26 Year Old Hottie

[archon8692]

Sup Board!

So I'm dating this 26 year old hottie that tells me she had bad experiences with guys in the past. Moved in with a guy after 2 months that beat her up and she left, etc. She wants a family and kids. I've talked to her for a year or so casually online, but she flaked on dates.

We go out Friday and have a great outdoor date. I assume the interaction is over and she asks if I have plans for the night and says she's free so she comes over and we hook up.

The next day is the 4th. She's seeing a movie with her female friends and then going to her aunts. I'm going to a baseball game with another girl and to see fireworks...but I tell her it's with a coworker which is true. That night she texts me updates...about how good the movie is, etc. That she's home.

The next day we do an outdoor activity. She takes her dog. Doesn't really make eye contact. I kind of casually rub her shoulders and hug her when she leaves. I didn't kiss her this time.

I get home and get a text from her saying "You were really quiet tonight." I ask her to hang out 2 nights during the week but she says she's busy so maybe this weekend. This girl also rarely texts me first...but when I text her...she replies immediately. I'm talking within a minute. I know she's buying a house so she is busy.

Should I stay or bail on her? Also, what is the optimal amount of times to text a girl a day? I'm used to getting affectionate texts from girls...I get none from her. Occasionally I'll send her a text that says 'Thinking of u' and I'll get an 'Awe.'

Any help or insight is appreciated...

 

[\\mattyice//]

Sup Board!

So I'm dating this 26 year old hottie that tells me she had bad experiences with guys in the past. Moved in with a guy after 2 months that beat her up and she left, etc. She wants a family and kids. I've talked to her for a year or so casually online, but she flaked on dates.

We go out Friday and have a great outdoor date. I assume the interaction is over and she asks if I have plans for the night and says she's free so she comes over and we hook up.

The next day is the 4th. She's seeing a movie with her female friends and then going to her aunts. I'm going to a baseball game with another girl and to see fireworks...but I tell her it's with a coworker which is true. That night she texts me updates...about how good the movie is, etc. That she's home.

The next day we do an outdoor activity. She takes her dog. Doesn't really make eye contact. I kind of casually rub her shoulders and hug her when she leaves. I didn't kiss her this time.

I get home and get a text from her saying "You were really quiet tonight." I ask her to hang out 2 nights during the week but she says she's busy so maybe this weekend. This girl also rarely texts me first...but when I text her...she replies immediately. I'm talking within a minute. I know she's buying a house so she is busy.

Should I stay or bail on her? Also, what is the optimal amount of times to text a girl a day? I'm used to getting affectionate texts from girls...I get none from her. Occasionally I'll send her a text that says 'Thinking of u' and I'll get an 'Awe.'

Any help or insight is appreciated...

Well you hooked up with her so good job bro. Are you trying to escalate things to a relationship? Or do you just want to keep her as a plate? I see a few red flags, moving in with someone after such little time and her 'bad experiences in the past' can cause damage to a future relationship... She seems like she doesn't want to get too emotionally attached because she is being cautious because of her past or she is just keeping her options open. I am not sure if I would go LTR with her. I would keep her around and just spin her as a plate and see how it goes.
As for the texting, keep it to a minimum. If you read the DJ bible, use texting like sniper shots and use them sparingly. Never put in more effort to text, if she is interested she will find Time to talk or see you

 

[Suspens]

Sup Board!

So I'm dating this 26 year old hottie that tells me she had bad experiences with guys in the past[tired of bein used as a cheap slut and sallowing unwashed c0ckas and their bitter juices]. Moved in with a guy after 2 months that beat her up and she left, etc[And severely damaged her self esteem. Loser dirtbag.]. She wants a family and kids[time to retire from the **** carousel. but wait...I'm still young]. I've talked to her for a year or so casually online, but she flaked on dates.[What did you expect, you were her chatbuddy]

We go out Friday and have a great outdoor date. I assume the interaction is over and she asks if I have plans for the night and says she's free so she comes over and we hook up[Finally, GJ].

The next day is the 4th. She's seeing a movie with her female friends and then going to her aunts. I'm going to a baseball game with another girl and to see fireworks...but I tell her it's with a coworker which is true[ ]. That night she texts me updates...about how good the movie is, etc. That she's home.["i'm available if u wanna fvck. You having a life and possibly other options increased my attraction but also alerted my 'abandonment paranoia'" ]

The next day we do an outdoor activity. She takes her dog. Doesn't really make eye contact.[fickle creatures] I kind of casually rub her shoulders and hug her when she leaves. I didn't kiss her this time[ ].

I get home and get a text from her saying "You were really quiet tonight."[Are you cheating on me? Well, i have my excuse now] I ask her to hang out 2 nights during the week but she says she's busy[Busy sucking d1ck. You cheated on me so I have an excuse] so maybe this weekend. This girl also rarely texts me first[never text her again]...but when I text her...she replies immediately[AW. Nothing important in her life. Desperate.]. I'm talking within a minute. I know she's buying a house so she is busy[That's your hamster rationalizing.].

Should I stay or bail on her? Also, what is the optimal amount of times to text a girl a day[You only reply to her texts. ]? I'm used to getting affectionate texts from girls...I get none from her[You are suffering from Affection-Seeking Disorder]. Occasionally I'll send her a text that says 'Thinking of u' and I'll get an 'Awe.'[UGH]

Any help or insight is appreciated...

Hope that helped.

 

[Yewki]

Occasionally I'll send her a text that says 'Thinking of u' and I'll get an 'Awe.'

Any help or insight is appreciated...

Yeah, never do the part in bold again.

 

[Obsidian]

Read the DJ Bible, n00b.

 

[Young OG]

Read the DJ Bible, n00b.

