2nd Date Friday with a Doctor after Months

[sazc]

Oh boy, now you guys are at it in this thread?!

 

[longtail]

Another sign of disinterest: she waited "months" to go out with you a second time and it led to a......one armed hug.

What are we missing here?

1. no hugging
2. no kissing
3. months without contact
4. you drove her home
5. facebook add

When were you "getting all the signs" and what are/were they?

 

[Reyaj]

Another sign of disinterest: she waited "months" to go out with you a second time and it led to a......one armed hug.

What are we missing here?

1. no hugging
2. no kissing
3. months without contact
4. you drove her home
5. facebook add

When were you "getting all the signs" and what are/were they?

Well you are clearly missing that you are ****ing moron repeating the same crap and I guess I'm dumber for actually entertaining it.

As usual you are incorrect. I waited to contact her and she accepted my 2nd date and I cancelled on her. If you actually bothered to read I said the hug the 2nd time was better. That doesn't mean I'm saying it meant sexual interest you pseudo Don Juan. Then again you also said I was Indian lol

Do you have a life man? Go read Mystery Method and stop distracting from this thread.

 

[longtail]

Well you are clearly missing that you are ****ing moron repeating the same crap and I guess I'm dumber for actually entertaining it.

As usual you are incorrect. I waited to contact her and she accepted my 2nd date and I cancelled on her. If you actually bothered to read I said the hug the 2nd time was better. That doesn't mean I'm saying it meant sexual interest you pseudo Don Juan. Then again you also said I was Indian lol

Do you have a life man? Go read Mystery Method and stop distracting from this thread.

Date 1: meet for coffee where she refused to talk to you. You left after 15 minutes because, cringe.

You said: "The hug she gave me was weakest I ever experienced lol.. like a one hander with her body away"

Date 2: nothing.

I smiled big when I saw her and I gave her a hug, even though she did a one hander

I pull in her driveway, I tried to pull a bit away from the window, I go in for the kiss and she winces...

then went in for the kiss again and peck her lips but she didn't kiss back, it was kind of awkward.

No hugs, no kisses, nothing. You said you were "getting all the signs." What were they? So far: nothing.

Basically, you are forcing her to hug and kiss you and she is not complying. When were you "getting all the signs" you were talking about?

 

[Reyaj]

I smiled big when I saw her and I gave her a hug, even though she did a one hander

Why didn't you add the rest of what I said after "hander"

Lol you're sad case buddy. Read my response to your bs again to answer your what are the signs question. Stupid fvck

 

[longtail]

There is no doubt you are completely insane and unstable. Just re-read your own posts.

You are 40, broke, with no direction in life, wasting what little money you have on strippers despite having a mountain of debt. You are not attracted to your current girlfriend. You say you have "fun hooking up" but this only means paying for prostitutes and getting one armed hugs and being friendzoned when she is not a prostitute.

Not looking good there bud.

I am not normal.... I fear the house in the suburbs with the wife,kids and white picket fence. I feel like I am selling out so to speak and am just another sheep in society.

I suffer from cognitive dissonance though of wanting to be calm and simple while also wanting to be someone special and enjoy the superficial pleasures in life... driving a nice car, hooking up with hot girls whenever I want, and essentially being someone who is envied for living life to the fullest and not falling into the marriage trap and the rat race.

However I am 40 years old. I really don't feel like it mentally though... I feel like I'm in my 20's who wants to go out to bars/parties/clubs and hook up with girls if I can. I've been really living a double life doing so... whether its from going out or online I've been meeting girls on the side while In my 4 year relationship and also did so previously while I was in my 5 year relationship.

I guess my current girlfriend has a large frame... its something I never noticed though until the weight gain. She is just overweight a bit but I wouldn't call her a whale. My ex girlfriend, now that was a whale. My ex was lazy and didn't stick to eating healthy or a workout schedule. My current girlfriend does eat healthy for the most part (except on the weekends with eating and drinking). Maybe she is just past the Age of Expiration of 27 I've read about and that's just life?

