10 Ways to Improve your SMV for better Daygame Interactions

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For young people entering the sexual market place improving SMV is a tough task even at the best of times that’s why I wrote this guide to how to improve men’s sexual market place value so that men can improve their results. One glaring problem when I started out was my lack of life experience really showed as I had nothing to talk about . I was literally one of the most boring human beings on the planet at the time, why was this? Partly because I didn’t value education , self development and nutrition but also because I simply didn’t make any active effort to show maturity in my life. Something that in hyper competitive environments like London is pretty much a necessity if you want to move up in the brutal sexual market place here. You need to have some personality, you need to be dynamic to a degree because interacting with women around the world some races will require more than negs to hook. I wrote this guide to sum up the best ways in which men can improve their daygame interactions and thus get better results.

Quick Summary in no particular order
  1. Learn a language
  2. Get better Wingmen use the wingmen guide to help: https://mindful-masculinity.org/202...hose-starting-out-on-their-seduction-journey/
  3. Prep your social media so you're looking good - read the social media guide : https://mindful-masculinity.org/202...ial-media-guide-for-dating-and-relationships/
  4. Be more Mindful
  5. read-listen to more audio books
  6. Gain Muscle/Loose body fat
  7. travel a lot / gain experiences in order to have a broader range of topics for interactions
  8. adjust your interests to those of the women you're into
  9. improve your dress
  10. sort out your other internal issues that could be affecting your game
 

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8. adjust your interests to those of the women you're into
Nope. Never adjust your interests to coincide with a woman's interests.

If your interests match ("cool, we're both into martial arts") that's fine, but don't take up surfing because you hope to snag a surfer girl.
 

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Nope. Never adjust your interests to coincide with a woman's interests.

If your interests match ("cool, we're both into martial arts") that's fine, but don't take up surfing because you hope to snag a surfer girl.
In terms of daygame it’s a good way to build more rapport with the women you like if you read my article properly . If you like Russian women a lot then learning some Russian for example will make the daygame experience a lot easier and drastically reduce flakes

as with any sales job If you’re selling to a particular group that has the same interests learning about said group of people will build quicker rapport
 

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Where are your receipts? We need to see some pics with you together with some solid hbs in order to get some cred on here to show that you are successful with the ladies.
 

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In terms of daygame it’s a good way to build more rapport with the women you like if you read my article properly . If you like Russian women a lot then learning some Russian for example will make the daygame experience a lot easier and drastically reduce flakes

as with any sales job If you’re selling to a particular group that has the same interests learning about said group of people will build quicker rapport
respectfully disagree. The only Russian girls a man should want are those that find said man to be attractive from the get go.

Baseline qualities that make you attractive have been posted ad Nauseum : height, looks(hair), money, status(above average)
 

If you want to talk, talk to your friends. If you want a girl to like you, listen to her, ask questions, and act like you are on the edge of your seat.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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respectfully disagree. The only Russian girls a man should want are those that find said man to be attractive from the get go.

Baseline qualities that make you attractive have been posted ad Nauseum : height, looks(hair), money, status(above average)
Have you done much daygame? By this post it seems you haven’t and I was using the nationality as an example. From my personal experience in cold approach it does reduce flakes ( not drastically but by a fair percentage point)
 

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If you like Russian women a lot then learning some Russian for example will make the daygame experience a lot easier and drastically reduce flakes
That's real horrorshow, but Russian girls enjoyed teaching me all their naughty words in bed.

Just like the Hungarian girls, the Czech girls, the Slovakian girls... :cool:

In terms of daygame it’s a good way to build more rapport with the women you like if you read my article properly
I speak about seven languages, five of them pretty well, plus excellent body language, so I have no trouble communicating. But that is not 'interests', that's more like finding something to talk about.
Interests are passions and hobbies.
A girl doesn't have to be a writer to engage with me, nor do I have to take up ballet to engage with her.
 

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Learning foreign languages is a must. I speak French English Russian and improving my Czech, I also have good bases of German.
Mike is absolutely right, the more languages you know the better.

I'm Dutch and most people don't speak Dutch, so most Dutch citizens who went to school here speak 3-4 languages. My daughter (13y) goes to the Gymnasium (second grade now) and is busy learning EN/FR/DE plus Greek and Latin, and she's taken to learning Czech through DuoLingo, practising by talking with my Czech kitten.
 
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