^This

 

[DaddyLongShanks]

"26 year old hottie" you already pedastalized her. She's doing the same thing most other 25 and 26 years old females are doing. So she's juggling dudes, grabbing the best dangling carrot, wishy washy, low attention span, etc.

She might be sucking c0ck or taking on c0ck when she's unavailable. you have to flip the dynamic so she is chasing.

It'll be best if you get some other h0es to play with and start ignoring this one. Only give her attention during sex and even then make it about you.

Currently you are washing her in excessive attention she does not deserve, it feels great for her, for sure. You gotta take it away.

 

[GS750]

Occasionally I'll send her a text that says 'Thinking of u' and I'll get an 'Awe.'

Any help or insight is appreciated...

Please, for the love of Christ, don't do this.

 

[archon8692]

So I barely text her today. None since morning. She texts me a huge text how she fainted at work and is in hospital. I reply with less than 10 words....she writes me paragraphs back.

I do have 3 other girls that are options too.

 

[BrainDamage92]

This is one of the women that "didnt turn out alright". Its not that theres something wrong with her psychologycally, people cry BPD, but I'm sure alot of people with a painfull childhood have a pure heart and are the finest people - I am more than 100% sure - their heart remains childishly pure they just have to let it out but cant. So no, its just that shes the kinda woman who uses diff men for diff pourposes without remorse and her emotions are certainly dulled out. See this is what happens when you repeat "Sexes are equal" 1000000000000000000000 times- couse its a half truth, and an incorrect expression which suggests that "sexes are the same". They aint. Girls (and myself before) dont understand that a man has no issue with having some ***** on the side while still being in love with his girl. **** I been there, its ok, no biggie, even makes you realise how great your girl is compared to the others.

But women are, by nature, unable to feel pleasure from sex unless they have feelings. At least SOME and for girls enjoying sex is a must or they would feel kinda raped. A girl would call this "passion", the same way they call good looks with a word like "aura" or smth, to not appear superficial to themselves (you see interesting patterns once you really start paying attention to what they say). Anyway when a girl has fuked 20 guys and going strong and enjoying it she is already a man with a vagina AND THIS MY FRIENDS, IS THE REAL ISSUE. Brain damage through emotional turmoil through promiscuity. You cant love 20 people but you must have sex to be socially adequate and you must enjoy it so you must have feelings to do so. So its sad how women are put in this paradox. Back in the day peeps knew that, but a weak society with weak building blocks is easier to govern.

Anyway...

It kinda reminds me of this 26 y old, is in a relationship since 3 years, when I met her she was with her BF and like, 10 other people, so what did she do in front of him and everyone? - sat next to me chatted me up - I said "Im going to the store", in a split second I hear "Wait Ill come with you". This guys is a sad beta if my girl pulled **** like this shed be outta door, but I dont really know him so why bother talking. Maybe he has some practical interest couse she seems to have more money (at least to me). I was buzzed so I didnt pay attention much. Later she contacted me, we talked for a while, apparently she presented her self as this amazing person who studies 2 things simultaneously and is razor sharp smart and talks about stuff like how we must do good to people, and how crazy and bad peeps have become.

Now I know about "helping" and how hollow this whole concept is couse most peeps dont want to be helped but rather deal with **** themselves and I know how parasitic are "unwanted helpers". As Jesus or something put it "Dont feed the beggars for nothing".

Anyhow, I sensed its all fake - the intelligence was absent, it wasnt there, the "kind heart" too, cold blank stare, I rejected her (very nicely (if I had interest there) couse I for real had another date set up and not just lied.

She actually also tried to "hook me up" with a friend of hers who kept talking about how she left a 5 year relationship and how cute all the young boys passing by are. "Oh youre a Libra", she said, "It never works with Libras and me" (well I can imagine). They are both from the worst kind of trashbags, but one doesnt even hide it. They wanted a backup connection for their weed, anyway we went to my place - I had a box of chocolate they ate them all. Mentioned that its impolite - "well this is why were girls".

So in the end she contacted again and I decided to test her. Didnt advance, they are basically my neighbours, and I already knew this girl is not from the "cool kind" who sleep with you and then keep their mouth shut if they have to for some reason.

Long story short she needed me for:

- The feel of doing something forbidden (jealous beta BF requires a "daily report" as she put it (exaggaration of course but there is a grain of truth obv);

- Getting her high for free (still smokes weed... at 26...);


To sum up - blank, lifeless stares in the eyes, a clear contradiction between what she talks about herself and what you sense she is. I have noticed girls around mid-twenties are always well formed as people and easy to read, while younger girls are sometimes in a grey area.

So I get a feeling youre dealing with something like that. The DOG. I forgot it, another common denominator ;]

Alot of people are rotten. They are rottent because they dont have hearts. From both sexes. I think I am not that kind of person, although I am not a good man yet. Sometimes my jaw just drops - feelin like I work in a kindergarten and thousands 3-year olds are rioting in havoc and I have to react. Your jaw drops then and u cant say ****.

 

[archon8692]

We took the dog to an outdoor place...and she took and posted 125 pics of it to facebook.

Her parents had her when they were 16 too.

 

[archon8692]

Hanging out with her later. She has no plans today other than packing. I asked if she wwanted to hangout. She replied When?

So Itold her later after she packed...unless she felt like making a day of it in Pittsburgh. She replied oh OK. Then I said we'll go to drive in or chill at my house. Oh OK.she replied.

I left it at that.

 

[archon8692]

I'm sensing flakage. I texted her See you at 7 or 8. She replied Ummmm what. I replied Hang out. She replied ic.

She's obviously playing games to get guys interested...time to go silent on her.

 

[Suspens]

Nah she just showed you the middle finger, which you deserved.

 

[archon8692]

Nah she just showed you the middle finger, which you deserved.

Why did I deserve it?