6'2", 210 lb former college athlete claims dating is difficult; also makes $150k+ a month on OnlyFans

[SW15]

Marie Temara is a 28 year old, former Division III (small school, lowest college division) track and field college athlete and played high school basketball. She is now a content creator across platforms, including Instagram, TikTok, and OnlyFans. She has also done plus size modeling, though she's more plus sized on being tall than plus sized on being overweight. She documents her life as a 6'2", 210 lb. woman. She does post nudes on OnlyFans according to the YouTube interview.

I don't know why she claims that she difficulty dating. She must be extraordinarily fussy.

On looks, I think the general consensus on her looks would be around 7-8. She is attractive and her body type is more athletic given that she was a competitive low level collegiate athlete.

More importantly, I know what level of interest she would get in-person.

Many years ago, I was playing recreational sand volleyball, both in organized leagues in random pickup games. The types of women who played recreational sand volleyball leagues/pickup games were women 5'9"-6'2". These were often women who were high school and college athletes. There were many ex-NCAA athletes and often ex-Division I (top college division) volleyball and basketball players. Almost all the women were White women.

In my time playing sand volleyball, these 5'9"-6'2" women were frequently desired and approached by all the male players. If they had good facial aesthetics, they had their pick of some solid men. I'll admit that it was a little bit easier for the 5'9"-5'11" women to find dates from sand volleyball than the 6'0"-6'2" women because at least at 5'9"-5'11", those women had more men who were slightly taller than they were. Nevertheless, it wouldn't be unreasonable to see a 6'1"-6'2" woman get interest from 5'11"-6'2" guys.

None of these women I met had any difficulty attracting men by playing sand volleyball and they also had other options for meeting men. They were also likely meeting men at their gyms, other daygame venues, and within bars. They also had the option of using swipe apps and could even look to their Instagram DMs.

If Marie Temara is experiencing difficulty dating, it is because she now posts nudes on OnlyFans and a lot of men are considering her recreational use only. Additionally, while she might claim she's open to dating men shorter than she is, she likely isn't that open to it. Additionally, I can imagine that a lot of men shorter than she is aren't particularly interested in her because they know their odds aren't good on her. Many 6'2"-6'5" men (her prime options) have many options in dating. They can date a very tall woman (6'0"+), a tall-ish woman (5'7"-5'11") or a more average sized/shorter woman (5'6" and shorter). I would imagine that a typical 6'3" guy might be more interested in his tall-ish options than her. If a 6'3" guy dates a 5'11' woman, he's still substantially taller than her and he will have a tall girlfriend.

I'm a 6ft 2in woman and dating is almost 'impossible'

Marie Temara, from Florida, said she had been battling stigmas her whole life but the biggest struggle had been finding a partner. She said critics claimed she could not be both tall and feminine.

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I’m 6’2″ and dating is almost impossible — I’m tired of being called a man

A 6-foot-2 model said she’s making a living showing off her height on OnlyFans — but finding a date is a tall order.

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I make $295K a month on OnlyFans thanks to people with this niche fetish

The real-life “She Hulk” is single and ready to mingle — no minimum height required.

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[corrector]

In other news, water is still wet.

 

[sangheilios]

Simple, a big part of the reason why she struggles in the dating market is because she is taller than something like 95% of men. Something like this will substantially limit her potential pool of men to choose from, and this is just for the height variable and not factoring in other things like personal compatibility, looks/style, etc.

 

[SW15]

Simple, a big part of the reason why she struggles in the dating market is because she is taller than something like 95% of men. Something like this will substantially limit her potential pool of men to choose from, and this is just for the height variable and not factoring in other things like personal compatibility, looks/style, etc.

You would be one of the men in her ideal dating pool if you lived in the same area where she lives. Would you be inclined to approach her if you saw her in real life and were actively participating in the mating marketplace?

She claims to be open to dating men shorter than she is, though she claimed previously that she only went for taller men. She did mention that she has been approached by NBA and NFL players. Those approaches are likely a combination of real world approaches and tech-based approaches.

Another thing that she has now has a high notch count. Even before doing OnlyFans, she likely was having sex with many men, including college athletes at her school, college athletes at bigger schools near her, and NBA/NFL players. She lives in West Palm Beach, FL now which isn't far from Miami. It's easier for her to arrange a get together with an NBA/NFL guy traveling into Miami for a game.

There are plenty of 5'10-6'3" women out there on roster of NCAA basketball and volleyball programs or been an NCAA level athlete in the past. Most of them live somewhat quiet lives and most of them haven't started OnlyFans accounts. Most of them have boyfriends and eventually get married.

