51 Year old chump

Lloyd.ambert

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How does an old man, with a big social circle, lots of date options, several sex options, fall into the trap of "oneitis"? Easy. He stops living an interesting life, and endeavors to include his lady in every aspect of his life. She absolutely refuses to commit to the old guy in an exclusive relationship. (She's old too, nearly my age) I am pretty darn sure that I am her only romantic partner. *tsk*

How to keep her? Back off of shared experiences, dates, trips, etc and focus on ringing her bell, but good, every chance that I get.

Why do I care? It is against everything taught in the seduction community. Don't know, perhaps some never outgrow being a chump. FWIW, she is a well educated person, independent, has the skin of a twenty year old, is an excellent lover, and has few vices.

Not asking for advice, I already know the answers, just sharing.
 

Die Hard

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Thanks for sharing, man. Keep your back straight!
 

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51 is not old...
Lloyd, do you have any clue why whe won't commit to you? Does she actually believe she still has a lot of options (maybe she does??)
 

speed dawg

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I plan on fully enjoying my life to the fullest when I'm 51. My kids should be out of my hair by then, hopefully I'll have a nice chunk of change stocked away. Start living life again.
 

Peace and Quiet

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

Greasy Pig

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Awesome, Rollo! Go Tenderman!
That's the kind of life all men should aspire to as they age.
Great post.
 

Lloyd.ambert

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Viagra4Soul said:
Booya.

Game over. :kick:
Yep. Got a couple of options going on. I can still get interest, fun, hard smelly sex from different women, but just don't wanna. I always thought that using seduction lore as a means to an end, never intended to "stay in the game". *sigh* Oh, well, that ain't too bad. It can be rather fun getting over somebody. Thanks, all, and I'll bookmark your link, Rollo.
 
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