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I met a girl on SA last week who is 19. She didn't even show her face on her profile. We start talking on WhatsApp and she sends face pics (and later topless pics) and she is actually pretty attractive.

She said she had to be discreet because her parents are very strict. They were both born in Colombia and are very religious and would probably kick her out of the house for doing this stuff. She says she's been with 5 guys in her life. She says she goes on SA because the guys are more mature and experienced in life than the guys her age.

So she's going to come over (for free) later on this week.

So I'm talking to her today. She asks if I can get a bottle of tequila so she can loosen up, and she'll bring the limes and salt. I probably won't drink, but she says she wants to.

She asked if we could talk on the phone today, and she asks if I have any hobbies other than work. I said I haven't really had time for any lately. She tells me hers are reading science fiction, and she says that she wants to start reading books that have older characters because the characters in the books she reads are 16 years old.

Now that part that I put in bold is because after hearing her say that, it kind of made me feel like a child molester. But I decided to go forward with it, why not. She's of legal age (and I already asked her to show me her ID when she gets here and she agreed). So here I'm thinking that I'm kind of taking advantage of the naivety of a young girl, and perhaps I am a little. She says she hopes she can deepthroat me good enough and all that, and I say I'll teach her. You know like she's some young girl who has never seen the world because her parents keep her locked up. One time I asked if she could sneak out of her house and she said no way because her house is like a fortress with alarm systems and cameras, etc.

Just about an hour ago, she asks what's my favorite position. Then, I ask her. She says that she just tried doggy for the first time Friday and that's her new favorite position. So she's been with other guys since we started talking. It was a guy she's known since high school and she had him over when her parents left for ONE HOUR. Is this the promiscuity level of young girls? And for me to not be able to get some is for like me not being able to find candy in a candy shop? I mean, I am kind of quiet. Actually, I'm basically silent most times when I go out. I can't say that I really enjoy conversing with most people. It always seems so fake.

Then she asked me what happens after we meet? Cause she's just coming straight to my house. She asked if after that, I would ever want to hang out and go out for drinks and stuff like that. That honestly came as a surprise and I don't think I really have any interest in doing that. It sounds like just a stress-filled event that would lead to nowhere. Why would I want to "go out" with someone that I've already had sex with? If anything, I would just want her to come over to my house again, especially if she's doing it for free.

There is a very large contrast to how I would act within my own home, and how I would act in public. At home, I could fvck them all day. And aside from that, I argue a lot. It's been a while since I lived with a girl, but I imagine I would be pretty SCARY after a short period of time. I have a pretty "violent" temper. I put "violent" in quotes because I wouldn't actually be violent because of the law. There's no point in doing something that would get you sent to jail lol. But I guess I could also be chill sometimes too? Or maybe not. What's the point of going out and hanging out in public, especially because if we go anywhere where I see people that recognize me, they would assume that she's my "girlfriend" and why would I want that? Whereas in public, people would probably just see me as a "quiet guy."
 
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Colombians are very strict fro some reason it seems. Probably because they believe in Christianity so much. But when they let loose though, they REALLY let loose. As in turn into full on *****s who will take it in any orifice. She especially feels like she missed out on a lot of the romantic/intimate parts of her life that other girls got to experience growing up, and because women tend to be more socially calibrated than guys, the feel that they’re being left out more intensely than guys. Therefore she needs to do extreme things to make up for it. They don’t realize how that ****s them up though most of the time....

One thing I would say is that there’s no such thing as a free lunch. So yeah she’ll come over and have sex for free, but if you want to continue having sex with her in the future, then you’ll have to ‘go out’ with her I guess. The phrase ‘hanging out’ tends to imply sex anyway so it’s not really that big a deal. Plus, it’ll be a good way to understand women better. This girl in particular wants to learn about social culture and all that, which means she will be very receptive to any form of socialization. But because she is inexperienced, she won’t have any pre-existing judgments about anything really. In other words, if you mess up around her somehow or do something weird without realizing, she likely won’t decide to never talk to you ever again like how most bitchy women would lol. I think it’s a good way for both of you to learn about the world and see what you’re both missing, if anything at all. Besides, sex is sex.
 