I've looked at pictures of us together throughout the years... she was so beautiful early on... I'm not saying she is ugly now but she just looks like a normal overweight American girl.

Now let me say how great she is... she cooks amazing, she works hard and has money saved for us to get a house, she'll do me or sexually please me whenever I want (which hasn't been much lately around her), she is intelligent. She comes from a good family that really likes me a lot.

Me... well I cheat, have crazy debt, and basically still not sure what I want to do with my life. Unfortunately at 40 I feel like I'm out of time to figure it out... especially if I want to have children.

I've been writing down a lot of my thoughts lately about the situation. Here they are in no particular order:

Thoughts

• Should my mission be to find the hottest girl I can attain?
  
  
• Should I accept that I can't retain hot women? I've had sex with a few in the past but keeping a relationship with them was exhausting.
  
  
• I'm a sex addict and can't control it. When I get horny I start craving other women and sometimes go to the strip club for extras.
• I want to have a wife and family at home but still be able to game attractive women on the side - Thus the life I want is unattainable.
• My girlfriend has gained weight and is heavy. This really bothers me. I feel like I would want a girl with a nice body but other times I wouldn't want to deal with it.
  
  
• When I am sick or physically ill I realize mortality and the importance of essential needs with a wife with good values can provide.
  
  
• I get upset when I look at my girlfriend and see a big girl then I see thinner girls with boyfriends who appear less attractive than me and I feel I should have one of them.
• 
  
• I don't like dealing with the game of dating and the efforts attached to it. Yet I am still very attracted to other women. Maybe I need to live a double life?
  
  
• I am in terrible financial shape.
  
  
• Sometimes I feel very content in my relationship but my sexual attraction for my girlfriend has waned.

Help me!

 

[Reyaj]

There is no doubt you are completely insane and unstable. Just re-read your own posts.

You are 40, broke, with no direction in life, wasting what little money you have on strippers despite having a mountain of debt. You are not attracted to your current girlfriend. You say you have "fun hooking up" but this only means paying for prostitutes and getting one armed hugs and being friendzoned when she is not a prostitute.

Not looking good there bud.

And you're a loser who has no life outside of online personas. Your previous account got banned here so you had to make this new one.

Sorry you are butt hurt I debunked your lame shaming attempts and false posts. Ironically I feel better about myself and situation because I clearly see things could be worse if I were you lol

 

[longtail]

And you're a loser who has no life outside of online personas. Your previous account got banned here so you had to make this new one.

Sorry you are butt hurt I debunked your lame shaming attempts and false posts. Ironically I feel better about myself and situation because I clearly see things could be worse if I were you lol

This is because you are bipolar. You'll crash again and go through endless manic-depressive cycles. Just read your own posts. This is all a part of your symptomatology.

Yesterday: "Help me! I'm broken!"
Today: "Ironically I feel better about myself"
Tomorrow: "Help me! I'm broken!"
Day after that: "I'm feeling a lot better about myself"

 

[Reyaj]

This is because you are bipolar. You'll crash again and go through endless manic-depressive cycles. Just read your own posts. This is all a part of your symptomatology.

Well thank the Lord we have a certified psychologist named LongTail to make this expert diagnosis.

I don't think you understand that I value the shvit that comes out of my ass more than anything you type here lol

I'm able to admit my vulnerabilities on here because I want to improve myself and don't care what strangers think of me.

You on the other hand are clearly showing yours with each reply

But even if you're right about these clinical disorders I sure as hell would never trade places with a loser like you lol

 

[longtail]

Well thank the Lord we have a certified psychologist named LongTail to make this expert diagnosis.

I don't think you understand that I value the shvit that comes out of my ass more than anything you type here lol

I'm able to admit my vulnerabilities on here because I want to improve myself and don't care what strangers think of me.

