you're a woman you are screaming, you are being thrust up, down and sideways in unpredictable ways, but deep down inside you know that despite the wild ride, you are safe. That's the experience you need to provide for a women.
The more you practice this, the more you will realize that any one woman's acceptance just doesn't matter, and paradoxically the more women who will be pining away for you.
I realize I could have written this much better, but I honestly don't give a sh!t about that. Pick off the meat, chew it, digest it, and put it into practice and a few months from now you'll be a different man with far fewer worries about women.
Ready to enter the next level? Here we go... the seven words:
"Be bold and don't give a sh!t".
How many times do we see men on this board pining away for that one target that is in his sites? He has reduced himself to a ball of worry and indecision, constantly asking himself, "What is wrong with me?"
I'll tell you what is wrong with you: You are not bold, and you care too much.
Boldness is the domain of men, and mostly absent in women, who go through their day with both physical and social safety in mind. Masculine boldness is the polar opposite of feminine carefulness, and that is why she finds boldness immensely attractive. We are attracted to that which we do not have.
I'm currently seducing a women in an office I frequently visit, and the bold things that come out of my mouth and my bold actions amaze even me, who a few short years ago couldn't even conceive of anything but being a "safe", nice guy.
The phrase "fortune favors the bold" is an axiom that should be brought to mind every single day. Boldness is the very essence of the "bad boy", but his boldness is uncalibrated and therefore damages himself and others. The Don Juan understands that he can harness boldness and leverage it to his advantage while mostly avoiding the repercussions because his boldness is tempered by common sense.
When it comes to life, the aim of boldness is to attain prosperity and influence among men. When it comes to women, the aim of boldness is to shock them into understanding that you are unafraid, that you are in-touch with that masculine core that she finds so attractive.
Some examples: Just the other day, I picked up a ruler and told (commanded) a girl to stand up. I had just shown her a picture of my Harley. I then proceeded to measure her ass (from a slight distance) in order to "see if she would fit well on my motorcycle as I'm considering giving her a ride". She ate it up like candy, even though on one level she was shocked.
I also like to demonstrate that I'm inspecting and judging her body. The judgment is always either good or difficult for her to discern. I will take her hand, usually compare it to mine (so she can be made subconsciously aware of my masculinity, the polar opposite of her femininity), and to give her physical sensation. I will put my pinky next to one of her fingers and comment how my little pinky is bigger than any of her fingers. I will then proceed to inspect her fingers very closely, in obvious judgment of them. Me: "You don't wear nail polish?" Her: "Oh I do, I do. Just not all the time." Me: "I see a little dirt under your nails. Did you replace a muffler yesterday?" Her, embarrassed: "OMG, really? I must have been working in the garden." You get the picture.
Inspect her body. It will take you very far. And I mean an uncomfortable (for her), close-up inspection. She will love it. What kind of man has the audacity to take hold of parts of her body, inspect and make comments on them? The kind who she craves, that's what kind.
Boldness will take a man very far in life, and it is admittedly very difficult to achieve the younger you are. This is just nature and maturity at work. Young men simply haven't yet acquired the ability to nuance enough in order to find that fine line between being a complete jerk and being a bold man who shocks women into loving him. A young man can circumvent a lot of this by valuing the experience of those who have gone before him and emulating not only their actions but their motivations behind their actions.
Everything I do, I do with deliberation and thoughtfulness, even though it appears completely spontaneous. It takes maturity to know how to do that well, but the time to start is today.
The second part of the axiom, "Don't give a sh!t", should be fairly self-explanatory. It's all about never, EVER fixating on one particular target unless and until she has proven that she is madly in love with you. Until that time, spin plates and make yourself conscious of the abundance that is out there but which has been hidden from your awareness all your life. Women will become abundant when you declare them to be so, and when you loosen up and devote yourself to fun and bold interactions with many women. Tease them, stay loose and provide fun for them. The seriousness will come later.
She hates, hates, HATES the "nice guy" because the nice guy is just like her, living life in a safe way. And she secretly hates the fact that she must always live carefully and in fear of getting hurt. If she hates her own need to live with constant care to her safety, she will hate YOU for being the same way. Remember, she craves her polar opposite.
You need to be like an amusement park ride. When you're riding an insane wooden roller coaster, there exists the constant illusion of imminent catastrophe, like you're going to go off the rails at any second. You are being thrashed about, if you're a woman you are screaming, you are being thrust up, down and sideways in unpredictable ways, but deep down inside you know that despite the wild ride, you are safe. That's the experience you need to provide for a women.
The more you practice this, the more you will realize that any one woman's acceptance just doesn't matter, and paradoxically the more women who will be pining away for you.
I realize I could have written this much better, but I honestly don't give a sh!t about that. Pick off the meat, chew it, digest it, and put it into practice and a few months from now you'll be a different man with far fewer worries about women.
