1st date tonight

dice

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I'm going out with this new girl for the first time tonight. I was racking my brain trying to find something fun and action filled, then I decided to just do what I thought would be fun. I decided I'd just want to get dinner and a movie. My plan is to build killer rapport during the dinner, then go to the movie and kiss her while we're waiting for it to come on, then end the date after the movie with another kiss/makeout. Thoughts or advice?
 

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Dinner and a movie is not a fun date. Secondly, your overthinking this already, which is never good, which sets her up as the prize and you as the chaser.

If you want to do something fun, be original and take her somewhere she's probably never been on a first date. How many chumps and clueless guys in her past do you think have taken her to dinner and a movie already? If you want to stand out you need to be different, right now your following the herd.

Lastly kissing a girl is not something to be thought out, its set up like a snake ready to strike... by creating attraction, reading her body language and then going in for the kill.

I'm not going to tell you what to do and if she really likes you already dinner and a movie may work, but to increase your chance of success set it up right.





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you are setting too high expectations. 9 out of 10 guys don't get to kiss them on a first date. You need to set your expectations to just have fun. If you go out thinking "man i gotta do this and that" and then it doesn't work out you will feel like s____.

let things flow naturally and have a good time. If you put too much pressure on yourself you will only hurt your chances. You should be thinking about having fun with this girl, not that you have to kiss her before the night is over.
 

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do i pay for the date?
 

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dice said:
do i pay for the date?
Did you ask her out? If she was out somewhere just minding her own business,then you approached her and asked her out,then yeah,you should pay for it.
 

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