10 Most Common Reasons Guys Can't Get Laid

[BadBoy89]

Ten Most Common Reasons Guys Can‘t Get Laid.

10 Most Common Reasons Guys Can't Get Laid

The reasons a guy can’t get laid may be simple, but more often it’s not so intuitive. Here are the usual suspects, some of which you may have never considered. “Why Can’t I Get Laid?” After many years of teaching pickup, I can narrow down the reasons why so many guys can’t get laid. This article...

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#1 - They have No Game

Men think beautiful women only go for tall, good-looking men with money. And yet there are short, bald, older, minority men who repeatedly hook up with gorgeous, sexy, eager women. How do they do it? Game!

#2 - They don’t go out - Guys who can’t get laid may find this glorious information online but they don’t apply it.

#3 - They have terrible logistics - The solution is to live in a location with a high urban density of attractive young women.

#4 - Their ashamed of their **** - She must be made aware that you have a **** and want to shove it deep inside her.

#6 - They don’t drink - Plenty of guys who don’t drink can’t get laid simply because they don’t go to bars. Bars are where many single women go to meet men.

#7 - They have no friends - The right social circle is great for a guy who can’t get laid.

#8 - They have Low Self Esteem - Hot women want alpha male hunter/destroyers who will lead them and give them great sex.

#9 - They’re Disgusting - A common reason guys can’t get laid is because they look like slobs.

#10 - They are Apathetic - Most guys can’t get laid because they just don’t care.


Thoughts?

 

[corrector]

Ten Most Common Reasons Guys Can‘t Get Laid.

10 Most Common Reasons Guys Can't Get Laid

The reasons a guy can’t get laid may be simple, but more often it’s not so intuitive. Here are the usual suspects, some of which you may have never considered. “Why Can’t I Get Laid?” After many years of teaching pickup, I can narrow down the reasons why so many guys can’t get laid. This article...

www.girlschase.com

#1 - They have No Game

Men think beautiful women only go for tall, good-looking men with money. And yet there are short, bald, older, minority men who repeatedly hook up with gorgeous, sexy, eager women. How do they do it? Game!

Really? Where does this happen?

#2 - They don’t go out - Guys who can’t get laid may find this glorious information online but they don’t apply it.

But good-looking guys on here don't have to go out, they just use dating apps.

#3 - They have terrible logistics - The solution is to live in a location with a high urban density of attractive young women.

But good-looking guys can just use dating apps to connect with those women, most average-looking guys are just invisible.

#4 - Their ashamed of their **** - She must be made aware that you have a **** and want to shove it deep inside her.

You are normally clothed in public or you could get arrested.

#6 - They don’t drink - Plenty of guys who don’t drink can’t get laid simply because they don’t go to bars. Bars are where many single women go to meet men.

You can also buy drinks from the LCBO and take it home to drink.

#7 - They have no friends - The right social circle is great for a guy who can’t get laid.

You mean like the sausage-fests like meetup.com. Lets face it, most meetups or social circles are sausage fests. Any women you see there is either taken or had her own people there who will end up c0ck-blockign you.

#8 - They have Low Self Esteem - Hot women want alpha male hunter/destroyers who will lead them and give them great sex.

This is caused by allot of rejection after cold-approaching and being ignored on dating apps. Good-looking people who are successful with dating apps can't have such a problem since they work for them. People don't start-out with low self-esteem.

#9 - They’re Disgusting - A common reason guys can’t get laid is because they look like slobs.

Again, a good-looking chad/chadlite can get away with looking like a slob. Women can look like slobs and get guys chasing them.

#10 - They are Apathetic - Most guys can’t get laid because they just don’t care.

Well, if you don't have the looks to make the dating process success either easy or doable with moderate effort and unlikely any extreme rejections, then why should you care? People, like @Robert28 get tired putting allot of effort and getting burned at the end of the day, and become lazy especially when they see other guys have it too easy. Can you really blame people for not caring?

 

[eli77]

Haha

 

[Plinco]

1.) Have mental issues which manifest itself as low self-esteem, lack of goals, poor health, etc. This results in bad game.

2.) Having low value in the eyes of other people, such as expressing mental issues described above, being old, expressing low income, not being more than six foot tall, etc.

 

[SW15]

Those 10 reasons are good. I'll comment on 3 of them.