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Colombians are very strict fro some reason it seems. Probably because they believe in Christianity so much. But when they let loose though, they REALLY let loose. As in turn into full on *****s who will take it in any orifice. She especially feels like she missed out on a lot of the romantic/intimate parts of her life that other girls got to experience growing up, and because women tend to be more socially calibrated than guys, the feel that they’re being left out more intensely than guys. Therefore she needs to do extreme things to make up for it. They don’t realize how that ****s them up though most of the time....

One thing I would say is that there’s no such thing as a free lunch. So yeah she’ll come over and have sex for free, but if you want to continue having sex with her in the future, then you’ll have to ‘go out’ with her I guess. The phrase ‘hanging out’ tends to imply sex anyway so it’s not really that big a deal. Plus, it’ll be a good way to understand women better. This girl in particular wants to learn about social culture and all that, which means she will be very receptive to any form of socialization. But because she is inexperienced, she won’t have any pre-existing judgments about anything really. In other words, if you mess up around her somehow or do something weird without realizing, she likely won’t decide to never talk to you ever again like how most bitchy women would lol. I think it’s a good way for both of you to learn about the world and see what you’re both missing, if anything at all. Besides, sex is sex.
I've already seen the world. Like literally all of it. Okay I haven't taken that trip to Iran yet, but besides foreign travel, I've seen all there is to see.

I don't really know what her life experience is, but I doubt she has been living in a box.

But yea it sucks that I would have to hang out with her in public and "go out" in order for the free sex to continue. What's the point of that nonsense?

I don't even smile when I go out to bars. I sit there and drink beer after beer after beer until I have to Uber home, and often I will get kind of angry drunk and use any excuse to tip the bartender $0, like if she looks at me the wrong way or calls me "baby" or "sweetheart" too many times.
 

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I feel like this is more Richard blogging out his thoughts rather than actually asking for advice.

Do whatever you want man. :)
 
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I feel like this is more Richard blogging out his thoughts rather than actually asking for advice.

Do whatever you want man. :)
Well at least half of the responses I get are insults, but I actually would like to know how to fvck hot girls for free if it's even possible.

Seems I just got lucky this time.

Maybe I should go out more. I remember thinking last time I went out that looks probably aren't my problem. It's probably more that I'm basically mute, with the occasional muttering calling the bartender a wh0re after 10 drinks haha
 

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Well at least half of the responses I get are insults, but I actually would like to know how to fvck hot girls for free if it's even possible.

Seems I just got lucky this time.

Maybe I should go out more. I remember thinking last time I went out that looks probably aren't my problem. It's probably more that I'm basically mute, with the occasional muttering calling the bartender a wh0re after 10 drinks haha
Lol probably. If I'd have advice for you, it's to focus on those things that you mention here. You're already self identifying things that you'd like to improve on (imo). You're pretty talkative on here - you probably can translate that to real life.
 

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Having this young babe as your GIRLFRIEND will be better than what you have been doing . Maybe in enjoying her for free youl enjoy life.
 
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Having this young babe as your GIRLFRIEND will be better than what you have been doing . Maybe in enjoying her for free youl enjoy life.
Maybe, but I'm not sure I'm really capable of that. I think a relationship probably involves some sort of emotional openness that I wouldn't really know where to begin with.
 
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Lol probably. If I'd have advice for you, it's to focus on those things that you mention here. You're already self identifying things that you'd like to improve on (imo). You're pretty talkative on here - you probably can translate that to real life.
That's true, but I can build a million dollar business without improving my ability to have conversations at bars. The 30 minute drive downtown hasn't seemed worth my time in quite a while.
 

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That's true, but I can build a million dollar business without improving my ability to have conversations at bars. The 30 minute drive downtown hasn't seemed worth my time in quite a while.
It's all about improving your own personal enjoyment. I wouldn't be driving downtown to chat at a bar to a random bartender either. But I did have a random conversation with one bartender for lunch last week. Was alright.

