21 years old, body count 32, never had sex with a girl I didn't meet online. (With statistics)

[Fookcensorship]

Most guys barely get anything decent online, that's why that advice is given.

I have done so, deleted everything but tinder, but there is the issue that since I'm terrible at cold approach, I'll get nothing.

 

[Fookcensorship]

Try going out more, travelling and meeting people. But if you do, remember to take your clipboard.

Snarkiness noted. Gave me a good laugh. Do you get anxiety when travelling to a foreign country or state and sex is not guaranteed?

 

[bat soup]

Snarkiness noted. Gave me a good laugh. Do you get anxiety when travelling to a foreign country or state and sex is not guaranteed?

It´s important to get those statistics. Personally I don´t because I'm used to travelling. Sex isn't really guaranteed anywhere, but you can increase your chances by going to the right places.

 

[Fookcensorship]

It´s important to get those statistics. Personally I don´t because I'm used to travelling. Sex isn't really guaranteed anywhere, but you can increase your chances by going to the right places.

Where are the right places? I went to London last weekend and saw some "virgin who wanted to play with candles" turns out she wasn't a virgin, had a boyfriend, and had a high pain tolerance.

 

[Fookcensorship]

My immediate thoughts are - the greatest thing about virgins is how naive and easy they are. Nicely done.

Guys seem to assume the opposite. That slvts are easy. In my fact, my experience is the opposite. Low notch girls are way more easy and fun to Game.

With your method - You’re missing out on a lot of girls who immediately strike guys off who are “sex focused”. The reality is that sex-focused guys are massively boring for the majority of women - they have to be attracted to the guy for sex to start being interesting. So leading with sexual stuff without warming a girl up first (which is what the vast majority of girls require) cuts a big part of the market away from you. Girls have this weird thing where if they think your goal is sex then they see you as basic and boring - this is purely due to the amount of d1ck thrown at them day-to-day

Interesting point, I will need to change up my strategy, and I agree with you on low notch count girls, besides the sexual experience, however, leading with non sexual texts tend to lead to a non-sexual experience, as I am terrible at escalating besides a few on the nose pointers here and there.

On a side note, I no longer swipe on tinder or hinge, and wait for girls to swipe on me, as the response rate per swipe is rock bottom

How would you go about gaining a woman's attention and escalating it?

 

[DonJuanjr]

I'm not a guy OP but will recommend these books by Robert Greene anyway as I know his books have helped a lot of guys.

The Concise 48 Laws Of Power

The Concise Mastery

The Concise Art of Seduction

Happy reading!

Being that you're a female, on a male dominant forum... I think it would be better to describe situations of what men did to gain your attention, and how they escalated sexually with you. Guys can get seduction book suggestions from most on here...

 

[bat soup]

Where are the right places? I went to London last weekend and saw some "virgin who wanted to play with candles" turns out she wasn't a virgin, had a boyfriend, and had a high pain tolerance.

That always happens. That's why I avoid London these days.

 

[Sebastian0001]

Pretty much in all cases, I have mentioned stuff like handcuffs and other kinky stuff on my bio in a couldn't care less manner

Went out with a chick yesterday and clearly did not expect sex since I was going home from a vacation after , she told me today that we shouldn't see each other again since she'd be abroad for vacation and didn't want to make me wait (and we all know what that means)

no, we don't all know what it means - what does it mean to you?