“I have a boyfriend” part 1 million and 1

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I have a boyfriend can mean one of 3 things.

1. I'm not available.

2. I'm lying. There is no boyfriend. I'm not interested.

Or 3. I have a boyfriend but I'm going to shovel you enough false hope leading you to believe you have a chance then i will have yet another orbiter and i win tons of attention watching my boyfriend get jealous and watching this guy lose his mind wondering if he will ever have me.

Interested girls want you to believe they are 100% single so you will pursue them.
4) I have a bf (and I’m available for the right experience from someone who ‘gets it’ and leads me)
 

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I have a boyfriend can mean one of 3 things.

1. I'm not available.

2. I'm lying. There is no boyfriend. I'm not interested.

Or 3. I have a boyfriend but I'm going to shovel you enough false hope leading you to believe you have a chance then i will have yet another orbiter and i win tons of attention watching my boyfriend get jealous and watching this guy lose his mind wondering if he will ever have me.

Interested girls want you to believe they are 100% single so you will pursue them.
No, I have a total other experience. There are so many girls/women who will only quit with their boyfriend/husband after they found a new - confirmed - option, a new boyfriend, they simply jump from relationship to relationship. I can speak about many examples.
 

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No, I have a total other experience. There are so many girls/women who will only quit with their boyfriend/husband after they found a new - confirmed - option, a new boyfriend, they simply jump from relationship to relationship. I can speak about many examples.
4) I have a bf (and I’m available for the right experience from someone who ‘gets it’ and leads me)
Oh i know about the 4th type. But see @cola reply. That is why i say 3

Branch swingers not included.
 

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Man, tell you the truth younger me would have been like “Yea! She got a boyfriend, screw they guy I’m gonna bang her anyway!”

but after a little life experience man dudes are crazy.. all he has to do is suspect she’s cheating follow her to the date and now you got a fight or worse on your hands.
So in 2020 I say leave chicks with boyfriends alone.
Just said everything man!

I follow this mindset too... You don't get anything than a ego supply and a chance to be on fight or get shot by a guy.

OP, don't fall into that trap man... Those kind of women don't worth the price.

Had a case where I date a pretty hot girl, she was a HB9+... She said me she dated a drug dealer in the past (I should've leave in that moment!), but she had broke up with him.

Then I found out by a friend that she was still dating this guy. I could get killed... So I just cut all contact with her and never look at her face. It definetely doesn't worth!

If a girl have a bf and want to date you, it's the Master of All Red Flags it could even exist! We live on a crazy World bro... Everything is possible.

Also, that guy could be a good person... Bro before hoes. Better an ally than a enemy in that case.
 

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Man it’s so many chicks without a boyfriend it isn’t worth the potential trouble dealing with someone who has one.

I know a dude who is now in a wheelchair for the rest of his life. He met a girl, they hit it off. Her boyfriend came home a couple hours sooner than he was suppose to, he tried to run out the house and got shot in the back severing his spinal cord and leaving him no feeling from the waste down.

it ain’t worth it.
It's fvcked up that these guys get angry at the other man, who is himself single, and who probably didn't even know she was in a relationship. If they're gonna get enraged, it should at least be at the person who actually betrayed them... unless the guy was gloating to him about it in which case it'd be both (I would personally just still shrug and walk away). Did he even know she was in a relationship?
 
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it should at least be at the person who actually betrayed them.
For a mature man this is true... But in this World there is some guys that prefer to react with anger, so the sh1t can happen.

Ony guy who works in the same place than me was really mad at me cause I go out with his ex (and he was also dating another girl in that period). In the beginning he doesn't even look at my face haha. And I didn't know she was his ex until she told me. She also told me that he used to chase her in that time... trying to get back, even dating another girl.
 

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For a mature man this is true... But in this World there is some guys that prefer to react with anger, so the sh1t can happen.

Ony guy who works in the same place than me was really mad at me cause I go out with his ex (and he was also dating another girl in that period). In the beginning he doesn't even look at my face haha. And I didn't know she was his ex until she told me. She also told me that he used to chase her in that time... trying to get back, even dating another girl.
What a pathetic lowlife.... lol
 

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What a pathetic lowlife.... lol
And I found her on Tinder!

The funny fact: his friend saw me with his ex, take a picture of us on the bar we went and sent to him. So there is a picture of me somewhere, kissing that girl
 

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It's fvcked up that these guys get angry at the other man, who is himself single, and who probably didn't even know she was in a relationship. If they're gonna get enraged, it should at least be at the person who actually betrayed them... unless the guy was gloating to him about it in which case it'd be both (I would personally just still shrug and walk away). Did he even know she was in a relationship?
I believe he did know and they had been doing this for months when he goes to work, just dumb bad luck he got off early this day..
 

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I have a boyfriend can mean one of 3 things.

1. I'm not available.

2. I'm lying. There is no boyfriend. I'm not interested.

Or 3. I have a boyfriend but I'm going to shovel you enough false hope leading you to believe you have a chance then i will have yet another orbiter and i win tons of attention watching my boyfriend get jealous and watching this guy lose his mind wondering if he will ever have me.

Interested girls want you to believe they are 100% single so you will pursue them.
The context was not “I have a boyfriend” it was “ I have a boyfriend... but we can still go if you want” in my eyes this is interest, but as will concede that it could #3.
It's fvcked up that these guys get angry at the other man, who is himself single, and who probably didn't even know she was in a relationship. If they're gonna get enraged, it should at least be at the person who actually betrayed them... unless the guy was gloating to him about it in which case it'd be both (I would personally just still shrug and walk away). Did he even know she was in a relationship?
As society has proven time and time again, it’s always the mans fault. Men’s strong suit is physical aggression and physical combat. Not really screaming/crying etc. You can’t be physical with a woman but you can sure as hell be physical with a man.
 

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I believe he did know and they had been doing this for months when he goes to work, just dumb bad luck he got off early this day..
He was just an idiot then. Why the fvck would you play with your life fortune just for some pvssy, especially in a country like America where anyone could potentially blow your brain out. And that's exactly what Mr Simp did to him, thus your point.
 
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Man it’s so many chicks without a boyfriend it isn’t worth the potential trouble dealing with someone who has one.

I know a dude who is now in a wheelchair for the rest of his life. He met a girl, they hit it off. Her boyfriend came home a couple hours sooner than he was suppose to, he tried to run out the house and got shot in the back severing his spinal cord and leaving him no feeling from the waste down.

it ain’t worth it.
There was a guy at an old workplace whose woman was banging some other guy, so he shot the guy, and now he's a lifer at the state prison farm.
 
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