I can't wait until I become a creepy, old man!!! Not sure what people are considering old, but I heard someone take a crack at 40. That's hilarious but worth discussing. 40's are when all the fun begins. At least for me... I'm counting on it. I might be married by then. I've got a hell of a woman now, but if I'm swinging single.... look out!!! No women will be safe, ha ha!
Some guys just come together physically and emotionally at that stage of their life and exude a tremendous confidence. Even college-aged women check that out. Now, there are plenty of guys who are over the hill and out of shape from beer-swilling and channel surfing. They kind of hung up their enthusiasm and have settled for mediocrity. Those guys are dreaming about a 20-something year old woman unless she is a fruitcake or a gold digger. They also won't have their pick of women their age either, because they'll be hooking up with all the young guys on this forum who like older women!
I'm gonna look and feel pretty damned good when I make it to the top of the hill. I'm gonna be just where I want to be in my career, all of the work I've put into my body and health will pay off, I will have advanced my passions outside of my career, and I will have all the more experience and confidence on my side. Best of all, I will no longer be a kid.
In all honesty, I'm usually more attracted to women beyond their twenties. I enjoy dating women who are at least my age. Nothing turns me on like a woman who is confident and experienced in addition to being in great shape, physically and emotionally. Watch young women get all bent out of shape at every turn in the road or get careless and put on weight like they're a bodybuilder in the off season... man, that turns me off. Worst of all, you never know how they're going to turn out in the end.... somewhere between 120 and 170 lbs. Somewhere between the paragon of clarity & reason and axe-wielding sociopath. Yes, it's nice to look at sweet, unblemished ass and to appreciate a woman in her twenties for her passion and energy (provided she actually posses either...) but if the debutante attached to said sweet, unblemished ass has nothing intelligent to report, no meaningful life experiences, no ambition or enthusiasm, or absolutely sucks in bed... then, I'm gonna start wondering if she has any older friends with fair skin and dark hair.
Value is subjective. Telling me that a partner who is older than I am is somehow worth less to society or less valuable as a person than the little, college cheerleader you're sexing is a tough pill to swallow. On what grounds? Fertility? Is that what defines a woman and gives her value? I disagree. If beauty and character can withstand the test of time... well, then that's something I value!
To the OP. Thanks for the tips!
