18 years old chick

[pyros]

One more chick, one more story...:

met this 18 years old chick two nights ago. I danced with her we talked briefly, she seemed into me, etc.
Before she left, she came to say good-bye.

Since she is friend's with a friend of mine, I looked her up on FB, and added her. I initiated a conversation today via chat, and in the middle of the conversation she liked my profile picture so I took it as a good sign, and after a bit of rapport I got her number and texted her to suggest to meet next Monday for a drink, to what she replied (I know I should have offered two days, but I forgot):

her: "could you text me on Monday? I may have band practise in the evening but they will confirm it in the morning "

me: "we can meet some other day if it is better. Ok, talk to you soon!"
her:" "

I was thinking that I will either text her on Monday evening to set something for Tuesday or Wednesday (whenever she's free), or I will go no contact and see if she initiates.

Opinions?

 

[spiegel549]

One more chick, one more story...:

met this 18 years old chick two nights ago. I danced with her we talked briefly, she seemed into me, etc.
Before she left, she came to say good-bye.

Since she is friend's with a friend of mine, I looked her up on FB, and added her. I initiated a conversation today via chat, and in the middle of the conversation she liked my profile picture so I took it as a good sign, and after a bit of rapport I got her number and texted her to suggest to meet next Monday for a drink, to what she replied (I know I should have offered two days, but I forgot):

her: "could you text me on Monday? I may have band practise in the evening but they will confirm it in the morning "

me: "we can meet some other day if it is better. Ok, talk to you soon!"
her:" "

I was thinking that I will either text her on Monday evening to set something for Tuesday or Wednesday (whenever she's free), or I will go no contact and see if she initiates.

Opinions?

1) Never leave it up to the female to "let you know." If you provide a day and she says she might be busy, then you say "ok then how about Thursday?" Remember YOU are the one that is opening up your schedule to fit her in. Not the other way around.

It is always better to "force" her to make definite plans with you with a time and place so you aren't sitting there waiting for that day to roll around wondering if she is going to hang with you. If a female keeps giving you the I don't know excuses you push for plans. "Okay well I have a busy schedule and the only day I can do it would be Friday after 6pm. Does that work?" If she gives you excuses she is not that interested, and you can move on with out having to worry about will she go out with you as the day gets closer.

2) Because she is 18. I would wait to see if she hits you up. If she is interested SHE will hit you up. If you don't hear from her drop a text confirming to get together.

3) Stop thinking.

Remember a woman who is interested in you will make plans with you, move her schedule around for you, make time for you even for an hour if she is busy.

 

[wishyo]

i seriously wish that you would start dating her and will see that it is not easy to deal with young (and unexperienced?) girls..
i like your reply. I would probably wait until the end of the WORK week and ask her out. If she texts first, that's great (obviously).

 

[El Payaso]

Yeah, what Spiegel549 said. Avoid leaving it up to the woman to decide or "get back to you". I'm not saying she won't but most of the time they don't. If she's really interested in you though, she will.

 

[pyros]

so today I bumped into her in a salsa club. I did not know she was going to be there. ANyway, I was friendly and funy, talked to her for 5 minutes or so. She said I was funy, and tried to grab my necklace asking me what it meant etc.

I went there with a female friend of mine, and she was there with a guy friend of hers that was hugging her all the time...
The thing is, that after a couple of hours, I saw that she was hugging another dude, caressing her neck etc, and he was doing the same, so I thought they are 'together' or have some history. I did not see them kiss but...
It seems she has a lot of male friends, btw.

This has twisted a bit my initial plan of action cause if she is seing some dude Im not interested although I think she likes me.
After what I saw today I think that I may just say nothing to her tomorrow MOnday (she told me to text her to see if she had band practise or not so we could meet), and text her maybe on Wednesday (letting some time go by to see if she initiates) to arrange something.

Opinions?