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    Texting to confirm the date

    Hey guys, thanks for the replies. Good info. I ended up texting her about an hour ago "Hey Alice we still on for tomorrow evening?". I just got a reply. Time to write this one off? Should I even bother responding? "Hey alright maybe some other time"?
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    Texting to confirm the date

    Hey dudes, Just wanted to know what you guys think about best ways to text to confirm a date in this situation. I've got one that was setup for tomorrow but the communication has dropped off a bit. I could definitely stand to improve my text game a little; I think I dropped a little TMI in my...
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    How to rally back a flake?

    My text in red. During the date she was like "oh we should take classes together next semester!" and "oh we need to get that movie at redbox sometime and watch it together" We were also drinking vodka last night. I'm thinking about inviting her over tomorrow for drinks and a movie and then...
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    How to rally back a flake?

    Usually I would have nexted, but I followed my intuition on this one because I felt a lot of attraction from her since she approached me. It worked out, we kissed last night. In 6 hours I got class with her, I'm pretty tired but I'll probably still go.
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    How to rally back a flake?

    Bump. I got class with her tomorrow at 11AM and it's about 7:20 PM. Would asking her out for tonight be too soon? "Going to start on my research for our paper soon soon, come over at 8:30 if you want to join in"? Edit: Decided to call her instead - she apologized again for missing the last date...
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    How to rally back a flake?

    Met this girl in class Wednesday who showed high interest. She came and sat next to me when class ended when and used the topic I'm doing for my research paper as an excuse to converse with me. I hugged her goodbye and she asked to exchange numbers so I took down hers and she told me to call or...
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    Reinitiating contact after no-response text

    Well, I haven't heard anything back from this one. I've stayed NC since she didn't pick up my call last Thursday. No texts, no nothing. I'm going to have to see her in class on Friday for the first time in the two weeks since we had our date. How should I act when I see her? What do I say to her?
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    Reinitiating contact after no-response text

    I called yesterday around five. I got her voicemail so I hung up. I'm not sure if it's a good idea to leave a message when you call or not. I figure she knows if I called either way. I didn't get a call back. I won't see her until our class meets up in a week. Should I text her a date invite...
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    Reinitiating contact after no-response text

    Yeah, that was pretty bad. I got that line from an article on girlschase. Totally didn't go over the way I wanted it to. It's one thing when you actually send texts like that but even worse when you look at it in hindsight. Cool, it's good to know I still got a shot if I call. How much c&f and...
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    Reinitiating contact after no-response text

    I had a date with a girl last Thursday and I wasn't as aggressive as I should have been and I made a couple of mistakes but it felt good overall to the point where a second date with escalation was within my grasp. I want to reestablish contact since it's been 4 days since I heard from her...
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    HELP: "As friends" pulled setting up second date

    Thanks for the replies guys. Yes, I finked it up by not being aggressive enough on the first date. I ended up texting her an hour and a half ago asking if 7:30 works and she hasn't replied but hey, I set the precedent by not replying for 4 and a half hours. If she replies that yes, it works...
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    HELP: "As friends" pulled setting up second date

    Just texted this girl who I had a first date with Thursday (see thread) Me:Hey [name], hope you made that test your b!tch! I had a great time with you Thursday - you're very pleasant to talk to. Are you free for dinner tomorrow evening? Girl: Sure I like talking to you too as friends that'd...
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    Meeting her parents on first date

    See my FR thread for what happened on the date: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=203388 Thanks for the replies guys - I ended up telling her in my text before I left to pick her up that I'd call her when I got there. As soon as I called she was right out the door and I had no...
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    FR: First date, kiss on cheek, post-date text

    Thanks man; we are pretty young, I'm 20 and she's 18. Will definitely go for more kino and a lil booze next time. Just responded to her thank you text an hour ago saying "my pleasure".
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    FR: First date, kiss on cheek, post-date text

    Had a pretty good first date tonight. Picked the girl up at her parents' house, didn't end up meeting them - texted her when I left that I'd call her when I'd pull up and sure enough when I called she was right out the door. Went to the first restaurant I was going to take her to but it was...
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    Meeting her parents on first date

    Got a first date tomorrow with a girl who's 19 and lives with her parents. I told her I'd pick her up and when I did I forgot that she still lives at her parents' house. Don't really want to deal with meeting her parents and dealing with any of their qualifications/interrogations just yet. I...
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    Approached by a girl at work

    First of all thank you guys so much for the advice that I needed but you guys had no obligation to give me. Bros helping bros. I talked to her and she is super cool. Told me she was polyamorous and that whenever she gives a guy her number, it's because she thinks he's "fun". She also told me...
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    Approached by a girl at work

    Hey all, So I work at the mall with Sandy Claws for the Christmas season where parents come in and take their kids to have photos taken. Mr. Claws had left and it was just me closing up shop on black friday as this girl walks up claiming to be drunk but not slurring her words or appearing to...
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    Geeky HB "study buddy" coming to my pad, suggestions?

    Well, thanks for the advice. Applied a tip from sosuave here today about when setting up the meet by telling her to let me know when she was on her way. She texted me about 10 minutes after we were supposed to meet up to tell me she was coming, so that saved me time waiting around. We met up...
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    Geeky HB "study buddy" coming to my pad, suggestions?

    Back aagain K, so I've just been polite and friendly with this girl and put her on the backburner for now. Text exchange Wednesday: Girl: Are you going to work on the study packet with your friend? Me: No, but you're welcome to join me :) Girl: Okay, want to do it on campus M/T? Me: I...
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