You on the other hand are clearly showing yours with each reply

But even if you're right about these clinical disorders I sure as hell would never trade places with a loser like you lol

So again, for at least the sixth time, you've ducked the simplest of questions. Show evidence that you were "GETTING ALL THE SIGNS" of sexual interest. You've ducked this question at least six time posting insane ramblings instead of facing the reality of your situation. So what are they?

You have a schizophrenic split personality. You post all of these insane ramblings about how you've totally fvcked yourself over, and then when someone agrees with you, you go batsh1t crazy saying how wonderful life is and how happy you are.

You are arguing with the very facts that you have presented. It's a great thread to bump to show you just how far off the rails PUA can take you.

Here you are at 40, with no money, a ton of debt, sex addiction, fat girlfriend, no direction in life, no prospects of any kind romantically or financially. Flying into a crazy rage when your own delusions are pointed out to you.

 

[Reyaj]

So again, for at least the sixth time, you've ducked the simplest of questions. Show evidence that you were "GETTING ALL THE SIGNS" of sexual interest. You've ducked this question at least six time posting insane ramblings instead of facing the reality of your situation. So what are they?

You have a schizophrenic split personality. You post all of these insane ramblings about how you've totally fvcked yourself over, and then when someone agrees with you, you go batsh1t crazy saying how wonderful life is and how happy you are.

You are arguing with the very facts that you have presented. It's a great thread to bump to show you just how far off the rails PUA can take you.

Here you are at 40, with no money, a ton of debt, sex addiction, fat girlfriend, no direction in life, no prospects of any kind romantically or financially. Flying into a crazy rage when your own delusions are pointed out to you.

I'm not going to re-type what I already told you. You sound like a broken record at this point.

You posted some very neo-nazi sounding nonsense, a lot of Narcissistic raging against people less attractive than you claim to be (doubtful), said hot women don't have options, cold approach only works for the top 20% of men, and your claim to fame is women looking at you and married women hitting on you but nothing else.

Its not rocket science, the men with the courage to show vulnerability and give a well rounded perspective here are legitimate, the narcissist egoists are illegitimate, I don't care how much experience they have its worthless if they can't empathize and analyze outside of ego aggrandizement.

I'm pretty much done responding to this LongTail tool. I'll continue to post real feedback on this situation if you all are interested.

 

[longtail]

I'm not going to re-type what I already told you


I'm pretty much done responding to this tool. I'll continue to post real feedback on this situation if you all are interested.

Again, ducking the question. You say you are "having fun hooking up" after admitting you can't even get a hug or a kiss.

You say you are getting all the signs but then admit women don't even want to touch you.

You say you are broken and you cry for help but then the very next day you say you are happier than ever.

I've stated that you are out of touch with reality and then you become enraged.

How can you not figure out that you CAN'T be helped because you REFUSE to acknowledge reality?

 

[Reyaj]

Oh boy, now you guys are at it in this thread?!

I am done responding to him, It's a shame he hijacked my thread with some pissing war non sense. Sadly this keyboard jockey probably couldn't get pvssy from a dead cat.

 

[longtail]

I don't care how much experience they have its worthless if they can't empathize and analyze outside of ego aggrandizement.

You have nothing but idiotic ramblings. You have zero self esteem and zero knowledge which is why you lay turds like this 24/7.

You have zero self awareness dude.

He can't. He's an incel, believe it.

You're a pornbrained incel freak

Go to a psychologist

All you do is insult people on the forum and now you are demanding everyone else take sensitivity training LMFAO! Talk about a giant hypocrite LOL

Anyway, dude refuses to own up to his own delusions. That's his problem.

 

[longtail]

I am done responding to him, It's a shame he hijacked my thread with some pissing war non sense. Sadly this keyboard jockey probably couldn't get pvssy from a dead cat.

Again, insane rantings. Just read any of your posts at random. Each one is an equally clear indication of your insanity and inability to cope with reality.

 

[Atom Smasher]

Thread locked due to personal bickering.