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I haven't done OLD in quite some time, but when I did, I'd agree. My notch count really increased quickly in a shorter period of time. I'm grateful for that aspect, but some of the OLD gal's are a bit of a blur or (if I didn't keep a list, would be forgotten) Don't get me wrong. I had some...

I think that your situation is salvageable, but if you continue down your current path, it won't be for long. Indirectly (and likely unbeknownst to her) your girl has provided you with a pathway to her heart. It's really pop female psychology. I'll explain. When you show too many cards too...

I was in that same position in 2014. I lost my mother. I wasn't in the best of moods and two weeks later, lost my relationship of over two years. Nothing worse than experiencing a loss and having it compounded by another form of loss. I wish you good luck on this.

It's a rare day when I don't side with a brother over a girl, but here it is. I'd place my money on.... she was already thinking of ending the relationship. Instead of her feeling bad about wanting to end things, you provided her with a 'reason' to do so. Your behavior (which normally after...

I challenge any and all of you to find a worse OLD zip code search than this one. 15 mile radius of 32626 Temporarily, I lived there about twenty five years ago. Back when I was using OLD, I did a 15 mile search; which is actually a 60 mile radius (15 North of , 15 South of 15 East of and 15...

I think (provided she's of legal age) that it's more a matter of personal preference. Personally, I prefer women around my age. However, at age thirty two, I did have a girlfriend that was eighteen. While with her one day, I remember listening to the "oldies" station. A song came on that I...

Overall. I would disagree. Applying "neg hits" was designed for the smug and the overly self-assured female. A "neg"not only levels the playing field, but also subconsciously demonstrates that we're not "thirsty." Yes. I agree.A woman with self-image issues doesn't need (or deserve)...

Please take no offense. There was no attempt at a veiled insult. I made my posting before reading previous comments. I can see why you might think that I had intent, but there was none. Again, no offense.

FlexpertHamilton Fellow minimalist here. I wouldn't have it any other way. Some of us recognize the freedom of not being 'hostage' to material goods and peer approval. I've only had three or four women that were turned off because I didn't have status-quo aspirations. Women of such mentality...

Unlike yourself, my youth was not nearly as smooth. Constantly moving around as a kid, meant no foundation and not feeling very acclimated in my settings. You’re right though. If we don’t like something, it’s up to us to change it. And I did. There’s nothing more rewarding, than being more...

Everyone is different. It could be that on this particular morning, she had things on her mind and her 'well was dry.' Just to give an example; my girl said that I could wake her up if I wanted, but I won't offer the same. I'll service her in the morning and/or night, but if I'm asleep, she...

By the end of age 21, my 'notches' were in the 20's (I made my age that year). I decided to start a list because if my luck continued, I'd probably eventually forget a few. To this day, I've never had a girl named "Alice." I've always wanted one and (if I wasn't currently in a relationship) I'd...

I do not have a reputation for kissing up (god knows that the Mod's know this better than anyone). With the above being expressed, I have to call you out on discrediting @Glassguy 's advice. He and I are old-timers on this forum, but rarely if ever cross paths. The reason is because when he...

It's been a long time since I was twenty eight. No regrets, but I wished that I understood the psychology and dynamics back then. I'll explain. At twenty eight (and during that period, I usually dated women a couple of years younger or around my age) I noticed something. It seemed like most of...

Man, I think that you're on to something, @The Duke I've always considered myself a master at connecting the dots and correlating, but this observation slipped by me. Looking back, I have to agree. It's not that motherless women I've dated were "butch" or "tom-boy" ... but there was indeed a...

Although I’ve never paid for an escort, the truth is that we’ve all paid a fee for female company. When we buy drinks or a meal, we are ‘paying.’ Yet, despite your participation in this ritual, these women (dates) that accept your ‘payment’ (you - picking up the tab) are somehow above scrutiny...

I would disagree. I’ll be the first to admit that I’m not the most handsome guy in the room, nor wealthy, or the most stylishly dressed. But the truth is, (and not to brag) I do really well. I think the reason is because I don’t hold onto those above group-think beliefs. In other words I’m not...

Although I got laid earlier than the OP, ... when I was much younger, I could relate to the OP's attitude. Eventually after much thought, I laughed at my own hypocrisy. In the early stages, I had this fairy-tale image of women. I was actually more angry because this image had been shattered by...

I've had (that I'm aware of) nine opportunities to marry. Thankfully, no woman has outright proposed, but instead they used passive or passive/aggressive ways to bring up the subject. Like yourself, Duke, I've always wondered about the motivating factors. Based on my experiences, some women...

When I was younger (before the internet or book materials) I had several "deer in headlight moments." Based on my experience, if the gal was smug, feisty etc... it's not the best look or outcome, unless. I say "unless" because some women of this behavior will thrive on it as a power thing...