Have been experiencing a lot of success lately until the last 2 days in which at the end of the dates rejected for kiss closes and admittedly, there was nothing there on both of the dates and each girl was very low energy and not much fun to talk to, but i still wanted to bag em and tag em.
The first one i met online on scout, a phone app and the 2nd one i met at a night club the night before and i actually had no recollection of her but randomly bumped into her at the metro station at which point she told me she had met me the previous night and then i did slightly remember her...was pretty drunk. Pretty big coincidence so i set the date up right then and therte for a few hours later.
Both girls were very low key and boring to talk to and were both admittedly huge home bodies...it's no coincidence...whenever they confess they are huge home bodies..beware..it's a red flag in my experience...these type of people just tend to lack any spunk or life force in general and are always the most boring people to talk to....and you could feel there was no spark with either of them. Took both for a drink...although the other one said she was really hungry and really wanted dinner so we did that as well...i should have walked away as soon as she said that...major red flag hint....dinner whoring at it's finest...
The first one at least offered to split the bill half...but my God she was boring to talk to...mundane story after mundane story about her exes or her life in general with little asking me questions.....i tried changing subjects or talking about something interesting, i tried teasing her..small negs...nothing worked...she was just a boring self adsorbed chick with limited curiosities about anything outside her stuff and lacking a good sense of humor.... the 2nd one who pretty much demanded flinched when i said we would be splitting the bill and said she was really low on money at which point...i said too bad you are the one who was really hungry.
After the 2nd one rejected kiss close twice as we sat on a park bench....i immediately stood up and said, well, i am wasting my time here.... good bye and walked off....she just sat there staring with her mouth hanging open and said oh...so you are leaving??? I waived down a taxi right in front of her but really felt like scolding her for attempting to use me for a free dinner.
I have to admit, it is always a blow to the ego getting rejected on a date no matter how much battle tested you are in rejection which i am a lot..oh well.....i have another one on deck tonight and am going to a concert with a plate tomorrow.
On a side note, i pulled an insta coffee date in broad daylight yesterday with a girl who supposedly has a BF and physically escalated to kissing right before i had the 2nd arranged date....so i suppose she will be a new plate. Looking back on it, i should have skipped the 2nd date and just stayed with the random girl because she seemed genuinely disappointed when i said i had to go meet someone and i could have possibly pulled her to a hotel to bang...stupid of me not to capitalize on her interest level more....you could just feel the chemistry unlike the other 2 dates and she was more attractive than both of them. I dropped the ball there big time.
The first one i met online on scout, a phone app and the 2nd one i met at a night club the night before and i actually had no recollection of her but randomly bumped into her at the metro station at which point she told me she had met me the previous night and then i did slightly remember her...was pretty drunk. Pretty big coincidence so i set the date up right then and therte for a few hours later.
Both girls were very low key and boring to talk to and were both admittedly huge home bodies...it's no coincidence...whenever they confess they are huge home bodies..beware..it's a red flag in my experience...these type of people just tend to lack any spunk or life force in general and are always the most boring people to talk to....and you could feel there was no spark with either of them. Took both for a drink...although the other one said she was really hungry and really wanted dinner so we did that as well...i should have walked away as soon as she said that...major red flag hint....dinner whoring at it's finest...
The first one at least offered to split the bill half...but my God she was boring to talk to...mundane story after mundane story about her exes or her life in general with little asking me questions.....i tried changing subjects or talking about something interesting, i tried teasing her..small negs...nothing worked...she was just a boring self adsorbed chick with limited curiosities about anything outside her stuff and lacking a good sense of humor.... the 2nd one who pretty much demanded flinched when i said we would be splitting the bill and said she was really low on money at which point...i said too bad you are the one who was really hungry.
After the 2nd one rejected kiss close twice as we sat on a park bench....i immediately stood up and said, well, i am wasting my time here.... good bye and walked off....she just sat there staring with her mouth hanging open and said oh...so you are leaving??? I waived down a taxi right in front of her but really felt like scolding her for attempting to use me for a free dinner.
I have to admit, it is always a blow to the ego getting rejected on a date no matter how much battle tested you are in rejection which i am a lot..oh well.....i have another one on deck tonight and am going to a concert with a plate tomorrow.
On a side note, i pulled an insta coffee date in broad daylight yesterday with a girl who supposedly has a BF and physically escalated to kissing right before i had the 2nd arranged date....so i suppose she will be a new plate. Looking back on it, i should have skipped the 2nd date and just stayed with the random girl because she seemed genuinely disappointed when i said i had to go meet someone and i could have possibly pulled her to a hotel to bang...stupid of me not to capitalize on her interest level more....you could just feel the chemistry unlike the other 2 dates and she was more attractive than both of them. I dropped the ball there big time.