1 min they all over you next day they say they never had feelings. Explanation?

[pete101]

Are there any definitive posts on here or threads that explain why women show super high interest in you the night before then the next day have buyers remorse and say they have no feelings and never had any?

This has happened way too many times in my life for it to be coincidence and i need to fix what im doing wrong.

So most importantly what can be done to avoid this the next day?

Because im developing psychogical trauma where after i leave after what seems a good night it reminds me of previous times they U turned the next day leaving me flabbergasted.

Does anyone have explanations why women go hot and cold like this the very next day? And importantly how to avoid it?

 

[Gamisch]

Are there any definitive posts on here or threads that explain why women show super high interest in you the night before then the next day have buyers remorse and say they have no feelings and never had any?

This has happened way too many times in my life for it to be coincidence and i need to fix what im doing wrong.

So most importantly what can be done to avoid this the next day?

Because im developing psychogical trauma where after i leave after what seems a good night it reminds me of previous times they U turned the next day leaving me flabbergasted.

Does anyone have explanations why women go hot and cold like this the very next day? And importantly how to avoid it?

You might sell them A but when they open it it's not even B,but rather H.

Like buying something from Ali express or Temu, and being disappointed once the product doesn't fit your expectations. Combine this with the hypergamy that running wild and Voilà.

Might be acting " too happy" once the interactions are going. Too safe..too nice. Not upfront enough. Too boring.

Women are like the weather, ever changing without any clear reasons. Gotta adjust YOUR game untill results improve .

The life of a man

 

[TheGambino]

One day their all over you svcking you dry cuddling everything next day she’s feeling down and sleeps on the side of the bed. Just keep frame and leave her be. She comes around or not. The life of a man indeed.

 

[The Duke]

Are there any definitive posts on here or threads that explain why women show super high interest in you the night before then the next day have buyers remorse and say they have no feelings and never had any?

This has happened way too many times in my life for it to be coincidence and i need to fix what im doing wrong.

So most importantly what can be done to avoid this the next day?

Because im developing psychogical trauma where after i leave after what seems a good night it reminds me of previous times they U turned the next day leaving me flabbergasted.

Does anyone have explanations why women go hot and cold like this the very next day? And importantly how to avoid it?

Its likely something you are doing. You would need to share details of your interactions, you really haven't given us anything other than state the problem.

 

[TheGambino]

Its likely something you are doing. You would need to share details of your interactions, you really haven't given us anything other than state the problem.

Ye weakness, neediness, jealousy, or complete indifference. Could be any.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Disappointment thaf what they thought they were getting while messaging and talking over the phone isn't what they get when you meet in person.

Basically you talk a good game but you don't follow thru in person.

In other words the way you act and your body language in person doesn't match the way you act thru phone/messaging.

You also are quite insecure, needy and desperate in terms of how you post on here so I am positive that is coming across like a giant red flag while you in person with them.

Women pick up on that stuff very quickly and you don't hide it as well as you think you do.

 

[BPH]

A few things.

1. Obviously dependent on whether this is happening before or after you've had sex, but maybe you're trash in bed.

2. You're overinvesting in these chicks when you don't have a reason to (the girl you thought was wifey material that you envisioned yourself with even though she was only coming to meet you abroad for the first time).

3. You're faking something. What that is, not sure, but I don't know if you're making promises you can't deliver on or if you're just nervous in person.

Describe WHAT you're doing rather than HOW you're feeling in response to the interactions these women have with you.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Because im developing psychogical trauma where after i leave after what seems a good night it reminds me of previous times they U turned the next day leaving me flabbergasted

You need to seek psychiatric treatment, if you really believe that you're "traumatized" by such things

 

[Lotus Effect]

Don’t be di cks guys.

Genuine question from OP.

It’s actually a thing. I had this chick that I called her ‘50 first dates’, because at night she was all over me, woke up, it felt we haven’t met.

and I had to do it all over again.
Day in and day out. Everyday, every single fvckinf day. For the period of 5 months.

