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What you say to a woman is comparatively insignificant to HOW you say it. Studies prove that the effect of a message is 7% verbal, 38% is vocal aesthetics, tone of voice and rhythm. The rest 55% is body language, posture and presence. Subtle guidelines: Wide hand movements denote high...

We get a lot of threads where a poster's only girl is referred to as a plate. He's worried about losing her. He screens her every text for possible **** tests. He considers every word he sends back as though it may cause a catastrophic turn of events that might dry up the plate's ***** (tip: you...

Hi guys, new member here and I appreciate all your input and advice on my previous posts. I am very eager to learn what works and what does not in regards to pickup. Been a long time lurker and now deciding to take real action and learn! If you go on a date/s with a girl and had initial value...

Whether it's a text that you sent when you just met or even the text messages that you send now or in the future. I often wondered why potential candidates that I have met in the past abruptly stopped texting me as soon as I sent a "no no" text. I kept repeating these same mistakes until I...

I think the main part of the reason why I may have trouble with women is because I fail to get in touch with my masculinity, specifically in the context of social situations and communicating with women. I didn't have a particularly close relationship with my father, and he passed away as soon...

Following my previous thread, I have made this thread to share my recent experiences in going out at night and trying to improve my game. To summarise my previous thread I aim to gain more confidence, get the dating game all figured out, and end my frustrations. My main assets are my looks and...

I have been feeling like this recently. I realised that I was not getting the love life I desired from women. Which is to have fun with the loose types, and date seriously a good girl type if I find them. What makes it frustrating is that I know I'm a good looking guy. I've had women tell me...

From the get-go, the sex was amazing-- everything that I would want was available. At times, I would even forget that she had a child given her freedom. I thought to myself that this was the woman might me the one. After a good 6 months of sharing, she started asking me to come to her family...

So six months ago I met a girl at a local festival in my hometown. The way she smiled at me and eyed me made it clear she wanted me. Thus I decided to approach her. We had fun and kissed. After that we kept in touch through texting. A week later I coincidentally needed to go to her town for an...

I have become quite depressed, confused, and frustrated. I suspect it is for a number of reasons. Firstly, my father had recently passed away. It was cancer. My memories of the incident are rather vivid. The whole thing was so confusing. The worrying thing is that I don't know if I have fully...

I'm a shy guy, *****, or beta person whatever you guys call people who are shy. This one girl back in Community College gave me all signs of interest in other words the "green light" to approach her to ask out, etc. I way to shy to talk to her that I made her wait over a year, yes she still had...

Biggest issue I see with men is they spend 95% of their time, energy and efforts with women trying to convince uninterested women to become more interested rather than spending that time, energy and effort effectively by finding more women who are already interested. By far this is the one...

Hey, I'm new to this form and would like some advice on how to make jokes with women. Sometimes I can be extremely funny, but I would like to know what can I joke about with women and what jokes are completely off the table when talking with them?

I've been seing this 21 years old girl for around three months now. We have a lot of fun together, she's smart, kind, happy, sex is very good...but she's just a 6. We dont have anything serious but it is not just a fwb relat Anyway, the thing is that...she is TOO MUCH OF A SLUT. Really, I...

Dating a girl with anxiety and she is not use to people working through that disorder so she continually tries to push me away. Basically told me that the attention im giving her is making her fearful. We stopped talking the day before her birthday. Should I wait a while and continue to pursue...

Hi guys, I've been thinking about this one for a while now so I was hoping to get some input from the mature men around here and get some advice. I've been dating with the same girl for a year now, she's smart, funny, takes great care of me and the sex is great... Physically I'd say she's a 7...

Back in the dating game in London after 7 years ltr - first date back was a great start - a stunning Brazilian lady (when first met in a bar had a man come up and shake my hand - could obviously see how well we were getting on) few schoolboy errors - gave her my number (she texted next day)...

Ignore the title -- I meant "she was taken and rejected me. Now she's single and uninterested.. I think" I am an incoming college sophomore. This occurred freshman year. Before I found out she was in a relationship, she had already blew off our lunch date. When I found out she was taken a...

So a little background about my situation, I met a cool girl and I invited her out for dinner and we went bowling afterwards. We had a great time, we were flirty, laughing, and I sensed the attraction levels. At the end of the night, she hugged me in the Uber and said she would like to see me...

I've come across a website where people rate you against 3 criteria on photos you upload. I uploaded two photos and wanted to see the results from the site. (see attached) for optical glasses I got: smart 76%, trustworthy 51%, attractive 41% percentile for sunglasses I got: smart 31%...