2009 New Years Resolutions, Official Thread

[Bryce556]

As we leave 2008 behind and welcome the new year of 2009 its that time again to look how far we have come and make some new goals and resolutions for the new year.

1. What are your greatest achivements with your Game/girls, life, and DJ related stuff from 2008?

2. What are your new years resolutions for 2009?




Heres mine:

1. in 2008 I lost my virginity, improved my game with girls tenfold, I have become very comfortable with number closeing after number closeing my first girl, and improved in all aspects of my life with more confidence a new job, and going to university.

Overall I would have to say that 2008 has been the best year of my life thus far, and looking back I have come so far from who I was a year ago.

2. My goals for the new years that pop to mind are,

-Kiss close a girl
-work on cold approching, in daygame, a HB in public places such as the mall or supermarket and such
-gain 15-20 pounds of muscle
-generally keep improving my DJ skills

 

[S.Y.L]

Dude, your from abbotsford?


Seven Oaks mall has the ****ing hottest chicks ever there.

 

[Bryce556]

haha ya, i guess lol I havent noticed a differnence in any mall around here ive been too. seven oaks is were I go sargeing mainly though

 

[S.Y.L]

Haha, I always see HB9's and 10s there. Don't go to Mission or Maple Ridge though, ugliest girls ever.

 

[The Inside Man]

cool thread idea.

1. My achievements in 08: survived shoulder surgery, was employed by a presidential campaign(that won), on new years eve last year I met a gorgeous latina girl while I was on vacation and salsa'ed and made out with her until the club closed at 6am, I started kayaking and cycling seriously, got head from a hot 18yr old American in a hostel bathroom in madrid spain after a night of dancing in the biggest club I have ever been in (Kapital) all during my first trip to Europe. I saved my dog's life twice by rushing him to an emergency vet, and had the most meaningful job I have ever had.

2. I might have to have shoulder surgery again so that is definitely one obstacle I have in 2009... I hope to have it heal back without having to go through that ordeal again. I want to get a job that makes over 30k a year which is pretty good for someone just out of college with a lib arts degree, I want to date a hot girl exclusively for a while (have one in mind) as well as hook up with some random college hotties again, I want to get more involved in my church, I want to quit smoking weed permanently although I have cut down to once a week, and I want to meet some new people and catch some big ass fish.

 

[chinwaggler]

Mine are:

1. Eat healthier
2. Do well in my University course
3. Improve game
4. Survive shoulder surgery :O
5. Become a licenced bouncer
6. Pass my driving test.

Wow a lot. By the way guys, I think it's better with resolutions and stuff to not create a target, because then if you don't reach it, you feel de-motivated. So instead of gain 15lb of muscle, 'tone up'. That's my opinion though.

 

[TheWayOfAllFlesh]

1. Get A Job
2. Overcome AA
3. Kiss close a stranger on a night out
4. Work out
5. Get a girlfriend
6. Lose Virginity

 

[theunflushables]

I have only one resolution, but it pretty much covers everything: Aim Higher.

 

[slaog]

1. Learn a foreign language
2. Eat healthier
3. Keep improving myself so that I'm more confident etc.
3. Bulk up a small bit
4. Spend more free time being productive instead of wasting it.
5. Be more helpful to others.
6. Meet new people and make more friends.


Happy new years everybody!

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

2008 have been the best year of my life. I found community on 2007 but i was just a theorist. On 2008 i fully focused on my self improvement and my life is now how i always wanted to be. Before , girls had relationship because of my look. I could get a girl only if she liked me. So i had no choice on women. Now , im able to attract girls that i want. Before , i started getting too much in my head. Some people in my school we're amoging me constantly , and that made me a big PVSSY. But now , im very respected , i have really large social circle , im the leader and they follow me. In a few words , i changed from CHUMP to CHAMP. Because of my hard work.

GOALS:

• Eat healthier
• Go to gym at least 4 times a week
• Bulk up more
• Get good grades on university
• Make my parents proud
• I want to remove the "bad nights" where i dont pull anything completely from my reality
• Get a threesome/foursome
• Kiss close a stranger ... without saying a word to them
• Improve more and more
• Stay away from my fvcking computer

Thats all i could think right now.



