TheHoff said:
well maybe if i cut down on the partying then i'll get some progress. i cannot stop it all togther as its just my lifestyle at the minute...
regardless im going to continue with the weights to get as buff as possible!! i understand that it is not good due to several factors but im not aiming for a bodybuilders physique, just trying to get as big as possible!!
I say again, you have counterproductive goals: you say partying is your lifestyle and yet you also want to get as big as possible (which is, by the way, what bodybuilders want as well, or usually anyway). Having a little fitness while partying is possible but putting on quality muscle, especially in the quantity you say you want, will just not work.
By all means go to parties and socialise, but take a couple of protein bars or even a shake with you; dance and flirt and stuff but don't touch any alcohol.
I hate to be patronising but you have no idea what 'getting as big as possible' entails.. you think it's just the three or four times a week you'll work out? No, that's only part of the picture. If you want a truly impressive, muscular physique then you have to work for it, and not just with the weights: 5-8 meals a day, eaten day in day out come what may.
What seperates the wannabes from the true big guys (genetics and drugs aside) is the time they put in at the dinner plate and what they do for recovery (sleep, active recovery, hot/cold showers etc) - sleep being the most important, and quality sleep at that. And by quality sleep I mean 7-9 hours a night, and this doesn't mean staying out all night and sleeping from 7am til two in the afternoon.
You're welcome to try it bro, and good luck to you. I just think you'd be wasting your time.