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What's that? *sniff* *sniff*
Is that BPD I smell cooking?
hmm...
Is that BPD I smell cooking?
hmm...
Yea, what he said.jophil28 said:Competition is a fact of life. However if they turn out to be bad prospects we will toss 'em back at ya.
Maybe she is just "finding herself" after all those years of "patriachal oppression" at the hands of the OP ....Or maybe she is just what Danger said.Danger said:Nah, doesn't sound anything like a BPD. Just a normal run-of-the-mill entitled cougar freshly hatched from her cocoon.
That "switch" has been the subject of a few discussions here from time to time.imaluvnit said:Hey that's funny, That's the name in my phone for XXX Wife, AKA the Iceberg!!!! Man it's amazing she must have this switch in her head she can just turn off and never act like I even existed!!! wow it hurts but I guess time will take care of that.
You clearly built a monster, dude.imaluvnit said:Here go's, a little back history. She has always dealt with depression, on and off meds for the last 24 yrs. In the last 2 years she had lost 50+ lbs, Now how she did it, I must mention that she always said that I was unsupportive. Here go's, we took 4 cycling/spin classes a week which 3 of them I teach, I also do all the cooking so I make everything super low fat high in protein and in low carbs, I also taught her how to workout with weights and she also did weight watchers. Ok I can here it now!!!! I built a monster. .
Uggh. The more I read, the worse it gets!imaluvnit said:Andy
but I find it hard to do as I have spent so many years supporting her and my family for all those years. I always put her and my sons first and my needs came second. I'm trying to act like i'm not mad but is very hard to do, I feel like a disposable lighter, she used me up and just tossed me away like some trash.
imaluvnit said:Hidden Hand
thank's for your comments, I know it all to be true, but it is hard to get past feeling like a disposable lighter that has been all used up and just thrown away. I'm trying to get over being angry I hope it fades here in the near future. I am ready to go hunt down some younger stuff though, it just seems like the right thing to do, I have already gone out with 30 yr old girl from el salvador that I work with. don't know how long it will last but I'm having fun in the mean time.
Men frequently err by talking too much. They often monopolize conversations, droning on and on about topics that bore women to tears. They think they're impressing the women when, in reality, they're depressing the women.
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No honey, women your age want women 5-10 years younger. I'm 10 years older than you, and I want women no less than 30.speakeasy said:While I understand why older guys want to date younger women, out of selfish interest, I don't like the idea. Because it just makes more competition for women in my age range. Guys my age want women around my age, guys that are older want women in my age, so that just makes these women in this age group think they are even more valuable.
Here ^^^imaluvnit said:...I find it hard to do as I have spent so many years supporting her and my family for all those years. I always put her and my sons first and my needs came second.
OOPS! That should have been no OLDER than 30.MatureDJ said:No honey, women your age want women 5-10 years younger. I'm 10 years older than you, and I want women no less than 30.