HAPPY NEW YEAR GUYS !!!!
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[gonnamakeit]

2008 is definetly my best year ever also. I got a lot stronger gained some muscle. In everyway athleticly got way better than ever. I got myself to finally be able to train 2 hrs a day 6 days a week in addition to lifting. I went from a fairly unknown loser to a well known cool guy. I got way more confident. I did my first ever attempt at getting a girls number through a cold approac. I completed first 3 weeks of djbc. I approached 20 girls in one day twice. I went out with the intention of doing 10 approaches and getting rejected on them (by approaching women much older than me and in inconvient situations) and did it. Completed first two steps of COC. Completed Unstoppable confidence. Fixed all my injuries and imbalances through difficult rehab exercises every day. Got much better at learning to relax in competition. Learned a lot. Also got my diet perfect with 100% complience. Got leaner. And all of that stuff was in the last 8 most of it the last 6 months of the year. After I found this site. Looking back now I am real pround of myself I changed more than I ever have in that short of a time.




This year I will complete the DJBC get a real consistent dating life (like a few dates a week with different girls) get laid. Make sure I am completly mentally prepared for all competitions so I can perform at my best. Win some big tournaments. Get not just a decent body but a great one get down to upper single digit bf and add 20-30 pounds of muscle. DJBC is main thing I think once that is done I will be where I want to be and getting better will just be icing on the cake. But I am sure I will find more stuff to do.

 

[gonnamakeit]

OO yeah forgot get liscence. Get rid of all traces of oneitis Also lots of guys seem to want to bulk up check out stronglifts 5x5 it is great I actuall found this place through that site. www.stronglifts.com

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

1. Control my Diabetes better.
2. Work out more.
3. Drink less. (xcept for tonight ) - Happy New Years!
5. Get a job.. Being laid off sucks.

I'd say those are my main goals.

For those who read my thread. You guys need to make plans to your goals this new year. Right down how your gonna achieve what you want. Keep a log of your progess and stick to it!

 

[WhitePimp]

Keep believing in myself and stay confident. When I'm good, I'm the best I've ever seen but I keep letting my self-doubt mess with my head and fvck things up. I need to just let go of all that BS and truly believe in myself. I'm feeling good about 2009!

 

[armstrong]

I want to make a resolution every year but never do it because I can never figure out what the **** to do. I want to have success with women. I want to lead a healthy, social life. But I have no clue where to begin.

I've sat around before each New Year and thought about this same junk since I was a teenager. I'm almost 30 now. It's so depressing.

It would be easier if I had friends who enjoy going out, as I don't want to hit the club by myself. But they're all either married, involved or working.

 

[lildevil]

learn how to establish rapport faster
stop drinking
learn how to dance
get a car

 

[gonnamakeit]

I want to make a resolution every year but never do it because I can never figure out what the **** to do. I want to have success with women. I want to lead a healthy, social life. But I have no clue where to begin.

I've sat around before each New Year and thought about this same junk since I was a teenager. I'm almost 30 now. It's so depressing.

It would be easier if I had friends who enjoy going out, as I don't want to hit the club by myself. But they're all either married, involved or working.

Don't worry about the past man this is a new year the years in the past have no effect on this year. Don't look at the past there was a first time for everything. RJ makes the analogy of the right brothers oooo look back at the past no one has ever flown before so that means it won't happen. Well it did happen and so will your goals. Don't wait for the new year you can start over and change everything at any given SECOND. And a great place to start is right here http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/djbc.pdf and don't worry if you fail or have a do or die attitude like I did the first time I tried it every time you try and fail it is just takeing you one step closer to your success and you will learn and improve every time.

Forgot another thing on where you go begin describe youself in the present in the positive as you want yourself to be write it down doesn't need to be all encompassing but detail it.
Look at what you need to do to get there and what happens you need to have and what habits you need to lose start adding in the ones you need and getting rid of the ones that are holding you back. EXAMPLE. I have faith in myself I love meeting new women I have lots of loyal freinds I am 200 pounds with 10 percent body fat. All in the positive all in the present. Start experimenting and signing up for all sorts of activities that will improve you and you may enjoy dancing,boxing, sports, music, art classes cooking classes, languge classes there is so much you can do that you may enjoy that could become a huge part of your life. Just realized a great spot for this is step one of COC which is free http://www.theinnergameguru.com/ scroll down to the box where it says would you like to hear some free samples of the program and download it step one is the most important one and all you really need. Also go to www.stronglifts.com do the beginner program its like 1 and a half hours a week and it'll really change your life.

