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I wasn't around this forum when that advice was given but it sounds to me like it was 10 women over some extended period of time. I also interpreted it as not necessarily casual sex/rotation situations. Part of that 10 could be monogamous girlfriends.10 women at any given point?
Most men struggling with women don't have a lifetime notch count of 10 if they are 30 and under and struggling with women.Many years ago, there was an expression (or canned advice) on here called “Go F Ten Other Women” (GFTOW).
The theory was, if you hooked up with ten other women, you would no longer be bothered by rejection by a particular woman.
However, GFTOW advice was eventually abandoned because common sense suggests that most guys struggling with one chick probably can’t pull ten more lol.
Getting a 10 notch count at 32 isn't easy. It's a sign that a guy has some seduction skill. If I think of a 32 year old guy with a 10 notch count, it's usually a guy who got laid somewhere between 14-17 for the first time, had a few extended relationships, and a few one night stands/casual sex. That guy isn't struggling with women for the most part. A 10 notch guy at 32 might have some struggles with women, but it's more on the intermediate/advanced game type level, not fundamental struggles.