1st Date Curse

[CORVETTE06]

Ok i just got home from a date and I am highly dissapointed with myself. I think i lost my balls. The past three 1st dates that I had, I made no attempt to kiss the girl! Usually, I always made out with other girls on first dates and it was successful. Now i dont even go for it. Did i lose my balls? It's like I didnt even want to kiss them - and i liked them!

However, its not a big deal because she likes me, she just put me on her top 8 on myspace. and girls in the past wanted me more since i didnt kiss them. but man, i shouldnt be such a puuss.. whats wrong? i need advice!

 

[JPFromTally]

The first step in fixing a problem is recognizing that there is one. So at least you're off on the right foot. Don't worry about the fact that the girl calls all her friends and laughs about how you have no courage.

 

[Smartone84]

sounds to me like u may be gay man. I never have, and no normal man should ever lose interest in wanting to make out with hot girls, or anything for that matter. I dont mean to sound like a fruit or anything but have u ever thought about dating a dude in your life?, have you ever gotten 'excited' when around another guy? Come out about it, talk, thats what we're here for guy.

 

[Charm]

Like you said, you have simply lost your balls and must find them again. Kiss a girl on your next date and you will find them again. Tell yourself "Grow some damn balls man" as soon as you start contemplating "should i kiss her?" and then DO IT! If you've built up her IL, she'll respond.