There’s a song about it:
Raimundos - Mulher de Fases
Great song, really explain this whole sh!t

And of Course it didn’t last long because eventually I AFCed out, and as hypergamy is always on, one day there was another dude.

She LJBF me, I said no, and she became the actual satan. Never spoke to her again. Pretty sure she hates me.

Bottomline little friend is. The game is ALWAYS on. Always.

The minute you flinch, is the minute you lose.

As some guys said, the life of a man.

 

[pete101]

Its likely something you are doing. You would need to share details of your interactions, you really haven't given us anything other than state the problem.

I mean for 1 my game isnt tight enough so that is clear reason for buyers remorse.

They tell me like 'i dont have feelings for you and never did' but the night before we were getting naked you kissing me all over and im sucking your tits and you are like 'when can i see you next'

I tried to get answers which is futile apart from the usual it was a fleeting moment

I suspect it was messed up from the start too many red flags like being late not dressed for a date.

Seeing some other guy before me.

It makes me actually hate women now to the point i feel heartless i want to f them over before they do the same to me.

I care little how it looks or if im arguing with them post rejection it is fine when they dont do anything with me but when they are all over me asking me when they can see me again then just u turn the next day that bothers me the most

 

[pete101]

Ye weakness, neediness, jealousy, or complete indifference. Could be any.

This is fair

 

[pete101]

You need to seek psychiatric treatment, if you really believe that you're "traumatized" by such things

Why wouldnt i be traumatized by this type of thing being led on them U turned the next day? Especially if it keeps happening throughout my life

 

[pete101]

A few things.

1. Obviously dependent on whether this is happening before or after you've had sex, but maybe you're trash in bed.

2. You're overinvesting in these chicks when you don't have a reason to (the girl you thought was wifey material that you envisioned yourself with even though she was only coming to meet you abroad for the first time).

3. You're faking something. What that is, not sure, but I don't know if you're making promises you can't deliver on or if you're just nervous in person.

Describe WHAT you're doing rather than HOW you're feeling in response to the interactions these women have with you.

1. We didnt have sex she wouldnt let me kiss her but let me take her bra off and play and suck with her tits i did find this odd tbh.

2. It was only this one other chicks i see i dont have these thoughts im only trying to fvck them so dont care if i dont but like the U turning does confuse me

My reasons for wifey is this is what i envisage my wife to look like both ethnically and nationality wise of my criteria mix of nationalities and ethnicities. Like my goal of just fvcking went out the window unlike it normally does and possibly that was my main mistake.

3. Def must come across nervous in person i have anxiety so they can feel it so somethin is off it is difficult to hide like i can be acting confident but still anxious so it comes across as not congruent

 

[Bokanovsky]

Are there any definitive posts on here or threads that explain why women show super high interest in you the night before then the next day have buyers remorse and say they have no feelings and never had any?

B!tches be crazy. Their emotions are not susceptible to rational analysis.

 

[pete101]

Don’t be di cks guys.

Genuine question from OP.

It’s actually a thing. I had this chick that I called her ‘50 first dates’, because at night she was all over me, woke up, it felt we haven’t met.

and I had to do it all over again.
Day in and day out. Everyday, every single fvckinf day. For the period of 5 months.

There’s a song about it:
Raimundos - Mulher de Fases
Great song, really explain this whole sh!t

And of Course it didn’t last long because eventually I AFCed out, and as hypergamy is always on, one day there was another dude.

She LJBF me, I said no, and she became the actual satan. Never spoke to her again. Pretty sure she hates me.

Bottomline little friend is. The game is ALWAYS on. Always.

The minute you flinch, is the minute you lose.

As some guys said, the life of a man.

The real question is there explanations why it keeps happening the U turn

Maybe they can sense the desperation and it not being congruent on the outside so buyers remorse the next day

They dont feel the same way the night before.

Like sometimes i just prefer them not interested at all cos i dont like being lead on just to be slapped in the face

 

[BPH]

1. We didnt have sex she wouldnt let me kiss her but let me take her bra off and play and suck with her tits i did find this odd tbh.

