I need helpful and wise comments
with girls that are younger!
I am 17 years old and I know this 14 year old girl, and for a 14 year old, she's a HB8
(physically and personality-wise) . We attend the same church, her father's a pastor, and a lot of guys shower her with attention.
I give her attention sometimes but I also do my own thing with other people too, just to maintain the status of being a challenge to a certain degree. But when I do socialize with her, I use the DJ in all that we do, whether it's drawing, talking, eating, playing around, etc. It is so sweet to see the results when she laughs, returns kino, and so on.
However, I think I see some indications of interest from her for me and no other guy that messes around with her has asked for her number or taken her out on a date yet. I see it as a great chance to make her mine and be the one with juevos to take her out. Her friends joked around before about how we make a good couple, we can be duet instrument players (she plays piano, i play guitar), and so on.
The only thing that hinders me is not because I'm afraid, but is because it somehow feels immoral. I see her for who she is, not because of her age, yet I feel hesitant; her father, being a pastor, might get very uptight and insecure, or even angry, if I dated her. On the other hand, I'm willing to take a risk and give it a shot.
I'm being very contradicting, but I feel a little lost here and I'd appreciate it if you guys shed some light onto my current situation.
PS: Where's a FUN place to take a 14 year old? I thought of something casual and fun like pool, but I was thinking more in terms of excitement than learning something new.
with girls that are younger!
I am 17 years old and I know this 14 year old girl, and for a 14 year old, she's a HB8
(physically and personality-wise) . We attend the same church, her father's a pastor, and a lot of guys shower her with attention. I give her attention sometimes but I also do my own thing with other people too, just to maintain the status of being a challenge to a certain degree. But when I do socialize with her, I use the DJ in all that we do, whether it's drawing, talking, eating, playing around, etc. It is so sweet to see the results when she laughs, returns kino, and so on.
However, I think I see some indications of interest from her for me and no other guy that messes around with her has asked for her number or taken her out on a date yet. I see it as a great chance to make her mine and be the one with juevos to take her out. Her friends joked around before about how we make a good couple, we can be duet instrument players (she plays piano, i play guitar), and so on.
The only thing that hinders me is not because I'm afraid, but is because it somehow feels immoral. I see her for who she is, not because of her age, yet I feel hesitant; her father, being a pastor, might get very uptight and insecure, or even angry, if I dated her. On the other hand, I'm willing to take a risk and give it a shot.
I'm being very contradicting, but I feel a little lost here and I'd appreciate it if you guys shed some light onto my current situation.
PS: Where's a FUN place to take a 14 year old? I thought of something casual and fun like pool, but I was thinking more in terms of excitement than learning something new.
