Yo Guys! Don't write me off just Yet!
I was planning on writing this earlier this sunday, but I've got all wraped up with the parties on the streets that were happening today...
I suppose y'all don't know this, but here in Brazil it is Carnaval time. So it was a good period to start this up!
Anyway, let's go on with the approaches. I've wrote them all down during this week, and there are more than 7 due the parties. But they got more intense by the day!
Monday:
1st - Approached a 2 set, hb6 and hb7 on my way to the bank to check my account. Asked for a lighter. They gave me. And that was it. I was polite, they were polite, and I only intended to warm up.
2nd - On the same route, spoke to an old lady on the bus stop. Chatted for a while. Turned out she was keen my family and I've returned home with some sh*t to say to my mom.
3rd - Opened a hb7 on the bank line. Basically it was elevator talk. Weather, traffic and that kind of sh*t. She was kind enough to compliment my sunglasses out of the blue.
4th - Spoke to a set of people waiting to cross the street on my way to my shrink! Same weather and traffic BS. But it was way easier talking to them since I was really on a talkative mood by them!
Tuesday:
Done nothing in that matter
Wednesday:
5th - It was night time, I was at the bohemian neighborhood of the city, and saw a couple playing/practicing a song. The girl, hb6 was singing and the dude was playing the guitar. It was a song that I enjoy very much so I walked up to them and begun to sing along with the chick. I'm a singer, and I knew the lyrics, so they kindda enjoyed it. We sung till the end of the music, and after that we talked about versions of this particular song. We sung another tune I walked away. This one was an approach I really enjoyed, and if wasn't for the competition, I would have skipped it!
OBS: Later I've got inside my friends' bar, got some liquid courage and spoke to several people. But since I was on my confort zone I don't consider any of this for the AA competition, as I believe it is harder for me to do it on the streets/day game
Thursday:
I know this can't be considered as approaches for the competition, but since I had a gig coming up, I contacted my entire cellphone list in order to invite them to the show. This included people I've only met once, plates I've dropped, girls that flaked on me and lots and lots of complicated people and situation.
To tell you all the truth, it took me a lot of courage in order to this, and before I started doing it I was literally fear paralyzed.
Usually I just sent a mass text to people I'm close. But this time, and because of the competition, I've sent a voice note individually to each person. I've even done a script with the order of things that had to be said and a footnote reminding me to say something special for the person see that the message was sent to her individually. Got to tell you that this was really challenging 'cause Ive sent to something around 80 people. Anyway, it was really gratifying 'cause I got in touch with several people, and putted some girls back in the prospect. People were really glad they got an individual message, and I got response from almost everyone!
Friday:
It was the day of the gig, so once again I was on a confortable position (the lead singer position) and my main plate was also there. Anyway, I spoke to several people prior my show, and after the show I've complimented and thanked every single f*cking person on the venue. And in that matter I will add approach number...
6 - It was a HB7. Nice round ass. Really hot. I walked up to her to thank her presence and asked about what she tought about the show. She said it was great. That my band was really good and that I was very energic, and hot, on stage. Since my plate was there, I quickly asked for her phone #, which she happily gave to me. Left her there.
Bonus Lay report: My plate told me she was tired 'cause of work. Some lame sh*t. I've said ok and she left. On my way to the door, I've found previous HB7. We spoke for a while and we decide to join a friend of her and the friend's BF. we went to a night park, drunk a little bit, played some tunes since the dude had a guitar on the back of his car and I got the chick. Fast forward two hours of good fun, I tell the couple I'm leaving and I'm droping the chick home. She tells me she lives far away, so it was cool droping her at the subway. We got to the subway, half an hour before it opened, so we start making out in the car, one thing led to another...
and Bang! \o/
So just adding this up, this is the 9th chick I bang ever since I got here into SoSuave, and decided to go NC on my ex and do the GFTOW challenge! Just one more to go! :cheer:
Saturday:
7,8,9,10... - It is carnaval as I've said, so I went to street parties, with a bride's veil on my head and a plastic flatiron on my hand and basically approached every single f*cking person alive. I had this itens with me, but due the challenge, I decided not to drink and use nothing but my own balls (and the peacocks) to open people!
Since it is a party time, people are prone to being open by a random stranger, which made things easier. But it does not mean that it is an easy feat. I had to really grow a pair in order to this instead of hiding behing a bottle of beer, as many dudes were doing! I made out with four chicks, and got out of there really proud of me!
Sunday:
No cold approaches were done this day, but one of the chicks (HB7,5) I've invited to my show via voice memo on whatsapp called me. Yeah, she called me. This was a girl I had only met once, did not made out with her, and never spoke to her again until said message. Anyway, she called me and invited me for lunch. The catch. I had to grab her at her home. Anyway, went there, had lunch with her, grabbed a girl friend of hers and went to the Carnaval party.
Got there, the friend had a BF and they begun making out. I looked to the chick that called me, and kissed her as well!
Stood there with her for about an hour, left, met with my sister and some other friends, and partied until right about now!
And that is it!
Can't wait for the next round! Cheers!
