Hi,
The more and more I read, the more I see that there are two different views on how to handle girls.
The first method is to actively hit on them. Go up to them at bookstores, in the grocery, on the street, etc. Examples: John Travolta in "Saturday Night Fever", Tom Cruise in "Top Gun."
The second method is to work on improving yourself to the point where you don't care if you have women or not because you're so confident in yourself. But you have become such a badass that girls are hitting on YOU. Examples: Sean Connery as James Bond, Clint Eastwood, etc.
Which is correct? Does it depend on the person? Extroverted or introverted?
I'll be the first to admit that I haven't mastered either one, but I personally find number one really difficult to pull off. Maybe I just need to practice. But aren't you sacrificing your pride by just chasing everything in a skirt whether they want you or not?
Just my 2 cents.
The more and more I read, the more I see that there are two different views on how to handle girls.
The first method is to actively hit on them. Go up to them at bookstores, in the grocery, on the street, etc. Examples: John Travolta in "Saturday Night Fever", Tom Cruise in "Top Gun."
The second method is to work on improving yourself to the point where you don't care if you have women or not because you're so confident in yourself. But you have become such a badass that girls are hitting on YOU. Examples: Sean Connery as James Bond, Clint Eastwood, etc.
Which is correct? Does it depend on the person? Extroverted or introverted?
I'll be the first to admit that I haven't mastered either one, but I personally find number one really difficult to pull off. Maybe I just need to practice. But aren't you sacrificing your pride by just chasing everything in a skirt whether they want you or not?
Just my 2 cents.