2. It was only this one other chicks i see i dont have these thoughts im only trying to fvck them so dont care if i dont but like the U turning does confuse me

My reasons for wifey is this is what i envisage my wife to look like both ethnically and nationality wise of my criteria mix of nationalities and ethnicities. Like my goal of just fvcking went out the window unlike it normally does and possibly that was my main mistake.

3. Def must come across nervous in person i have anxiety so they can feel it so somethin is off it is difficult to hide like i can be acting confident but still anxious so it comes across as not congruent

The way you type seems frantic - you don't use punctuation, your sentences all run on, and it seems like you're in such a rush to get a thought out that you can't properly articulate it.

I'm not sure if English isn't your first language or if you're very young, but if that's not the case I'd wager the way you behave behind the screen is similar to how you behave in person with these women.

Slow down, stop fantasizing about steps 8, 9, and 10 when you're on step 1 with these women. Live independent of the outcome and enjoy the moment, and if you aren't enjoying it, seek somebody else.

But it really sounds like you have some fundamental flaws here, especially if you're becoming resentful towards women and want to f*** them over due to YOUR shortcomings.

 

[pete101]

Disappointment thaf what they thought they were getting while messaging and talking over the phone isn't what they get when you meet in person.

Basically you talk a good game but you don't follow thru in person.

In other words the way you act and your body language in person doesn't match the way you act thru phone/messaging.

You also are quite insecure, needy and desperate in terms of how you post on here so I am positive that is coming across like a giant red flag while you in person with them.

Women pick up on that stuff very quickly and you don't hide it as well as you think you do.

No i agree i dont hide it well at all

So how do i fix the neediness desperation if i suffer from anxiety? Im always coming across nervous even if im feeling confident

 

[pete101]

The way you type seems frantic - you don't use punctuation, your sentences all run on, and it seems like you're in such a rush to get a thought out that you can't properly articulate it.

I'm not sure if English isn't your first language or if you're very young, but if that's not the case I'd wager the way you behave behind the screen is similar to how you behave in person with these women.

Slow down, stop fantasizing about steps 8, 9, and 10 when you're on step 1 with these women. Live independent of the outcome and enjoy the moment, and if you aren't enjoying it, seek somebody else.

But it really sounds like you have some fundamental flaws here, especially if you're becoming resentful towards women and want to f*** them over due to YOUR shortcomings.

My question is why are they all over you the night before then U turn the next day?

Fine the things above you say are true but like usually it manifests itself with them not interested at all that is fine i can handle that but not when they seem all into you then just do a u turn the next day

 

[pete101]

The way you type seems frantic - you don't use punctuation, your sentences all run on, and it seems like you're in such a rush to get a thought out that you can't properly articulate it.

I'm not sure if English isn't your first language or if you're very young, but if that's not the case I'd wager the way you behave behind the screen is similar to how you behave in person with these women.

Slow down, stop fantasizing about steps 8, 9, and 10 when you're on step 1 with these women. Live independent of the outcome and enjoy the moment, and if you aren't enjoying it, seek somebody else.

But it really sounds like you have some fundamental flaws here, especially if you're becoming resentful towards women and want to f*** them over due to YOUR shortcomings.

I dont think it is unreasonable for me to want to f them over if im constantly getting led on to just get u turned the next day

It isnt uncommon for guys to become heartless after having their heart broken or what not, we become cold hearted and cheat and not care as we are still damaged by previous interactions or past trauma

 

[pete101]

The way you type seems frantic - you don't use punctuation, your sentences all run on, and it seems like you're in such a rush to get a thought out that you can't properly articulate it.

I'm not sure if English isn't your first language or if you're very young, but if that's not the case I'd wager the way you behave behind the screen is similar to how you behave in person with these women.

Slow down, stop fantasizing about steps 8, 9, and 10 when you're on step 1 with these women. Live independent of the outcome and enjoy the moment, and if you aren't enjoying it, seek somebody else.

But it really sounds like you have some fundamental flaws here, especially if you're becoming resentful towards women and want to f*** them over due to YOUR shortcomings.

I was only thinking about step 8, 9 with this one all others i dont think about this stuff as i dont envisage them this way