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Don Juan
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Hello folks,
Apologies if this topic has been topiced adequately elsewhere. I'm sure it has. But TBH I feel it's a topic lightly covered by game discussions.
My scenario regards the situation after you've already banged a girl. And you're in the awkward stage of still texting / maintaining contact, but not really knowing how to go forward from that point.
In my personal experience I have often hit a hurdle here. So many hook ups that have gone further/continued, ended here.
Basically for me, it's easier to get the first date, go to a bar, and hook up. For some reason all the motions are easier.
Texting post-bang, I find it hard to gauge whether I should play it more sexual and basically just invite her back to my place again, without the "dating foreplay" i.e. without getting drinks again, or doing something.
My personal preference is for that, because I personally want to maintain a connection with a girl and build comfort, despite it just being a casual thing.
I guess the most obvious course of action is just to keep the conversation fairly hook up based and invite her back directly with no ****ing around with nice things like picnics, outdoor cinemas, and rolling skating?
Apologies if this topic has been topiced adequately elsewhere. I'm sure it has. But TBH I feel it's a topic lightly covered by game discussions.
My scenario regards the situation after you've already banged a girl. And you're in the awkward stage of still texting / maintaining contact, but not really knowing how to go forward from that point.
In my personal experience I have often hit a hurdle here. So many hook ups that have gone further/continued, ended here.
Basically for me, it's easier to get the first date, go to a bar, and hook up. For some reason all the motions are easier.
Texting post-bang, I find it hard to gauge whether I should play it more sexual and basically just invite her back to my place again, without the "dating foreplay" i.e. without getting drinks again, or doing something.
My personal preference is for that, because I personally want to maintain a connection with a girl and build comfort, despite it just being a casual thing.
I guess the most obvious course of action is just to keep the conversation fairly hook up based and invite her back directly with no ****ing around with nice things like picnics, outdoor cinemas, and rolling skating?