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7 Hobbies that makes you instantly attractive to Women

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1.) Mastering The Grill and The Kitchen
2.) Shooting, Learning to Hunt and Handle A Fire arm
3.) The Handy Man - Knowing How to Fix things around the house, Cars, etc build things
4.) Traveling
5.) Adventure Sports - Snowboard, Skateboarding, Surfing, Sky Diving, Rock Climbing
6.) Golf. A Good sport for Social Proof.
7.) Combat Sports - Martial Arts.

Lol....Good Advice, but you may think that a lot of these are cliche. What do you guys think?

 

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He forgot being an artist/musician, but I digress.

1 is something everyone should really work on tbh.
 

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1.) Mastering The Grill and The Kitchen
2.) Shooting, Learning to Hunt and Handle A Fire arm
3.) The Handy Man - Knowing How to Fix things around the house, Cars, etc build things
4.) Traveling
5.) Adventure Sports - Snowboard, Skateboarding, Surfing, Sky Diving, Rock Climbing
6.) Golf. A Good sport for Social Proof.
7.) Combat Sports - Martial Arts.

Lol....Good Advice, but you may think that a lot of these are cliche. What do you guys think?

All of this is how to make you appealing to other men. If expanding your social circle is the goal then these are great skills/hobbies but why did you title this as to attract women when it mainly attracts the attention of other men? Kind of like driving a sports car.

None of these are niche. They are all stereotypical traditional skills that are now mostly undesirable to women. Leave trad values behind and you will start getting opportunities.

I would argue that most of these skills are bare minimum.
 

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6.) Golf. A Good sport for Social Proof.
Disagree on golf. Golf is often a sport for married beta males.

A single, unattached male who is good at golf isn't instantly attractive to women. Some golf guys can be if they have money and possessions, but most golf guys aren't reaching that affluence threshold.

A man who is a strong amateur player might be able to seduce a woman who played golf at the collegiate level. Their shared passion for golf and talent in golf could help with a longer term relationship. Physical attraction would also have to be there. That's a less common scenario.
 

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I'd say that riding a powerful motorcycle is likely to make a man attractive to a larger proportion of women than playing golf. Also being in a band or being a singer will often make a guy more attractive to a certain demographic.
 

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I'd say that riding a powerful motorcycle is likely to make a man attractive to a larger proportion of women than playing golf.
Many guys end up disappointed in motorcycle ownership as a way to attract women. I would also think that being a motorcyclist is more attractive than being a golfer.

Motorcycle expectation vs. reality.png
 

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All these are beta cope hobbies.

The only "hobby" that makes you attractive to women is the hobby of seducing gorgeous women.
 

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All these are beta cope hobbies.

The only "hobby" that makes you attractive to women is the hobby of seducing gorgeous women.
Preselection and Social Proof are not hobbies.

But if you think like that, it's to do something interesting and then others will follow you.

It's a bit like walking around with **** in your hand, and seeing a swarm of flies following you.

At that point you'll start to recognize you're doing something. and people are around you for:
- genuine interest
or
- opportunistic interest
 

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Preselection and Social Proof are not hobbies.
You misunderstood.

I meant if you want to be attractive to the ladies, approach, talk to, and seduce ladies.

Or to put it another way, (since this is a thread about hobbies) have a hobby of approaching every pretty girl you see and working on your social skills.

That "hobby" will get you more girls that playing golf.
 

Channel your excited feelings into positive thoughts and behaviors. You will attract women by being enthusiastic, radiating energy, and becoming someone who is fun to be around.

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it doesn't matter what the hobby is. the point is to have one or some. its the association of people connected with the hobby that is attractive. for example the motorcycle. its not the bike, that's attractive to men. women DO NOT have motorcycle magazines laying around but men do. same with the other hobbies. women want to be part of a group and for you to have respect within that group. you can do this by becoming good at the hobby.

women don't see the bike... unless they understand the cost of an expensive one. they do see a group of guys or mixed couples having fun and like to have fun also.
 

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they do see a group of guys or mixed couples having fun and like to have fun also.
This is the case with all the mirroring that happens in society.
My friend had a child? I will have a child too.
My friend is now married? We will get married too
My friend has an external ****? Oh I can try that too.

Society is based on "symbols" and "objects" to show and to be accepted.
Then how things go, nobody really cares
 
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