Marie Temara wouldn't have been that unique in the sand volleyball circles that I was in many years ago. In the real world, most 6'2" will be noticeable. At a sand volleyball court, it's not unusual.

 

[NealIRC]

She claimed to have only in recent years allowed to date shorter guys.

 

[SW15]

She claimed to have only in recent years allowed to date shorter guys.

Why do you think she made that change?

I think she's overstating that change.

She's going to feel less feminine with a 5'10"-6'0" guy who is shorter than she is, and those aren't even short guys.

There seems to be a reason why she's not going substantial commitments from 6'2"+ men.

 

[inquisitor]

Marie Temara is a 28 year old, former Division III (small school, lowest college division) track and field college athlete and played high school basketball. She is now a content creator across platforms, including Instagram, TikTok, and OnlyFans. She has also done plus size modeling, though she's more plus sized on being tall than plus sized on being overweight. She documents her life as a 6'2", 210 lb. woman. She does post nudes on OnlyFans according to the YouTube interview.

I don't know why she claims that she difficulty dating. She must be extraordinarily fussy.

On looks, I think the general consensus on her looks would be around 7-8. She is attractive and her body type is more athletic given that she was a competitive low level collegiate athlete.

More importantly, I know what level of interest she would get in-person.

Many years ago, I was playing recreational sand volleyball, both in organized leagues in random pickup games. The types of women who played recreational sand volleyball leagues/pickup games were women 5'9"-6'2". These were often women who were high school and college athletes. There were many ex-NCAA athletes and often ex-Division I (top college division) volleyball and basketball players. Almost all the women were White women.

In my time playing sand volleyball, these 5'9"-6'2" women were frequently desired and approached by all the male players. If they had good facial aesthetics, they had their pick of some solid men. I'll admit that it was a little bit easier for the 5'9"-5'11" women to find dates from sand volleyball than the 6'0"-6'2" women because at least at 5'9"-5'11", those women had more men who were slightly taller than they were. Nevertheless, it wouldn't be unreasonable to see a 6'1"-6'2" woman get interest from 5'11"-6'2" guys.

None of these women I met had any difficulty attracting men by playing sand volleyball and they also had other options for meeting men. They were also likely meeting men at their gyms, other daygame venues, and within bars. They also had the option of using swipe apps and could even look to their Instagram DMs.

If Marie Temara is experiencing difficulty dating, it is because she now posts nudes on OnlyFans and a lot of men are considering her recreational use only. Additionally, while she might claim she's open to dating men shorter than she is, she likely isn't that open to it. Additionally, I can imagine that a lot of men shorter than she is aren't particularly interested in her because they know their odds aren't good on her. Many 6'2"-6'5" men (her prime options) have many options in dating. They can date a very tall woman (6'0"+), a tall-ish woman (5'7"-5'11") or a more average sized/shorter woman (5'6" and shorter). I would imagine that a typical 6'3" guy might be more interested in his tall-ish options than her. If a 6'3" guy dates a 5'11' woman, he's still substantially taller than her and he will have a tall girlfriend.

I'm a 6ft 2in woman and dating is almost 'impossible'

Marie Temara, from Florida, said she had been battling stigmas her whole life but the biggest struggle had been finding a partner. She said critics claimed she could not be both tall and feminine.

www.dailymail.co.uk

I’m 6’2″ and dating is almost impossible — I’m tired of being called a man

A 6-foot-2 model said she’s making a living showing off her height on OnlyFans — but finding a date is a tall order.

nypost.com

I make $295K a month on OnlyFans thanks to people with this niche fetish

The real-life “She Hulk” is single and ready to mingle — no minimum height required.

nypost.com

She's just seeking attention. Might be clever - those aren't news articles, just OF adverts.

 

[SW15]

She's just seeking attention. Might be clever - those aren't news articles, just OF adverts.

You have a valid point than these are thinly veiled advertisements for the OnlyFans presence and that she is a solid brand promoter.

There are so many tall and athletic women out there. Few have monetized their tall and athletic status as well as she has. There have been athletic women who have played up their sex appeal but they were often good at a sport. Maria Sharapova in the 2000s-2010s is an example of this, as she won major tennis tournaments and got endorsements. Temara's athletic achievements were not that impressive as a Division III college athlete.

