2010: Give your year end review and goals for the future.

[J. Darko]

2010
Failed to figure out what I want from life.
Failed to make friends.
Failed to get a girlfriend.
Failed to finish my study.
Failed to get a job.
Failed to lower body fat to 10 percent.
Failed to bench press 100 Kg.

2011
Figure out wether I want to be the best marketeer, salesman, lawyer, or banker.

Figure out the things I have to do in order to earn > 120.000 euro's tax free before I'm 30, start doing those things and be succesful in them.

Finish my study with > 8 for every course.

Get a job on academic level that pays at least 30.000 euro and gives me the opportunity to work 32 - 60 hours and is able to serve as basis for a next career step, like going from regular employer to manager or from an employer of a small business firm to an employer of a huge business firm.

Be a member of at least one board.

Get at least 12 business consultancy orders and make money from those projects at least 7 times.

Lower stress levels by going to bed early and rising early consistently, sleeping consistently for 7.5 hours every day, stop pondering and planning work and stick woth the plans to make the deadlines.

Lower body fat to 10 percent.
Bench press > 100 Kg 2x12.
Dumbbell Curl 30 Kg 2x12, barbell curl > 60 Kg.
Squat > 125 Kg 2x12.

 

[Warrior74]

Okay. Time to put my money where my mouth is. No more KJing.

 

[kennygarou]

to warrior74, I am in financial debt too, i am curious to know what streams of income you have ? I wanna learn and get out of the rat race. I am from singapore by the way , this country here is all about money money money, i am getting sick of it. Anyway to prevent from getting off topic here, I am just a fat guy . My aim is to get in shape for the year 2011. My goal in life is always to achieve financial freedom and get out of the rat race , but i don't know where to begin, i spent most of my life working and have very little time for enjoyment. As for women , i am making significant progress over the past two years ever since i started cold approaching , being more confident in my own skin. I had over like eight girls for these past two years , most of them HB 6 and 7 . Recently I manage to get a HB 9 for the very first time. Yes , i do get laid . I have never been so much happier . I enjoy *******s and the sex they gave me, it makes me so happy. Anyway to cut to the chase, i know eight girls may not seem much of a progress (as i am busy) , but i want to try to get more 9s and even a 10 . But the responses i get from most 9s don't even mention a 10 , don't seem to be attracted to me , no matter what i say or do, I think it has got to do with me being overweight and i want to change that for 2011. That's all i got to say ..... and warrior74 hit me up on my email kennygarou@yahoo.com.sg as I can't seem to send you a PM. Hope you can really help me out bro, if not it is ok...

 

[Warrior74]

to warrior74, I am in financial debt too, i am curious to know what streams of income you have ? I wanna learn and get out of the rat race. I am from singapore by the way , this country here is all about money money money, i am getting sick of it. Anyway to prevent from getting off topic here, I am just a fat guy . My aim is to get in shape for the year 2011. My goal in life is always to achieve financial freedom and get out of the rat race , but i don't know where to begin, i spent most of my life working and have very little time for enjoyment. As for women , i am making significant progress over the past two years ever since i started cold approaching , being more confident in my own skin. I had over like eight girls for these past two years , most of them HB 6 and 7 . Recently I manage to get a HB 9 for the very first time. Yes , i do get laid . I have never been so much happier . I enjoy *******s and the sex they gave me, it makes me so happy. Anyway to cut to the chase, i know eight girls may not seem much of a progress (as i am busy) , but i want to try to get more 9s and even a 10 . But the responses i get from most 9s don't even mention a 10 , don't seem to be attracted to me , no matter what i say or do, I think it has got to do with me being overweight and i want to change that for 2011. That's all i got to say ..... and warrior74 hit me up on my email kennygarou@yahoo.com.sg as I can't seem to send you a PM. Hope you can really help me out bro, if not it is ok...

I'm not doing anything special or super fancy in terms of income. I'm an editor/animator/motion graphics artist at a tv network. That's my core income. I started my own website to sell my services to local ad agencies and video production houses. These are my high end customers. I just finished a $5k job, and staring on another one next month. I started another website selling video services to low end internet marketers, which brings in $300 to $500 a month for very little work. I have two clickbank products I am promoting that are starting to pay off about $50-$100 a month. And I'm starting to sell a health supplement that is really a multilevel marketing business, the product works, but its all about the MLM. My mentor makes about $2k a month doing that, I've seen her checks and I want to get to her level.

Once I get the rest of my debts paid off, I want to start funneling money into my high end video services and start hiring freelancers/part timers.

I also want to learn more about investing and the market.

And I feel you about being fat. It's the biggest block to my game right now. 2011 is the year of getting the belly lean and the pockets fat.

 

[betheman]

2011 for me!

well kiss back of 2010 for one, Ive a decent job, actually a job I love, its quite demanding and stressful but I love it, its pretty secure even in the current climate and its reasonably well paid, no money worries although I could do with planing and investing better.

still getting over an ex and a bad case of oneitis, i cant believe what an unbelievable wuss I had become, I hadnt realised it but I have a lot of don juan traits in me but lived the life of an afc believing that was the way! thank god for this site.

ex wife of 20+ years is actually a very good woman except she is quite boring, my last ex ltr, was anything but boring however she had history, lots of red flags which went pretty much ignored by me, also got punched when driving the car on two separate occasions! how much of a wuss?
anyway! the future, need to lose approx 15 lbs also need to firm up and get the muscle back Ive lost.
I want to learn french, to a decent conversationalis level, also learnign to play guitar, now those two thingsd will impress people and in particular the ladies however I want to do them for me first and foremost!

new women? havent really got any plans, I figure if I lose weight, beef up, can speak french, play a bit of guitar, progress in my job and builld on my already very good reputation and continue to work hard, interest wil grow naturaly, however!!!!
I do need to work on being more sexual around women, I am quite c&f naturaly, I use inuendo a lot and its quite natural and gets a good response but I need to escalate it into something more meaningful than merely using it for laughs, im not getting the payoff I should.

