6 months of bliss, and it's over

[Blue Phoenix]

This sucks but it happens sooner or later. Sometimes it´s our attitude that changes and then the girl starts acting moody. The thing is, when this happens, you´ve gotta withdraw, give her space because she´s starting to take you for granted as her IL is dropping.

I get pretty upset with girls who flirt and when I show (not say) I like them, they go cold on me. WTF???? I think girls with high IL accept your advances while girls with low IL just plays cat/mouse, it´s more her ego than you per se.

The biggest lesson I´ve learnt in this situation is not to chase her (which is our instinct specially if you really like her), and to be able to pull the trigger before she does it.

 

[909pua]

i suggest a no contact till she contacts you. i'm going thru one right now, six months already, things seem sour, started flaking again, pulled back big time, after almost 2 weeks she comes back. during the 2 weeks, i met 2 other girls to keep contact with. but my friend here, i still kinda like her but i look at our relationship differently than before. so just sit back and dont contact, she will come back. in the mean time, talk to other girls.

 

[Veridin]

Some guys here are the toughest of the tough, the coolest of the cool. All girls are slvts! Just next that hoe! Haha, you thought she was different, you chump! They are all the same, they all sleep around when you are not there, and if they signal any worries about anything that's just a sh!t test! Now you can go out and have fun picking up hot babes for one-night stands and then next them too!

Guys who compete in showing off their skill level in the right attitude and terminology. Using it for every situation, because you can't go wrong with your peers that way. This becomes just another closed group, where the majority stick to what is fashionable to do and say, with no nuance and no balls to stick out. This is when dogma takes over and the originality that launched the project in the beginning is weakened.

Back in the normal world we feel sorry when six months of dating is over. And even if we don't like a girl's decision, we don't need to call her a b!tch or similar to feel cool about ourselves.