20 year old male virgin, where am I going wrong here?

[wiener_bur]

Here's my story, just like the title says 20 year old virgin. My problem former severe anxiety around prerrt girls, now it's just normal I guess after all those years. All this severe anxiety never let me get in the world of dating, talking to girls and learn about them maybe until I was around late 18s or 19 when I realized I had to get laid and get involved with girls no matter what, since this is not normal. All in all I'm a very good-looking guy, people always tell me man you look like an actor (Brad Pitt, Tom Cruise, Keanu Reeves blah blah blah), you should do modelling and so on. Well WTF, if I'm so gorgeous how come I get no girls, simple answer "no game."!! I know ugly pieces of ****, dudes out of jail, alcoholics, real scum asses, dudes that treat their women like **** and these ****ers get girls and some are even hot and they are attached to these pricks, but not me. Also I really don't have friends and haven't had for years since because of my parents' broke asses we moved into a ghetto neighborhood when I was 13 from europe where only maybe like 5% are white, which I'm one of them, so making friends wasn't easy and especially getting or meeting girls, no wonder I devleoped all that anxiety when I was being hated by most hispanic or black girls since I was white. All I keep/kept meeting is some dudes that got me involved stealing **** and selling dope and do mischief and I never went to college since I ****ted on life.

My past girlsfriends, yea two, one I was around 18 and I ****ed up and never got ass when she came into my house it was unexpected anyway she came to **** but I was so high smokin weed I couldn't perform. The other one I just turned 19, she was gorgeous, but we only been together for a week since she was going back to Russia, and for some reason she fell in love with me so fast and soon, the week we were together we been together almost 24/7. We felt like we known each other for a long time and all, just like the movie Leaving Las Vegas if you ever saw it. But she didn't want to have sex no matter how much I tried to convince her, she wanted to stay a virgin, but when she did fell into my scheme, I couldn't screw her since my penis was too big!! I have a 9 1/2 inch, it wouldn't even go in, so poking here all was I could do, which was boring as **** and that gave her an orgasm, WOW!! Imagine if I actually ****ed her, she would be exhausted for 1 year, this just shows that she never been with a guy. She also gave me a boring handjob for like 30 minutes and she stopped caz her hand got tired and I wouldn't come, well of course I can do handjobs myself!!

The only way for me to meet girls now these days is in my every-day life which is the worst way, like a store, bus stop, I see one sitting in a diner, park etc. no clubs, schools, through friends, work just like normal people do. And every time I get into a nice conversation I have to do most of the time all the talking adn that ain't easy since I'm inexperienced, but that's just the way it goes and in the end when I ask her for her number, I usually get "I have a boyfriend but ocassionally do straight up so no!! And occassionally I do get a number, but never a date. Either they never pick up the phone in the first place, or they say they are busy all the time, change their minds etc. I just dunno what to do anymore. I really don't want to do dating services, that will kill my self-esteem it's not really good anyway and I always was thinking about hookers, but the street hookers I saw looked really ****ed up and ****, I wouldn't even be able to get an erection and escorts are too expensive. At the way I look it, I wouldn't be surprised if I'll play the movie "The 40 year old virgin part 2"!!

 

[InvisibleMan]

That part is reserved for me, dude. I've got 16 years on you.


- Invisible Man

 

[Snow Plowman]

Are your sets hooking when you approach? Are you giving them a reason why you should be meeting up? Give an example of how one of your approaches went. Just remember don't quit stick to it, you'll get where you want to be eventually.

 

[Maximus Rex]

Start by reading the DJ Bible.

 

[wiener_bur]

I usually just strike up a conversation, by noticing something on her like a tatoo, clothing etc, or I start up talking about a thing or whatever around us etc. I don't think that's the best way, but that's all I really got man.

 

[Emperiorjack]

Dude Im the same except I'm not as good looking as Brad Pitt but I would say I'm average. One day I found out about the show "Keys to the VIP" and watched the 3 episode that they had out for viewing. And It showed me alot about picking up women and set me up to get motivated. I learned that picking up women had alot to do with psychology. So much so that It got me into reading. I picked up a book on psychology and read it. I found I enjoyed reading and came up with lots subjects I could read upon to imrove my reaction with women such as Leadership, Winning with people, Sale's techniques, Conversational speaker, and Acting books. Im still have alot to read and have yet lost my essence but thought this info. would benefit you.

 

[wiener_bur]

what I've noticed is that pretty mcuh all the "natural" gamers do, is NOT HIDE their sexuality.

What you mean by that? When I talk to a girl, it's very clear why I'm talking to her, if that's what you are asking?

 

[Docs]

I can probably put my finger on the missing piece.

Do you know how to flirt?
Secondly, do you do it?

Every piece of game you will read out there has one common denominator. It is a form of flirting. From triangular gazing, DHV, teasing, push-pull, C&F, and the whole matter of seduction is all basically different techniques of flirting.

Now, the third question. When the fvck are you going to start flirting like it's natural? That's how you display sexuality, and if you got looks, you have that much of an easier time.

 

[wiener_bur]

Depends what the conversation is going about, but I make it obvious that I'm not just here for conversation.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I have a 9 1/2 inch

lol, then you are probably the envy of most guys. You could post a picture on adultfriendfinder and have desperate housewives emailing you right away. I'm not saying this is a good idea, but have the confidence to know that you can get a woman whenever you want one. Portray this quality to a group of women, and then pursue the one who likes you the most. When you play the game correctly with a girl who already has a crush on you, she will fall madly in love with you, and let you bang her ten times a week.

 

[PigAdlemPimp]

I have a 9 1/2 inch

lol, then you are probably the envy of most guys. You could post a picture on adultfriendfinder and have desperate housewives emailing you right away. I'm not saying this is a good idea, but have the confidence to know that you can get a woman whenever you want one. Portray this quality to a group of women, and then pursue the one who likes you the most. When you play the game correctly with a girl who already has a crush on you, she will fall madly in love with you, and let you bang her ten times a week.

It isn't always the dudes with the biggest d1cks that fvck the most HB's. :nono:

 

[Styles]

Start by reading the DJ Bible.

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[Bible_Belt]

It isn't always the dudes with the biggest d1cks that fvck the most HB's. :nono:

I agree; I didn't say that those desperate housewives would be hot. But with an ad on aff or a page on www.xpeeps.com the OP could get a lot of women.

 

[PigAdlemPimp]

I agree; I didn't say that those desperate housewives would be hot. But with an ad on aff or a page on www.xpeeps.com the OP could get a lot of women.

I guess it wouldn't hurt him to do it, as long as he saw a photo of her before he decided to fvck her. :cheer: