I've known for a while that my current girl wasn't good enough for me, but I was staying in the relationship just for the sex and benefits of her living close to me.
However, the sex got scarce, and she started acting like a b1tch. We constantly got into fights about the stupidest things, and I was always getting the feeling that she didn't care as much for me as before, because lately I slipped on the DJ grip and I started being a lot less easy to work with... I was conscious of the way that I've acted over the past months, that's why I got a lot more C+F, light convos, during the last week, just like at the beginning, because that was what got her to fall in love with me so madly...
But I always felt like she couldn't please me, and I didn't even know why I liked this girl, even less sure that I loved her... And we got into fights about that... But I still stayed, trying to work things out, even though they weren't.
A couple of days ago, I took a break from her because I told her that I wasn't feeling like her boyfriend anymore, because she was acting b1tchy and cutting off sex... I told her I saw myself as more of a friend, and I need her to think about having a 50/50 relationship where both parties fulfill the other's needs...
Well, she thought about it long & hard, and told me that she did lose feelings for me, but still wanted to keep the friendship. She said she lost the "butterflies in her stomach" when she saw me lately... It was replaced by more of a "oh I'm gonna go relax" kind of feeling.
Anyways, I told her that I needed some time to cope with this, and that I would talk to her when I was ready for it. She asked me to promise that I wouldn't ignore her, and I didn't.
At this point, I feel hurt and I feel like an idiot. I should've listened to my gut feeling that told me to break it off when I should've, but I stayed for the benefits in the relationship, not because I loved the girl.
This is a tip for all you DJ's out there... If a relationship isn't going your way and you feel you can get better, you need to BAIL OUT. Stay in a relationship for the ONLY reason of caring for the person who's with you. The rest is superficial.
I'm out.
However, the sex got scarce, and she started acting like a b1tch. We constantly got into fights about the stupidest things, and I was always getting the feeling that she didn't care as much for me as before, because lately I slipped on the DJ grip and I started being a lot less easy to work with... I was conscious of the way that I've acted over the past months, that's why I got a lot more C+F, light convos, during the last week, just like at the beginning, because that was what got her to fall in love with me so madly...
But I always felt like she couldn't please me, and I didn't even know why I liked this girl, even less sure that I loved her... And we got into fights about that... But I still stayed, trying to work things out, even though they weren't.
A couple of days ago, I took a break from her because I told her that I wasn't feeling like her boyfriend anymore, because she was acting b1tchy and cutting off sex... I told her I saw myself as more of a friend, and I need her to think about having a 50/50 relationship where both parties fulfill the other's needs...
Well, she thought about it long & hard, and told me that she did lose feelings for me, but still wanted to keep the friendship. She said she lost the "butterflies in her stomach" when she saw me lately... It was replaced by more of a "oh I'm gonna go relax" kind of feeling.
Anyways, I told her that I needed some time to cope with this, and that I would talk to her when I was ready for it. She asked me to promise that I wouldn't ignore her, and I didn't.
At this point, I feel hurt and I feel like an idiot. I should've listened to my gut feeling that told me to break it off when I should've, but I stayed for the benefits in the relationship, not because I loved the girl.
This is a tip for all you DJ's out there... If a relationship isn't going your way and you feel you can get better, you need to BAIL OUT. Stay in a relationship for the ONLY reason of caring for the person who's with you. The rest is superficial.
I'm out.
) refuses to have sex at your command then leave and get another ho!!