Look at it THIS way...
Originally posted by oakraiderz2
Interesting...ive found that being quiet isnt really that bad. If you listen you can tell just how much sh!t people are full of. Not to mention you notice other things about people. As long as you arent a mute, theres no problem with just chillin.
I am not saying that just chilling is BAD, I am saying that it isn’t AS GOOD as actually speaking more and in a way "leading" the conversation, therefore taking the place of the "Alpha male", which is a big turn-on for women. And like I said, don’t be one of those people that ARE full of sh!t, make sure that what u say makes sence and is anything but stupid etc.... after talking a lot in groups etc, you will get used to talking with "style", if you see what I mean. For those who are not with me yet, I mean that with practice (doing it a lot) you will get to a point where when u speak you entertain everyone and people actually ENJOY listening to you and having conversations with you.
Another thing that I’ll say to you is that I don’t ALWAYS talk a lot in conversations, I let the others (mainly the other women) contribute their fair share into the conversation, and I also like to use variation, I like being unpredictable, so the one day I might talk a lot, and the next I might just sit there and add my odd comment or two, but overall I have gotten the name of being an excellent conversationalist, and all people that know me KNOW that I’m a fun and interesting, plus funny person to talk to, and I am FAR from being boring... and if u ask me, I think that all that would be a big turn-on for a girl, not to mention that I have been TOLD that it is, buy girls themselves
Anyways... talking more gives u an image of being a more "social" person, it gives u practice at being a good conversationalist, AND by talking more u take the place of the "Alpha" (Dominance) which is a quality that women LOVE about men. ... Well that’s how I see it, and in the past and in the present it’s been working well, so I'll stick to my way and opinion on this subject. Don’t get me wrong though, there ARE other ways of being the alpha and turning girls on (E.g.: Body language), but body language can be used while talking too
I am not ruling out other "ways" of acting while being in the presence of others etc, I'm just saying what works best, in MY opinion.
Laterz...