Typically I date women my age (I am 25) but this time is totally different. So I met this girl at the coffee stand but the problem at the time was the fact that she had a boyfriend, and I knew him very well which is a guideline I strictly follow, she was a coffee girl so she basically gets paid to flirt and her age. The age thing always makes me a little hesitant because of the fact that its really hard for me to stomach girls who can't really have an intellectual conversation. Or at least a conversation that does not involve every other word being 'like'. So I get to know her, strictly on a friendly level because as it was I had no real interest in dating her. But after getting to know her she is more mature than some of the women I meet that are my age.
Fast forward about 6 months. I had kind of lost touch with her and her boyfriend (we are actually friends) and I stop by to get a coffee and start talkin to her and she mentions to me that she is single. My interest perks a little because up until now I have not considered how fun it would be to date her. Anyways basically over the last couple months she has been dropping what I feel like are definite hints. Making sure I know she thinks I am attractive, giving me freebies and basically hinting at some level of interest. I also do not tip her very much, maybe about half of the time and very minimal. All of this should be making me just ask her out. But I am not the best at reading things, and I don't know if she is just doing this because she is a hired gun....or if I should just do it. Thing is that this is the coffee stand I frequent, and I need my coffee which is making this decision much more difficult than it should be.
Anyways, if it were you, would you read it as a green light or just move on due to the fact that she is a coffee girl?
Fast forward about 6 months. I had kind of lost touch with her and her boyfriend (we are actually friends) and I stop by to get a coffee and start talkin to her and she mentions to me that she is single. My interest perks a little because up until now I have not considered how fun it would be to date her. Anyways basically over the last couple months she has been dropping what I feel like are definite hints. Making sure I know she thinks I am attractive, giving me freebies and basically hinting at some level of interest. I also do not tip her very much, maybe about half of the time and very minimal. All of this should be making me just ask her out. But I am not the best at reading things, and I don't know if she is just doing this because she is a hired gun....or if I should just do it. Thing is that this is the coffee stand I frequent, and I need my coffee which is making this decision much more difficult than it should be.
Anyways, if it were you, would you read it as a green light or just move on due to the fact that she is a coffee girl?