#2 - They don’t go out - Guys who can’t get laid may find this glorious information online but they don’t apply it.

It's difficult to get laid without going out. It's possible to arrange first dates without doing any in-person approaching via swipe apps or Instagram DM's. That's a tough path that I wouldn't recommend, but it can be done.

Few guys can pull women immediately to their homes from the swipe apps/DM's without an in-public first date either. A very small percentage of men made this happen during the worst of the pandemic though.

App swipers and Instagram DM'ers will need to do well on in-public first dates dates to get laid. Men who rely on approaching strangers to get laid will also need to go out in public.

#3 - They have terrible logistics - The solution is to live in a location with a high urban density of attractive young women.

#6 - They don’t drink - Plenty of guys who don’t drink can’t get laid simply because they don’t go to bars. Bars are where many single women go to meet men.

Approaching strangers in nightlife venues is a good way to get laid. It's likely better for same night lays and casual sex than finding first dates. The nightlife situations that are best for finding first dates for extended relationships are weeknight happy hours and daytime/early evening approaching on weekends. While Friday and Saturday nights later night (9 PM and later) are most crowded, they are also the most problematic for finding actual first dates for committed relationships. Some guys have great later night Fri/Sat game for one night stand sex though.

It's possible to arrange first dates without doing nightlife venue approaching. All 3 options with this are difficult. App swiping, Instagram DM'ing, and approaching strangers in non-bar venues are the options. App swiping and Instagram DM'ing can be done from the comfort of your home without looking presentable. Many men will find this appealing. Swiping and sending DMs are both inefficient paths. Most men need to make hundreds to thousands of swipes just to get a first date. It's a similar ratio for sending DMs. Approaching strangers in real life involves a lot of wasted time. It's possible to do a 2 hour approach session outdoors or in indoor retail settings on a weekend and have very few approaches, none of which lead to arranging a first date. Those sessions are big time emotional downers.

If a man does non-bar approaching, app swiping, or Instagram DMing, they'll likely need to go to a bar for a first date. Doing early stage dates without alcohol is quite difficult.

Logistics matter most for casual sex. If first date sex or same night lays at the bar are important, there's a need for living within walking distance of bars and date locations. It's possible to get the sex with a short ride share app ride/car ride too, but selling a woman on walking distance is easier.

For longer term dating arrangements, living in a semi-populated area is essential. Areas under 150,000 in population typically don't work for men who are 25-50 and not in school who are looking for sexual relationships. Within larger cities/metro areas, it's better to live in neighborhoods where unmarried people commonly live. Suburban type areas in larger metro areas typically aren't best either as that would typically make things more difficult. Women have so many options that they usually opt for the guy who lives closer to her, even when gas prices are not near all time highs.

 

[CornbreadFed]

#1 - They have No Game

Men think beautiful women only go for tall, good-looking men with money. And yet there are short, bald, older, minority men who repeatedly hook up with gorgeous, sexy, eager women. How do they do it? Game!

Agree and disagree. There’s a a lot of reasons on why non Chad/rich guys get women. The most common ones are Niche(the girl will only date vegans or guys in a punk rock scene) , glow up/glow down relationship(the guy got fatter or woman got hotter), the girl values other things over looks such as race, or control over the relationship, and simply men suck at rating other men, so the looks differences is actually none or minimum at all.

#2 - They don’t go out - Guys who can’t get laid may find this glorious information online but they don’t apply it.

This should be number 1. Most men are lazy and would rather wait for an opportunity to fall out of the sky rather than create one themselves. Your typical beta male and black piller both took swings at like 8 pitches, but the beta male managed to hit a couple while the black piller gave up afterwards.

#3 - They have terrible logistics - The solution is to live in a location with a high urban density of attractive young women.

Agree, but a man should make sure he has every thing checked out before he starts blaming logistics unless he lives in bum fvck Egypt somewhere.

#9 - They’re Disgusting - A common reason guys can’t get laid is because they look like slobs.

#10 - They are Apathetic - Most guys can’t get laid because they just don’t care.

The only other ones I agree with because they tie back to point 1 and 2.

Social Circle point I disagree with because social circles aren’t going to feed “unworthy” guys girls to date. Social Circles are only good for if you have the simple beta male personality.