And to the guy who said he wants to drink less but not tonight since its new years. Lose that attitude start right now. I kept doing that with my diet I'd be like ok I will start it in two days and would eat as much junk food as possible before I started that was the wrong attitude. Once I decided the time to start was NOW I didn't touch junk food for a year.

 

[LostAndConfused]

Thinking back on '08, I've made a TON of accomplishments. Overcame depression, scored with more girls than I would have imagined possible at the end of '07.

I'm still spending my new years lonely, I was supposed to go out but all my friends were unable. All my "plates" have dropped for the moment, but I can always get some new ones!

My goals for '08:

*Actually hook up with a girl (Yes, I'm serious, I had kissed girls before but never made out)

*Gain 30 lbs (25 of lean muscle) Actually just finished it this month, was 120 lbs at beginning of 08, now I'm 155 now!

*Actually have game with girls. I've gone to parties and hooked up with multiple girls. I'm still not the best kisser but I've gotten pretty good.

*Have sex (the dream). . I got head though so thats a consolation prize.

My goals for 09:
*Have sex.

*Go to the strip club
*Get a hooker (after regular sex preferably), i just want to experience it. None of my forefathers have done it.

*Gain 20 lbs, 12(ish) lbs of lean muscle.

 

[dice]

2008
- I had a major influence on alot of people at my job. They saw how I handled life and they became better people. When I got there it was a miserable work environment. It's now a big family.

- I bulked up alot. I have a six pack and I look awsome.

- I banged a girl that I loved and random girls that I sarged. I will be looking to expand on this in 09.

- I know that I can get any girl that I want.

- I am the person I want to be, FINALLY.

2009
- Fulfill my potential now that I am the person that I want to be.

- Get a real career and a real income and be as successful as I always knew I would be since I was 12.

- Become a sarging master. Be able to go out and get numbers with ease.

- I want to be spinning 4 plates of HB 10s consistantly

- Become social. Have many circles that I can hangout with. Build real friendships.

- Continue my roll I was on in 2008 in building my body up. I will become worthy of the HB 10's I will be spinning.

- Spend more time with family

 

[Luke Skywalker]

Accomplishments for 2008 with God's help:

- Two lawsuits against my mother were AMAZINGLY SETTLED !!!
-- A $ 10 000 judgement was APPEALLED where I served a Notice of Appeal -- rather than spending money on an appeal, they settled us for $ 2000
-- Another $ 6000 judgement was APPEALLED, where I served a Notice of Appealed, and made on amazing Appeal Book, Factum and Brief of Authorities full of legal precedents. They settled for $ 2000 soon after.
Noone else is bothering us on the legal areana.
- I have great credit --- got more lines of credit available, convinced my mom to do the same, and we have lots of combined credit available.

This is about at least $ 12 000 in savings just by knowing the system -- no lawyer was used anywhere.

*****

In terms of girls, as usual, it's rather dead. Had one girl in November but just kissed her and fondled her a$$ a few times while hugging her. First time I ever touched a woman's a$$ -- and she didn't call the cops or do anything, but said she liked it - getting slapped in her a$$ or what not. We went on a couple of dates -- but it crashed and burned badly at the end of the day. I've also started working out on the gym and am still in the program. Had a cougar interested in me earlier this year but it seems I rejected her by deliberately not following up with her. Guess I wasn't that motivated. One lady far away is calling me like many times a day but I think she's crazy.

2009 Resolutions:

1) Try to maintain a positive outlook with everything in life. Have BIG expectations that good things will happen in life which will AMAZE me. Tune in to Joel Olsteen Ministries regularly. See nothing but AMAZING potential for the next year.

Invest time in simply writing down, affirming and stating positive things rather than dwelling on the negative.

2) Complete gym training - with personal trainer and any thing on the market which will help me to get ripped and bulked up at the same time.