2013 basically sucked

[skinnyguy]

I had a really bad year. But I think I'm due for a good year. I had good years in 1999, 2002, 2005, 2008, and 2011…so that means I must be due right? This year I had some problems with drinking and some stupid job issues. For the dating front, it wasn't so good either.

Discuss how your year went…I want to get people's opinion on how 2013 went. I must not be the only one who had a horrible year right?

 

[Maximus Rex]

You're Doing Too Much

If Rex smoked weed, you would kill his high.

 

[aWolf]

Too much negativity man.. If I was looking back this year the way you do. I would say the same. But I'm looking through bright glasses.

Looking through your eyes: got dumped by girlfriend. Kicked out of med school after 4 years. Got diagnosed with Major depression disorder. Got poor that I lived days with 1 dollar in my pocked stealing food, asking people for money. Family issues back home. Lost faith in everything. Prayed every night that I wouldn't wake up in the morning. Broke my leg twice. Became skinny really skinny.

But I remained positive throughout and everything change: i have a gf HB10 6 years younger. I have lots of beautiful female to fvck. Became Alpha. Entered business school finance major. Started my own advertising company. Partying every weekend. Anti-depression medications made me motionless; I don't get Oneitis or fall in love hard thats why became aloof and had amused mastery. Self mastery. I have decent money, roof on my head. Good clothes. Family became closer and closer. My body now is ripped and hot. I love and enjoy life.


Just by keeping faith and believing in God and his decisions. Positive mindset. You'll owm the world

 

[JaegerPilot217]

only positive for me is that in 2013 I finally lost my virginity, although I still haven't gotten the full pleasure of sex yet since I kept having erection problems probably due to anxiety

 

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Too much negativity man.. If I was looking back this year the way you do. I would say the same. But I'm looking through bright glasses.

Looking through your eyes: got dumped by girlfriend. Kicked out of med school after 4 years. Got diagnosed with Major depression disorder. Got poor that I lived days with 1 dollar in my pocked stealing food, asking people for money. Family issues back home. Lost faith in everything. Prayed every night that I wouldn't wake up in the morning. Broke my leg twice. Became skinny really skinny.

But I remained positive throughout and everything change: i have a gf HB10 6 years younger. I have lots of beautiful female to fvck. Became Alpha. Entered business school finance major. Started my own advertising company. Partying every weekend. Anti-depression medications made me motionless; I don't get Oneitis or fall in love hard thats why became aloof and had amused mastery. Self mastery. I have decent money, roof on my head. Good clothes. Family became closer and closer. My body now is ripped and hot. I love and enjoy life.


Just by keeping faith and believing in God and his decisions. Positive mindset. You'll owm the world

holy sh*t! if OP has only been through half of that he should hang his head in shame for creating this thread.

 

[skinnyguy]

Well, it is all relative. I had an amazing year compared to a starving child in Rwanda. But for my standards, it was a bad year. That's all I'm saying. I'm just hoping for different outcomes in 2014 and YES I am staying positive. I think that my 2014 will be much better if I can stick to my goals and toughen up a little bit.

 

[foreverAFC]

i vaporized a lot of good pot and trained in a lot of jiu jitsu, ill be doing the same next year

 

[rushing dude 123]

Too much negativity man.. If I was looking back this year the way you do. I would say the same. But I'm looking through bright glasses.

Looking through your eyes: got dumped by girlfriend. Kicked out of med school after 4 years. Got diagnosed with Major depression disorder. Got poor that I lived days with 1 dollar in my pocked stealing food, asking people for money. Family issues back home. Lost faith in everything. Prayed every night that I wouldn't wake up in the morning. Broke my leg twice. Became skinny really skinny.

But I remained positive throughout and everything change: i have a gf HB10 6 years younger. I have lots of beautiful female to fvck. Became Alpha. Entered business school finance major. Started my own advertising company. Partying every weekend. Anti-depression medications made me motionless; I don't get Oneitis or fall in love hard thats why became aloof and had amused mastery. Self mastery. I have decent money, roof on my head. Good clothes. Family became closer and closer. My body now is ripped and hot. I love and enjoy life.


Just by keeping faith and believing in God and his decisions. Positive mindset. You'll owm the world

Was reading that and wondering what the positive was going to be to top the negative that I just read and I got to say Well done, looks like you did have a good year. It's darkest before the dawn as they say, problems and fall backs will make you stronger in character and a good character brings out a lot of good change.


Skinnyguy: This can be a good year if you choose for it to be, fate or the sequence of many bad years doesn't distinguish the outcome of next year, it's you. I have a feeling you made this post because you were wishing to make that change, so good job on that, just make sure to learn from your so called failures of last year and be positive, as all the good things follow positive people (Sucess, fulfillment, knowledge, women, money). Also remember Failure is wisdom for success.

 

[GS750]

So 2013 sucked for you Skinny. What are you going to do to make 2014 the best year of your life? 1998 was the worst year of my life, I was 18. I was totally lost. Flunked out of high school and rejected by the military because of it, my uncle died, etc. Take your sh*tty year and use it as a motivator to better yourself.

 

[adam225]

QUESTION SKINNYGUY: why does it have to suck if you've learnt so much from it ? Wasn't 2013 more of a turning point than a failure ? After all, look how far you've come over the past few months.... The future will only get better...

 

[tripod23]

well guys as this year comes to a close , i can trully say this has been a full year of learning, its also been a very painfull year with all the shyt i have posted about , god only knows how it must feel to lose a close family member or something like that , so my heart goes out to anyone who has gone through that sort of situation.

i have done a lot of thinking in the last few months , i have realised that women are a very tough nut to crack once you have fallen out or broken up with them , they can if you let them stop your life in its tracks, with the head games

this is why its very important to handle things correctly as soon as she gives you the ljbf speech , you have to remain calm , tell her it doesnt work for you , tell her to call you when she changes her mind , then walk away. its the only way.

this year i have made a total fool of myself in the way i have dealt with things with my ex , i have now reached a point where i know its done and its over , and there is never any going back to this wh-re .

the things i have learnt will help me in the future , and this is how we all need to think , because dwelling on what we should have done or said is no good .

one other thing that i have learnt is that women will and do say things to get there own way , and i dont mean in the usual way that they do it , i mean in a way which is totally planned to hurt you after a breakup , if you end up dealing with women who you feel have some sort of personallity disorder , bpd , passive agressive and the like , i would say read up about this stuff asap and watch the red flags jump out at you one by one.....then run for the hills .

i can trully say i have never had to deal with such a fvcked up chick in my life , foolishly for me i believed the shyt she was coming out with against my better judgments , but i know it will serve me well in the future , so as painfull as its been its also priceless at the same time.

i am being positive in regards to next year , i am hoping to find a couple of plates as i really need to be in the right frame for this, i am going to work hard , try to buy a house , and make adjustments to my life to get back to that happy place where i once was.

i wish all you guys all the best for 2014

peace fellas

 

[TheGambino]

Happynewyear brothers do what you gotta do