17 ways to make her feel special

[Viagra4Soul]

I know there will be some Asian lads on this forum, and the fact you're here means you are NOT part of what I'm about to say so don't take offence, but...

I guarantee this was written by an Asian boy inside an Asian country somewhere. It stinks of the type of AFC I see them perpetuate constantly in their young relationships, and what apparently their girls want (note: I'm referring to boys and girls specifically). Only they could ever believe any of this would work, and they do so because it does work for the little pink pop princesses they date.

Of course, once these powder puffs become women and the biological clock kicks in, it's a different story.

Have you ever watched any J or K-pop clips on TV? These guys live for this sh2t - it's like watching a Backstreet Boys video x 100. I've lived in Japan - I've seen it firsthand.

This article has NO relevance to the white Western male - ignore.

 

[HalfAddict]

If you are an alpha male many of things on this list will in fact make any girl's panties wet for you.

More of this alpha bull**** eh. **** Brad Pitt. Great he has a bunch of money, he is a good looking actor. Most "alphas" are none of this and one of these at best, and if they pulled this **** they would still be lame.

She may respond to it but in the end she just wants his money so that **** still did not make her fall in love with you.

Lawyered.

 

[exile663dfx]

17 ways to make her feel special? Why? Lol

Girls make me feel special, all warm and fuzzy on the inside.

1. Stop Whining
2. Do whatever you want, when you want
3. Give her a gift if she deserves it
4. Dont cheat. Thats BETA
5. Protect her...from herself (know what I mean)
7. Valentines day is a special day for women to sit on their pedestal. Cook a dinner and ask her if it was good, get drunk, then bang her like noone else has EVER. (She'll always remember that valentines day )
8. Fvck her brains out, but not always. Keep her guessing
9. Stay friends with other chicks around your social circle.
10. Man up and stand up to her snotty ass if she gets that way.
11. Workout
12. Be confident
13. Talk to other girls even in front of her. If she doesnt get you chose her over all of them, that biznatch has issues. NEXT
14. Do your own thing, without her there. Have a life outside the relationship.
15. Listen, observe your woman VERY well. Youll pick up on alot of shyt if you pay attention to what they're saying/doing.
16. Display your alpha status by saying NO sometimes.
17. No forreal. Take her to places you think she's never been before and will never see again. Thrill and excitement to keep her heart racing. Love her but dont be a punching bag. Always have a life outside the relationship.

Thats how you keep her happy. At least KEEP her. How happy she is, is up to her after all.

Out

 

[Fela Kuti]

what the hell, guys? some of the advice is pretty valid. there's nothing wrong with:

-Hold her hand a lot, wind your arm around her waist, kiss her cheek/forehead and hug her.
-Ask her questions about her hobbies so she knows that you are interested in her.
-Sing romantic songs to her, even if your voice is horrible! (it could be fun in a silly way, just don't act all mushy and ****)
-Do what she wants, sometimes. (if she deserves it)
-If she is late or forgets something wait for her, be patient and understanding. (would you just leave the place when your gf is late?)
-Respect and communication are also two other important keys into maintaining a healthy relationship.
-Honesty is the best key to winning her over. (maybe not the best, but still)
-Love her for who she is and her beliefs because it is unlikely that she or her beliefs are going to change any time soon. (true, better get out of the relationship than trying to change her)
-No matter what is happening in your lives, be by her side and let her know that you are there to support her in every moment.
-When another female is around, make sure your girl feels as if she's number 1. (I don't believe in making your gf jealous by flirting with another woman in front of her)

 

[exile663dfx]

what the hell, guys? some of the advice is pretty valid. there's nothing wrong with:

-Hold her hand a lot, wind your arm around her waist, kiss her cheek/forehead and hug her.
-Ask her questions about her hobbies so she knows that you are interested in her.
-Sing romantic songs to her, even if your voice is horrible! (it could be fun in a silly way, just don't act all mushy and ****)
-Do what she wants, sometimes. (if she deserves it)
-If she is late or forgets something wait for her, be patient and understanding. (would you just leave the place when your gf is late?)
-Respect and communication are also two other important keys into maintaining a healthy relationship.
-Honesty is the best key to winning her over. (maybe not the best, but still)
-Love her for who she is and her beliefs because it is unlikely that she or her beliefs are going to change any time soon. (true, better get out of the relationship than trying to change her)
-No matter what is happening in your lives, be by her side and let her know that you are there to support her in every moment.
-When another female is around, make sure your girl feels as if she's number 1. (I don't believe in making your gf jealous by flirting with another woman in front of her)

This is what every guy does. You wanna do opposite of what choads do. Take for example.

