In the old days, a woman could be a receptionist and pay for a 1 bedroom apartment no problem. Nowadays, a person practically needs to make triple figures to comfortably afford to live alone. Not surprisingly, a much greater percentage of "nice" girls now work as strippers. Hanging out at regular bars getting free drinks and occasional dinner dates just isn't going to cut it anymore.
There are many levels of strip clubs, from no-touch bikini bars (where they are just a shade over Hooter's girls) to fully nude Gentleman's clubs (where they are just a shade below porn stars), so don't judge them right away. Unless they have a pimp they are not a prostitute. If you can't truly accept her at face value or she will sense that your are judging her.
Many men will stop right there and that is fine. But if you still want to know how to regularly get stripper's phone numbers read on.
1) Be prepared to spend $200 total the night you go out. Any less is not going to do it. There are parking, cover charges and tips to consider. If this is more than a day's pay it's not worth it.
2) Dress your best. You can't over dress in a strip club. Say you just came from church if you have to.
3) Tip all of the dancers who are on stage, and don't hang out to get attention. Just toss a few $1's for being naked and walk off. Pay them at least $2 and if you really like them then $5 or $10. They will approach you later if they like you.
4) Only talk to girls who approach you. You're at enough of a disadvantage being in a paying, supplicating environment so at least make them work a little. Most of the time they will thank you after they get off stage if you tipped them. If they don't, write them off. If they delay in any way after you have tipped them, write them off. Otherwise be patient.
5) Know that if she avoids you she either truly likes you or truly despises you. It should be easy to tell the difference (any kind of smile and you are in the former category). If you want proof that she might actually like you even though she avoids you, look at the guys she actually approaches. Girls hate getting rejected as it is, but especially by guys they actually like, so be patient.
6) While you are waiting for your favorite girl to approach you, talk to the bartenders, waitresses and bouncers, If they don't like you the strippers won't either. If you meet a bar maid or bartender who you hit it off with, focus on them. They are your best bets for legitimate dates.
7) When a dancer who you actually like approaches you (you politely refuse the rest), try to get the free table area. There are scams that have you pay hundreds just to sit on a slightly nicer couch. Tell her you'd rather give her the money and she'll tell you the most economical place to sit.
8) When you get a table with her, buy her a drink and tell her up front that you are going to give her $100 and that includes tip. Tell her she can do whatever she thinks if fair for that amount (don't demand this, but know that if she enjoys your company it will be at least 5 songs and will usually be a half hour or so for that amount). Have a $100 bill ready.
9) Tell her you don't care if she dances for you or not. With strippers you win points by not looking at their body! It really gets to them. That said, take advantage and show dominance by ordering her around a little at least once. Ask her to stand up and show you her ass or something. This makes her feel as if she has to prove herself to you.
10) Pay her a little bit early so she knows you aren't going to scam her. If possible, tell her you know she has to work and that you need to get going (end the date early).
11) Ask her to tell you her real name. If not, you will be in her phone under the alias which screams "Customer" when you text her.
12) Tell her to dial your number and send a text (signed so she knows it's you) right away. If you did everything right you are guaranteed their number (which with strippers is only a slight chance they really like you, but it helps your esteem either way).
Congratulations! From this point on she will pretty much act like any other hot girl. Your best bet to see her again is to ask her when she is working next. See her at most 3 times at the club before she agrees to meet outside the club.
There are many levels of strip clubs, from no-touch bikini bars (where they are just a shade over Hooter's girls) to fully nude Gentleman's clubs (where they are just a shade below porn stars), so don't judge them right away. Unless they have a pimp they are not a prostitute. If you can't truly accept her at face value or she will sense that your are judging her.
Many men will stop right there and that is fine. But if you still want to know how to regularly get stripper's phone numbers read on.
1) Be prepared to spend $200 total the night you go out. Any less is not going to do it. There are parking, cover charges and tips to consider. If this is more than a day's pay it's not worth it.
2) Dress your best. You can't over dress in a strip club. Say you just came from church if you have to.
3) Tip all of the dancers who are on stage, and don't hang out to get attention. Just toss a few $1's for being naked and walk off. Pay them at least $2 and if you really like them then $5 or $10. They will approach you later if they like you.
4) Only talk to girls who approach you. You're at enough of a disadvantage being in a paying, supplicating environment so at least make them work a little. Most of the time they will thank you after they get off stage if you tipped them. If they don't, write them off. If they delay in any way after you have tipped them, write them off. Otherwise be patient.
5) Know that if she avoids you she either truly likes you or truly despises you. It should be easy to tell the difference (any kind of smile and you are in the former category). If you want proof that she might actually like you even though she avoids you, look at the guys she actually approaches. Girls hate getting rejected as it is, but especially by guys they actually like, so be patient.
6) While you are waiting for your favorite girl to approach you, talk to the bartenders, waitresses and bouncers, If they don't like you the strippers won't either. If you meet a bar maid or bartender who you hit it off with, focus on them. They are your best bets for legitimate dates.
7) When a dancer who you actually like approaches you (you politely refuse the rest), try to get the free table area. There are scams that have you pay hundreds just to sit on a slightly nicer couch. Tell her you'd rather give her the money and she'll tell you the most economical place to sit.
8) When you get a table with her, buy her a drink and tell her up front that you are going to give her $100 and that includes tip. Tell her she can do whatever she thinks if fair for that amount (don't demand this, but know that if she enjoys your company it will be at least 5 songs and will usually be a half hour or so for that amount). Have a $100 bill ready.
9) Tell her you don't care if she dances for you or not. With strippers you win points by not looking at their body! It really gets to them. That said, take advantage and show dominance by ordering her around a little at least once. Ask her to stand up and show you her ass or something. This makes her feel as if she has to prove herself to you.
10) Pay her a little bit early so she knows you aren't going to scam her. If possible, tell her you know she has to work and that you need to get going (end the date early).
11) Ask her to tell you her real name. If not, you will be in her phone under the alias which screams "Customer" when you text her.
12) Tell her to dial your number and send a text (signed so she knows it's you) right away. If you did everything right you are guaranteed their number (which with strippers is only a slight chance they really like you, but it helps your esteem either way).
Congratulations! From this point on she will pretty much act like any other hot girl. Your best bet to see her again is to ask her when she is working next. See her at most 3 times at the club before she agrees to meet outside the club.
And potato/zarky's subtle and ongoing quest to hate on game continues. Just be honest you quite literally have no idea what game is do you? I still remember that time you were unable to grasp a simple neg. As I recall you thought a neg was "any insult toward a chick" lulzlozloz