Temara wasn't a good enough athlete to earn money as an athlete. Despite being tall and reasonably attractive, she also didn't have the looks to be a conventional model. In the conventional world, she was in between areas where she could monetize her looks. She found a way to market herself better than most with her in-between status and earn a lot money.

She's somewhat impressive as a self-promoter and attention seeker but not much else.

She might have valid issues in her dating outcomes but I sense a lot of her results in dating over the past 10-12 years are self-inflicted. There's enough demand for a 6'2" woman who is pleasant and not promiscuous. Something tells me that she was promiscuous prior to when she started her OnlyFans page and her promiscuity and "red flag" type traits were why she was struggling with dating. I think we've already established that she has always had abundance in her dating life. She wasn't choosing the men that would commit to her even before she was an OnlyFans model.

 

[inquisitor]

She might have valid issues in her dating outcomes but I sense a lot of her results in dating over the past 10-12 years are self-inflicted. There's enough demand for a 6'2" woman who is pleasant and not promiscuous. Something tells me that she was promiscuous prior to when she started her OnlyFans page and her promiscuity and "red flag" type traits were why she was struggling with dating. I think we've already established that she has always had abundance in her dating life. She wasn't choosing the men that would commit to her even before she was an OnlyFans model.

Most likely might be the case. Interesting.

 

[SW15]

Female athletes have the potential to put up some high notch counts because they have desirable, fit bodies and often have higher sex drives due to higher level of testosterone compared to most women, even if they aren't taking steroids.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

fvq is wrong with people.

Dating has always been difficult.

You think just because you arrived here on Earth you're entitled to a steady stream of high quality dudes begging to lap up your community cooch?

 

[SW15]

You think just because you arrived here on Earth you're entitled to a steady stream of high quality dudes begging to lap up your community cooch?

Levels of female entitlement are at all time highs. We don't know how entitled Marie Temara acts in real life since she's a stranger to us.

She has turned her cooch into a community cooch by being on OnlyFans now. She's made good money doing that as she's likely Top 1% of earnings on OnlyFans.

 

[Gamisch]

I geuss a difficult dating life is the trade off. Every hb6 and up can do porn for starters as there are so many niches now. Every hb 7 can do some form of adult modeling.

But ladies, it comes with a price tag. No sane man wants a woman whose bwen exposing herself on OF. No one. Especially the type of men she really wants. I bet there are plenty of simps who'd love to "buy" her, but she probably doesn't even see them as options (yet).

To me it's always been fascinating why woman A decided to struggle in life with a minimum wage and many debts , why woman B " just" prostitutes herself and makes tons of money. Once you go to the other side ,it extremely difficult to get back and there are real consequences.

The male equivalent could be working hard for a little bit vs being a criminal. Although the punishment/consequences for woman is rather mental, and for men it can be physicall (jail, debts, short stressful life)

 

[corrector]

I geuss a difficult dating life is the trade off. Every hb6 and up can do porn for starters as there are so many niches now. Every hb 7 can do some form of adult modeling.

But ladies, it comes with a price tag. No sane man wants a woman whose bwen exposing herself on OF. No one. Especially the type of men she really wants. I bet there are plenty of simps who'd love to "buy" her, but she probably doesn't even see them as options (yet).

To me it's always been fascinating why woman A decided to struggle in life with a minimum wage and many debts , why woman B " just" prostitutes herself and makes tons of money. Once you go to the other side ,it extremely difficult to get back and there are real consequences.

The male equivalent could be working hard for a little bit vs being a criminal. Although the punishment/consequences for woman is rather mental, and for men it can be physicall (jail, debts, short stressful life)

She can always quit onlyfans and claim to be a born-again virgin and there's be some hard-up male beta-simp who will marry her and put all of that in her "past". Never underestimate the male thirst. It's deeper than the Mariana trench and higher than Mount Everest combined. It knows no bounds.

 

[SW15]

Every hb6 and up can do porn for starters as there are so many niches now. Every hb 7 can do some form of adult modeling.

She's doing porn and adult modeling around what most men would rate as a 7-8.

I geuss a difficult dating life is the trade off.

Her dating life can't be that difficult. The typical 5'5"-5'7" man has a far more difficult dating life than she does. Even overweight women, who still can get a good amount of options, would have more difficulty than she has. Being tall, tan, and fit is a good position.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Ok for being 210 a lot of that is muscle and she is actually hwp for her frame. As has been said before, she's bigger in real life than on camera.

It's surprising at first glance when you juxtapose her weight and her onlyfans earnings, but this makes sense. She is somewhat easy on the eyes.