Girls love to be emotionally aroused. If you keep giving the woman the same emotion she gets bored, and you'll see a change. They expect men to have 17 good ways how to make her feel special. Where did this come from? A feminist of course. Keep her happy because she's a woman, and you'll live happily ever after. Bizch please. I'm not saying dont be good to a woman, im saying there shouldn't be a reason for this thread. If you need to think of how to make her happy and special, you've already lost your alpha status bud. Because you're not unique.

Peace

 

[Atom Smasher]

I just got back from the vomitorium. Let me just pop this mint...

There.

This girl would be the very first one to respond favorably to "alpha" behavior. All that drivel would go right out the window for a guy who is able to push her buttons.

There's nothing wrong with doing nice things for a women, but only as a reward for good behavior (although you don't always want to create a direct link in her mind).

Here's the newsflash of the day: She already feels special. VERY special. Oprah and Cosmo have told her so and she believes it, in spite of her abysmally low self-esteem.

Such is the paradox of woman.

 

[Atom Smasher]

This sh!t made me laugh so hard I bout jumped out of my man thong.

:crackup: :crackup:

TMI.

 

[patrick.de]

There is nothing wrong with telling her that she is important to you IF SHE IS.
You guys mistake being a wimp with being honest.
If you tell her this because you are desperately trying to get in her pants you are doing it wrong.
It doesn't matter what you say, it's HOW you say it - remember? Most of you learned this in pick-up grade school.
You're not better than an AFC if you do the exact opposite he does just to be different.

 

[Atom Smasher]

It occurs to me that a woman knows she's important more by how a man acts around her than by verbal statements.

Tell me, Patrick, when a girl is cuddling up with you and says, "Honey, do you NEED me?", what do you say?

 

[patrick.de]

If you NEED her you base your own well-being on her and are far from being a self-confident individual who has a strong basic personality.
If she'd ask me that I'd say "no, I don't NEED you, but I enjoy your company a lot."
Strange question to ask tho.

If you wanna know what a REAL alpha is like then read some eastern stuff. Siddhartha Gotama was one bad-ass alpha`(and felt deep love for everyone at the same time - most people would consider this - incorrectly - as beta).

And isn't making a verbal statement also acting? Wouldn't you say "he acts like an idiot" when an AFC tells a girl who rejected him harshly how he is so much in love with her?

 

[Iceberg]

It occurs to me that a woman knows she's important more by how a man acts around her than by verbal statements.

Tell me, Patrick, when a girl is cuddling up with you and says, "Honey, do you NEED me?", what do you say?

That's what I was thinking.

The girls I seriously dated knew that I appreciated them by how I acted. I didn't need to talk about my feelings or hold hands and skip through the park. I was sleeping over their house. I was helping cook breakfast. I was telling them about my ambitions, and sharing my passions/hobbies with them.

The reality is, I've never known a woman to leave ANY man because he didn't "make her feel special." However, I've known a sh!t ton of women to leave a man for being "too nice, too boring, too clingy, too needy."

Which, of course, doesn't mean that you shouldn't treat your girlfriend well. But just as we want feminine women, they want masculine men. And talking about your feelings, or holding hands all day aren't masculine traits. If every now and then you want to say, "Damn baby, you're an amazing cook." or "You helped me get through a rough week." or you want to hold your girl's hand, of course you should do it. But for those AFCs out there, who desperately thrive on female approval...they can't pull this off.

 

[Love's Orphan]

The moderator said it all with the "they feel special already" bit. Isnt that why it is written all over this place that women need to be taken down from their pedestals?

 

[exile663dfx]

You're not better than an AFC if you do the exact opposite he does just to be different.

Dude we can go into circles telling eachother what is AFC and what is not. First off we figured out that being too nice is AFC. Then being a jerk is AFC then being opposite is AFC. Were all initially here to learn to suceed with women. You "initially" learn from actually being with a woman, approaching, dating, failing.. ect. These are all tips from guys who actually been out there, practicing, putting in the work, fvcking these girls.

You say that i'm trying to be different, when im actually different. Trying and doing is two different things and I got enough experience to tell you once you stop trying with women is when you actually suceed.

 

[bigneil]

"#4 Show that you care by trying to take part in things she loves doing"

(Does not include her ex boyfriend).