I notice too that you tend to go 'ehhh I don't need to do that', even if it's your own expression of desire. I think everyone has a bit of that reluctance - but maybe something to take note of.
 
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It's all about improving your own personal enjoyment. I wouldn't be driving downtown to chat at a bar to a random bartender either. But I did have a random conversation with one bartender for lunch last week. Was alright.

I notice too that you tend to go 'ehhh I don't need to do that', even if it's your own expression of desire. I think everyone has a bit of that reluctance - but maybe something to take note of.
I think a lot of the reason I have so much trouble socializing like other people do when they go out is because most of the ways people act when they're in public is fake.

The real stuff is behind closed doors.
 

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I think a lot of the reason I have so much trouble socializing like other people do when they go out is because most of the ways people act when they're in public is fake.

The real stuff is behind closed doors.
It's true. And that's normal. Some being more carefree and casual than others. You kind of reveal bits and pieces of yourself at a time, see if it's compatible with the other person. Humour is a good way of seeing that. But yeah. Eventually you reveal so much that you can kind of drop your guard a bit. And then you can work on showing the next layer if you want.

Some people reveal it a bit too far. To use dating as an example - some guys will lean on their girl for 'too-much' emotional support. Like crying and seeking their assurance that everything will be ok. Pretty much only acceptable in extreme situations... like a death or other great loss. That doesn't mean no emotional support or weakness... just got to be more neutral and get your feedback indirectly (like a casual cuddle on the couch). If you need a good vent/cry... do it with your parents lol.

Anyway... yeah there's definite layers to people. But you should be able to sense layers of 'realness' to them as you interact with them. Might not be 100%... but should be to the point where you don't have to think too much about what you're saying.
 

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I met a girl on SA last week who is 19. She didn't even show her face on her profile. We start talking on WhatsApp and she sends face pics (and later topless pics) and she is actually pretty attractive.

She said she had to be discreet because her parents are very strict. They were both born in Colombia and are very religious and would probably kick her out of the house for doing this stuff. She says she's been with 5 guys in her life. She says she goes on SA because the guys are more mature and experienced in life than the guys her age.

So she's going to come over (for free) later on this week.

So I'm talking to her today. She asks if I can get a bottle of tequila so she can loosen up, and she'll bring the limes and salt. I probably won't drink, but she says she wants to.

She asked if we could talk on the phone today, and she asks if I have any hobbies other than work. I said I haven't really had time for any lately. She tells me hers are reading science fiction, and she says that she wants to start reading books that have older characters because the characters in the books she reads are 16 years old.

Now that part that I put in bold is because after hearing her say that, it kind of made me feel like a child molester. But I decided to go forward with it, why not. She's of legal age (and I already asked her to show me her ID when she gets here and she agreed). So here I'm thinking that I'm kind of taking advantage of the naivety of a young girl, and perhaps I am a little. She says she hopes she can deepthroat me good enough and all that, and I say I'll teach her. You know like she's some young girl who has never seen the world because her parents keep her locked up. One time I asked if she could sneak out of her house and she said no way because her house is like a fortress with alarm systems and cameras, etc.

Just about an hour ago, she asks what's my favorite position. Then, I ask her. She says that she just tried doggy for the first time Friday and that's her new favorite position. So she's been with other guys since we started talking. It was a guy she's known since high school and she had him over when her parents left for ONE HOUR. Is this the promiscuity level of young girls? And for me to not be able to get some is for like me not being able to find candy in a candy shop? I mean, I am kind of quiet. Actually, I'm basically silent most times when I go out. I can't say that I really enjoy conversing with most people. It always seems so fake.

Then she asked me what happens after we meet? Cause she's just coming straight to my house. She asked if after that, I would ever want to hang out and go out for drinks and stuff like that. That honestly came as a surprise and I don't think I really have any interest in doing that. It sounds like just a stress-filled event that would lead to nowhere. Why would I want to "go out" with someone that I've already had sex with? If anything, I would just want her to come over to my house again, especially if she's doing it for free.