 

[SharinganUser]

2010:

Had it's ups and downs, mostly downs. Slept with some women I shouldn't have slept with, gained 40lbs. Ups include, won $1200 in poker, visited Shaolin Temple, made 3rd and 4th trips to China, that's about it.

2011:

Lose 60lbs

Make $10k in poker

get my self worth issues worked out.

 

[omkara]

Um, I got my first full time job out of college which starts on monday. That's the most important thing I guess.

I'm starting a new band where I pay a jazz drummer and I need the job to pay for that.

I haven't had a date since early december, which was a coffee date and then I called to follow up and she didn't respond so I nexted her. My social life is fairly nonexistent.

For next year my goals are to use the band as a vehicle to be more social and have some fun, and make a good impression at my job.

thanks for making this thread W74.

 

[Desdinova]

My review thread is right here.

Yeah, it's been a crazy year for me with the ending of my marriage, but the biggest hurdle for me has been the adjustment to being single again.

I'm more inclined to look at myself 10 years ago which was a huge year for me. The girl I was madly in love with ended our engagement, I couldn't afford the place I was living in, and pretty much my whole world came crashing down. I found this place, made the transition from AFC to DJ, did some improvement on myself which included dealing with my childhood trauma and the effects of being raised in a cult. 2001 was a big year for me, and had the biggest effect on my life and personality. I doubt I will ever go through a transition of such a large scale again, but it's nice to look back at how I was at one of my lowest points, and look at myself now to see how far I've come.

2010 was definitely a year of change and adjustment, but I'm looking forward to 2011 as being a year of fun, excitement, and progression. I have two concerts to see (so far) this year, and I've signed up for dance classes. I've also started playing music out in public again and hope to take my performing to new heights - not necessarily fame, but to become better at it.

And I brought in 2011 by pleasuring a woman instead of counting. She looked over at the clock and said "oh by the way, happy new year!" There's nothing quite as refreshing as starting off a new year with your face covered in pvssy juice.

 

[Stud]

2010:

bought into a company, holding an executive position over 40 people at age 23
got engaged
started year with 0 real estate investment units, closed on my 10th on 12/30
went on two "guys trips" with friends

failures:

failed to cut bodyfat/weight
failed to increase strength
some failures related to my business

2011 goals:

fix company's big problems, take over $2 mil in gross sales
close on personal townhouse
start self storage company
start android/iphone app dev company
buy 2 rental properties per month in 2011
begin learning German for 2012 trip to oktoberfest
get married
read 26 books (1 every 2 weeks, including notes!!)
create a blog chronicling my weight loss/muscle gain
learn a basic computer programming language
evaluate MBA programs to begin in 2012
travel: florida, north carolina, carribean, australia
shoot under 85, maybe take lessons
brew at least 3 batches of beer and 3 of wine

 

[runner83]

2010:

Around August 2009, walked out of a stable govt job in babe central (ask Jophil) to work for a private (later turned out to be dodgy) contractor. Left them end of 2009 with no other job on the horizon (admittedly my career is in short supply, so I was confident of getting another job).

Got another job back with my old dept but in another town (where I had never lived before and knew no one) about 1500km away in Feb 2010. Been with them since then.

Achieved professional registration for my profession late in 2010 (there are 2 types).

Have made some good friends through work, since there is a good crew there. Was guilty of dipping my "pen in the company ink" on a few occasions, including one that turned into an STR.

After years of only aerobic exercise e.g. running, cycling (i.e. very fit, but not much muscle), started doing weights in March 2010 and have added about 30 pounds (mostly muscle) since then, through training and sensible nutrition. Strength gains also are good so far.

Had some injuries from running, but mixed it up with swimming / cycling so these are now fixed.

Finances are good. If I wanted to, based on my savings now, I could go about 3-4 years without even having to work.


2011 Goals

* One is to go AF (i.e. Alcohol Free). There were several occasions in 2010 when I did very silly things because of drinking. Have gone AF periods in the past and it was great.

* Work wise will be working away on a major project, based in a smaller town. Will be working long hours to do well on this.

* Continue with lifting and proper nutrition to continue to gain size and strength, while also maintaining aerobic exercise program (e.g. running) for fitness (some compromise here...)

* Continue to not look at porn (already on top of this) and get the real thing instead. However, no "dipping the pen in the company ink", no matter how tempting the piece of *ss. :nono:

* Continue my investment activities in allowance for the predicted 2011 share market recovery.

* I'll be living in a smaller town during the week, so opportunities may be limited, subject to field verification. However, will use online dating e.g. POF (numbers rolling in now), random approaches, and maintain contact with social group in my hometown on the weekend.

Looking for sex only with minimal commitment. No relationships apart from f/b with a girl during 2011.