Just to update this.
About 6 weeks ago I purposefully stopped flirting w/ girl B. She also got kinda busy w/ family events, weddings out of town etc... so we weren't hanging out as much. About 3 weeks ago Girl A says that the other girl just kept bugging her too much, and talking about me and didn't want to deal w/ the drama of being in a triangle type situation. I didn't know this was the reason at the time, I figured our banging had just run its course. When I found out though it did not make me too happy, as I had purposefully not been hitting on girl B for a long time out of respect (mistake). So after talking w/ A a little bit, I thought I had smoothed that over. Also said I would not hang out w/ B if that was an issue (mistake). However, a week or so after that discussion I end up going to a soccer match with a bunch of mutual friends, and who do I see... girl A being all flirty and touchy, as in it's pretty obvious they're banging with some guy who is probably TWICE my age lol. Could not believe it, totally blindsided. So now I'm kicking myself for not going after B, and am trying to rekindle that. We hung out a few nights ago, plus a girl who works the front desk at the gym gave me her number and wants to hang out. So all is not lost. I have kept everything civil w/ A and have not let it show that the old dude bothered me at all. Because really after my initial reaction to it, it hasn't. I'll keep her on the back burner I guess if I ever need a lay, as she still seems open to it. However, now I have to decide on finally making a move on girl B, or pursuing the gym chick.
The morale of the story I guess? Never stop spinning plates. Time to do work w/ these other two women! :rockon:
