23 years old and never had a girlfriend?

[Dukester]

im not close to being 23, but i can kinda relate. since about freshman year in hs to now, i've had like 20 girlfriends. only 1 of those were really serious.

now, i'm pimpin it, and enjoying the dj life w/ all the hot, more mature college chicks

 

[ToughGuy]

Hey!! cannibustacap

Hey cannibustacap
I am also passing thru the same stage.
I really liked the way you want this guy to improve and to pull him out of mess.

Keep it up buddy
Your advice did help me too.

Thanks buddy

 

[Player_Supreme]

Your doing all the right things. Now read the bible and do the boot camp. It is the practice of bootcamp that will create the most change in you.

You can be skinny and still catch women. You can be ugly and still catch women if your mouthpiece (convo) is good. Women love conversation. It's like a drug to them.

 

[Caesar20]

Kraut don't go to Dalmatia. The prices have risen over the last year considerably, which results in two-digit percent fall of interest for croatia at all (at least among Slovenians).
The hit of the year is Bulgaria or Greece.

Also, I must say I'm just like you...with the exception that I didn't play at various bands, but spent all my free time in front of a computer (the only good side to it is that I have win 2000/ xp administration figured all the way (W/ the exception of networks), but unfortunately I never took programming, I just wasted time on the net, P2P & stuff (and am wasting)).
almost everything else..like I'd be writing it myself, except that I talk to girls next to nothing these days.



I am starting Bootcamp in the first or second week of October when the UNI starts again
not a lot of girls, but I can't imagine myself on an arts major or sht like that. Maybe maths or physics (if i'd be slightly better) but ME is imo THE right choice for me.
but on the other hand there are a lot of girls around in the city.

 

[kraut]

Well i know you slowenians are not so much into croatia
Maybe you're right though...I might try greece or bulgaria sometime in the future.
I heard Ibiza is a wonderful joint as well...

Funny enough, I agree to what "blue 17" said about the exponential growth in interest. This was my feeling as well.
Size doesn't matter as much as build. And build can be modified. I've heard this from a good friend of mine as well.
Really skinny people have much less chances than "normal" or muscular guys with women.

I think that subconciously (instinct-wise) girls think a slim-built structure can not "protect" them...whereas a normal or muscular type does evoke that impression.

Thing is, that I will have to work very hard towards achieving a strong build since my bone structure itself is very slim.
I don't think one can bulk up on bone-mass, or?

I tend to go for smaller women. This is probably due to human instinct ?

Anyway I am studiying the shuma gora and boot-camp and what not.

Thanks for your interest in my string. I'll keep you posted on news.
Cannibus: I might get back to you some time soon.
last but not least. I think this forum is really great. It has given me a hugh boost !!!
keep up the good work!
Jawohl Kraut! Wir werrrrrden den Endsieg bald verspürrrren!!!!

 

[Matt Rogers]

Kraut, like me you think far too much. There is no scientific formula that will get you women. You just have to stop making excuses and ask for numbers. Some girls will like you some won't. Also it sounds as if like me you have too high standards. Even if you are good looking, lack of experience will count against you. Flirt with all girls, start dating 5s and 6s for practice and build up to 8s and 9s. I highly recommend you read Pook's Antidump series.

Being thin is not your biggest barrier. Some girls like thin men(although a good number of these are fat girls!)

However I would recommend you bulk up. Firstly it does wonders for your confidence and makes you feel more "manly". Secondly, it adds to your physical appeal raising you a point or two on the scale. You don't need to go overboard. Just eat a lot more (especially milk and meat) and do some heavy compound exercises like bench presses, rows, chins, squats etc. See the Health and Fitness Section

 

[cannibustacap]

Well, you don't want to be this guy
http://img77.exs.cx/img77/5696/welcome2.jpg

Anyway, don't make up excuses for yourself. Skinny means they don't think you'll protect them. Come off it already. There are plenty of bad looking, weak guys who get all the Hot Babes because they have it together mentally.

Work on your inner game and your outer game will evolve with it. When you just work on your outer game and not inner, you will seem fake and insecure and everything else that is wrong with those hot guys who break down in front of girls and end up getting nothing except from many those emo crazy angsty teenage fat chicks.

 

[jakethasnake]

Originally posted by kraut
Funny enough, I agree to what "blue 17" said about the exponential growth in interest. This was my feeling as well.
Size doesn't matter as much as build. And build can be modified. I've heard this from a good friend of mine as well.
Really skinny people have much less chances than "normal" or muscular guys with women.

I think that subconciously (instinct-wise) girls think a slim-built structure can not "protect" them...whereas a normal or muscular type does evoke that impression.

Kraut,

It really depends on the culture. America for example is the "land of roughnecks and anti-cerebral dumbphucks" - it is the land where brawn rules of brain, at least on a sub-conscious level. Our culture has been defined by the frontier mentality of yesteryear, where only the baddest, meanest, and strongest survive. It's reflected in the nations' literal OBSSESSION with size, as size is a significant indicator of dominance (there are other non-viseceral signs as well, but the visual signs are often the most visceral). Therefore in addition to huge cars, big meals, and tall buildings, we see huge steroid apes ALL OVER America, whereas you don't see it quite as much in Europe or Asia.


I've noticed in my travels around Europe and Asia and Africa that this phenomenon hasn't proliferated in those places. But anyway, your thoughts reflect the values of your own country, but trust me - if you came here as a 5'7", 115 pound guy, you would be grilled mercilessly. Sad but true.