 

[sangheilios]

You would be one of the men in her ideal dating pool if you lived in the same area where she lives. Would you be inclined to approach her if you saw her in real life and were actively participating in the mating marketplace?

She claims to be open to dating men shorter than she is, though she claimed previously that she only went for taller men. She did mention that she has been approached by NBA and NFL players. Those approaches are likely a combination of real world approaches and tech-based approaches.

Another thing that she has now has a high notch count. Even before doing OnlyFans, she likely was having sex with many men, including college athletes at her school, college athletes at bigger schools near her, and NBA/NFL players. She lives in West Palm Beach, FL now which isn't far from Miami. It's easier for her to arrange a get together with an NBA/NFL guy traveling into Miami for a game.

There are plenty of 5'10-6'3" women out there on roster of NCAA basketball and volleyball programs or been an NCAA level athlete in the past. Most of them live somewhat quiet lives and most of them haven't started OnlyFans accounts. Most of them have boyfriends and eventually get married.

Marie Temara wouldn't have been that unique in the sand volleyball circles that I was in many years ago. In the real world, most 6'2" will be noticeable. At a sand volleyball court, it's not unusual.

I'd definitely be down to go out with a woman like that. She is attractive, has a nice rack and body and looks ****able. With that said, I guarantee you that she is incredibly picky and has very high expectations for potential suitors. It's also a big turn off that she does only fans and I really wouldn't pursue anything serious with her. Women like this are not relationship material and would be difficult to try to mold into that role.

 

[Serenity]

Her issue isn't finding a man, there's always a long line of simps available. Her issue is finding a man she thinks is good enough. It's difficult not because she lacks options, but because all the options she can see are crap.

She's too picky, a fairly common trait in women...

 

[SW15]

Her issue isn't finding a man, there's always a long line of simps available. Her issue is finding a man she thinks is good enough. It's difficult not because she lacks options, but because all the options she can see are crap.

She's too picky, a fairly common trait in women...

Very accurate!

Ok for being 210 a lot of that is muscle and she is actually hwp for her frame. As has been said before, she's bigger in real life than on camera.

It's surprising at first glance when you juxtapose her weight and her onlyfans earnings, but this makes sense. She is somewhat easy on the eyes.

By BMI, she would be considered overweight, but because she's muscular (but still feminine), you're correct that she's height-weight proportionate.

I'd definitely be down to go out with a woman like that. She is attractive, has a nice rack and body and looks ****able. With that said, I guarantee you that she is incredibly picky and has very high expectations for potential suitors. It's also a big turn off that she does only fans and I really wouldn't pursue anything serious with her. Women like this are not relationship material and would be difficult to try to mold into that role.

She would be a good match for you being that you're 6'4" and around 230 lbs. She is attractive and I think most men would rate her around 7-8. You wouldn't pursue anything serious with her because she has de-valued herself by doing OnlyFans. If she had been a former NCAA athlete who had a college degree and a boring, white collar job, more men would consider her as having LTR potential. I believe that she has been promiscuous since college, if not sooner. If she did not have an OnlyFans and had a limited social media presence in general, she would have been more able to hide her promiscuity.

 

[Gamisch]

She's doing porn and adult modeling around what most men would rate as a 7-8.



Her dating life can't be that difficult. The typical 5'5"-5'7" man has a far more difficult dating life than she does. Even overweight women, who still can get a good amount of options, would have more difficulty than she has. Being tall, tan, and fit is a good position.

For us it's hard to imagine that her dating life is difficult. But once you get a sneak preview of how the female mind works it's not that hard to imagine.

Recently read a thread on reddit about a guy complaining he gets zero likes. He tried to get sympathy, but got downvoted into oblivion haha. Most women claimed he had no idea how" hard is is to weed out 100's and 100's of matches just to find That One match ". Those women eventually claimed that to them " zero matches is the equivalent of getting 1000 matches you don't want."

She can always quit onlyfans and claim to be a born-again virgin and there's be some hard-up male beta-simp who will marry her and put all of that in her "past". Never underestimate the male thirst. It's deeper than the Mariana trench and higher than Mount Everest combined. It knows no bounds.

True, but male thirst can and will be satisfied after taking some good sips. Also known as P.n.C (post nut clearity).

She doesn't want a loser whose been her male financial cheerleader. She wants a winner. And yes ,she cam claim a born again virging but she better do it before she hits her wall. And we both know that these women only find Christ after they've lost their edge in the looks department.

The man she wants will look down upon her once he finds out about her past.