1. You have stopped competing with your ex.
2. Hearing what your ex is up to doesn't make you cry or feel worthless or angry.
3. Memories don't hurt you or make you cry.
4. You're no longer trying to prove that you're over it - to your ex or to anyone else.
5. You've stopped reading their horoscope (assuming the ex is of a different sign).
6. You don't go to places just hoping to bump into your ex.
7. You stop trying to hack into their email or constantly checking their online diary (blog) or dating site profile.
8. Hearing a special song makes you feel nostalgic and not tearful.
9. You no longer care what your ex thinks of you.
10. You stop wondering if your ex misses you.
11. You stop making excuses to get in touch.
12. You no longer drive by their home or work (or any other place you think they might be.)
13. You have actually arrived at the conclusion the break-up was "for the best".
14. When something really good or bad happens, you, inadvertently phone someone else to share it with.
15. You've stopped counting the days and weeks since the break-up.
16. By taking your power back, you have started to go back to places you enjoyed going to, but have been avoiding, because they reminded you of your ex.
17. When you are on a date with someone new, you don't keep telling stories about your ex; nor do you compare the new person with your ex.
18. When you dream about your ex, it doesn't leave you depressed for the entire day.
19. You've stopped buying the foods your ex liked out of habit, and have started to buy the foods you like.
20. You no longer hold hope you ex will come back nor would you consider re-uniting if he or she did.
2. Hearing what your ex is up to doesn't make you cry or feel worthless or angry.
3. Memories don't hurt you or make you cry.
4. You're no longer trying to prove that you're over it - to your ex or to anyone else.
5. You've stopped reading their horoscope (assuming the ex is of a different sign).
6. You don't go to places just hoping to bump into your ex.
7. You stop trying to hack into their email or constantly checking their online diary (blog) or dating site profile.
8. Hearing a special song makes you feel nostalgic and not tearful.
9. You no longer care what your ex thinks of you.
10. You stop wondering if your ex misses you.
11. You stop making excuses to get in touch.
12. You no longer drive by their home or work (or any other place you think they might be.)
13. You have actually arrived at the conclusion the break-up was "for the best".
14. When something really good or bad happens, you, inadvertently phone someone else to share it with.
15. You've stopped counting the days and weeks since the break-up.
16. By taking your power back, you have started to go back to places you enjoyed going to, but have been avoiding, because they reminded you of your ex.
17. When you are on a date with someone new, you don't keep telling stories about your ex; nor do you compare the new person with your ex.
18. When you dream about your ex, it doesn't leave you depressed for the entire day.
19. You've stopped buying the foods your ex liked out of habit, and have started to buy the foods you like.
20. You no longer hold hope you ex will come back nor would you consider re-uniting if he or she did.