“So, what do you want out of this?”

[fanatic22]

How do you guys deal with this question? Assuming you want to keep it casual. I feel like I always get this question after 4-5 dates.

 

[lizardking82]

"I am always on the look out for positive people to add to my life and who knows...what might happen later" + light smile and silence.

 

[Trump]

How do you guys deal with this question? Assuming you want to keep it casual.

"I want to keep it casual."

 

[CMNILS87]

What do you want? Always keep it open ended. Always say, “I’m pretty busy and looking to date, if it grows more than that’s cool”. Shows you’re not desperate for a girl and are kinda relaxed

 

[djthiago1]

When a girl says that, it means "i wanna be your girlfriend", i have no idea what to say to keep it casual, i don't date women i'm not interested to be in a LTR with. When they say that or something similar to me i always reply with: "why do you ask? Do you want me to be your boyfriend?" 99 times out of 100 the answer is "yes".