Lloyd.ambert
New Member
How does an old man, with a big social circle, lots of date options, several sex options, fall into the trap of "oneitis"? Easy. He stops living an interesting life, and endeavors to include his lady in every aspect of his life. She absolutely refuses to commit to the old guy in an exclusive relationship. (She's old too, nearly my age) I am pretty darn sure that I am her only romantic partner. *tsk*
How to keep her? Back off of shared experiences, dates, trips, etc and focus on ringing her bell, but good, every chance that I get.
Why do I care? It is against everything taught in the seduction community. Don't know, perhaps some never outgrow being a chump. FWIW, she is a well educated person, independent, has the skin of a twenty year old, is an excellent lover, and has few vices.
Not asking for advice, I already know the answers, just sharing.
How to keep her? Back off of shared experiences, dates, trips, etc and focus on ringing her bell, but good, every chance that I get.
Why do I care? It is against everything taught in the seduction community. Don't know, perhaps some never outgrow being a chump. FWIW, she is a well educated person, independent, has the skin of a twenty year old, is an excellent lover, and has few vices.
Not asking for advice, I already know the answers, just sharing.