There is a very large contrast to how I would act within my own home, and how I would act in public. At home, I could fvck them all day. And aside from that, I argue a lot. It's been a while since I lived with a girl, but I imagine I would be pretty SCARY after a short period of time. I have a pretty "violent" temper. I put "violent" in quotes because I wouldn't actually be violent because of the law. There's no point in doing something that would get you sent to jail lol. But I guess I could also be chill sometimes too? Or maybe not. What's the point of going out and hanging out in public, especially because if we go anywhere where I see people that recognize me, they would assume that she's my "girlfriend" and why would I want that? Whereas in public, people would probably just see me as a "quiet guy."
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This girl came over today. She took a double shot of tequilla when she got here. I was messaging her on WhatsApp before and I'm usually pretty direct on messages. I told her earlier today that she has to be topless in order to take a shot lol, and then I added that she has to be wearing only panties. So she got here and she actually looked better than her pictures, but her pictures were hot as well.

Now just to be clear, this girl is NOT A HOOKER. She never asked me for any money and I didn't give her any. She is just trying to have fun. Her parents are very strict and controlling of her so she had to sneak over after school. She has an unpaid internship as a kindergarten teacher's assistant and other than that, her parents pay for all her stuff until she finishes school in 2 years.

So she took a shot, we were sitting on the couch getting to know each other a little and she was already 99% naked. I figured if I sat there with the "small talk" then I might get stuck there. So I just asked her "want to see my bionic d1ck?" She said sure.... so then we went into the bedroom.

I will tell you that this girl was harder to make cvm than most, but I still made her cvm 3 times with d1ck alone. (bionic d1ck = best decision I ever made).

So we started by fvcking. I really need a bigger piece of land because this house in on only 0.2 acres and I just hate having neighbors so close, especially when girls are making a lot of noise. She came. We took a break. We started again. She came again. I didn't. So she got me off with her mouth and hand.

She told me she had only given head a few times in her life so she wasn't sure if she would be good. She was very good. I told her she was just as good as any girl that's done it 1000x, which was true.

She arrived at 1pm. She could stay until 5pm. At this time, it was about 2:30. She laid on the bed with her head on my chest and all that stuff. She was a very nice girl, and she told me she thought I was sweet, and "chill" and "cool."

She also told me that I was "fit" which was a surprise because I never work out. She also told me that she likes my hair, even the gray streaks, and that my eyes were very blue and she liked those as well.

So we decided to get a bite to eat at this Greek restaurant. We talked about various things like traveling, our families and where/how we grew up, flipping houses, and speaking other languages. She told me that I would be 1,000,000x more attractive if I knew how to speak French. She speaks English and Spanish, but she knows a little Portuguese and enough French phrases to fool people into thinking she speaks French. I suppose I could do the same thing, just learn a few French phrases and pretend I know the language. Lol.

So then it was back to my house. She has traveled to a lot of places so I thought she would think my foreign currency collection is cool, which she did. Also, my collection of ancient coins, some of which are over 2000 years old (from Persia). I have some from Rome, Mongol Empire, China circa 1295 AD, Ottoman Empire, and several more.

She wanted another shot but I wouldn't let her because she had to drive home in 90 minutes. So we fvcked again and that's when she came for the 3rd time. She actually let me make sex tapes with my phone haha.

She was going to leave at 5pm, but she checked her phone around 4:45 and saw missed calls and messages from her mom so she called her mom and pretended she was just leaving school. At first, we were kind of worried that her mom might suspect that something was up, but she texted me when she got home and everything was okay.

I was only the 7th guy she's had sex with in her whole life, and the ONLY person to ever make her cvm 3 times like that.
 

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And your complaining cause of what? That's sounds like alot of fun . The head was great cause she was eager to please and wanted to learn . It sounds like she likes you. I'd fvck her every single day if I was you .
 

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Why the hail you don't want someone to look like your woman? It's not like you have a reputation to damage.
 
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