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  1. Black Widow Void

    You don't want a smart girl. Stop asking them to be.

    I have good news. There are also women with hot bodies that are not dumb fvcks. With no swagger intended, I'll say.... once you've had one, you just can't look at the dumb fvcks with any enthusiasm (while, sober.. that is) .
  2. Black Widow Void

    You don't want a smart girl. Stop asking them to be.

    Sleeping with a dumb fvck is the equivalent to sleeping with a fattie (one is unsightly physically and the other verbally). Like most people, I've worn beer goggles (or beer headphones) before. At least then, we look back and remind ourselves that we were drunk. When sober, my self-respect...
  3. Black Widow Void

    You don't want a smart girl. Stop asking them to be.

    You can't be serious. If you actually believe this, let me know and I'll attempt to dummy down my original posting for your comprehension. Perhaps your preference for unintelligent women is an example of the old saying... "birds flock together?"
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    You don't want a smart girl. Stop asking them to be.

    On the contrary. Although I’ve had my moments when I wound up (drunk of course) waking up next to a dumb fvck… I wasn’t exactly proud of it. It’s not a matter of needing a mother figure or a philosophy buddy. It’s a matter of not allowing your pointer to override your self-respect.
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    Would being direct as hell work or would that be too intimidating?

    Jeezus Krist! Unless you are cougaring a fiancé in his mid to late 20’s, I’m trying to imagine a man in his 50’s aspiring to have this look. It sounds like he spends more time beautifying himself than the average woman. This does not sound like the type of ‘standard’ that young and...
  6. Black Widow Void

    Rotation vs Anti-Rotation

    You'll likely get a lot more forum votes for spinning plates (because it seems to be the "in" cool thing to say at the moment). As to which is better.... I think that it's more a matter of personal preference. Personally, I haven't lately met any women that would inspire me toward monogamy, but...
  7. Black Widow Void

    Body Count

    I used to keep a list, but it hasn't been updated in years( I need to do that before I forget names). I do remember being the most proud around age 28 because I'd finally "made my age." I was close a few times before, but I'd get in a relationship and age another year without an additional new...
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    Im back baby!

    Nah, if you sealed the deal, texting the following day is fine (but keep convo text modest). The "two day" rule is too well known these days and has become a cliché. If you hadn't done the deed, then yeah...wait 2 days to a week, but since you sealed it, waiting too long could potentially...
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    When a woman is giving a man pleasure by sucking dvck / eating ass would that make her submissive? Or dominant?

    I've only had this conversation brought up once. About ten years ago, a girlfriend (that had a slight dominant personality) claimed that when blowing me, she felt "in control." This didn't make a lot of sense to me, but hey... if this gave her a higher self-esteem, I was willing to contribute...
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    How affectionate can I be towards my spinning plates?

    Welcome aboard. You raise a good question. The answer will depend on your ethics. If you dig deep enough on the forum, you'll notice some male members posting about confusion by "mixed messages." The same can hold true for women as well. If you already have a FWB type regular situation, then...
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    People who convince me to date around my age

    Though I have my doubts, assuming this is a legitimate posting, here are the answers (based on my previous experience). It’s all fairly simple to figure out (or you could ask them directly) and so, I do doubt the legitimacy of this posting. Anyway… Family - they can view this as you “trying...
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    People who convince me to date around my age

    I disagree with your above statement. If someone has the guts to step up to the plate and question you, then it’s your job to step up to the plate toe to toe toe and put them in their place. If you are confident in your position, this will subdue them. The fact that you are ‘hostage’ to...
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    People who convince me to date around my age

    Something seems peculiar. According to you, these alleged people seem to have issues with you seeing younger women. Instead of you taking the bull by the horns and confronting them directly, you visit the forum and ask strangers to make second guesses? In my experience, women (particularly...
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    Women's temperaments and aging

    I’m thinking that it’s more than just aging. In fact, it’s a bit of a paradox. Women that appear obstinate in behavior are inadvertently giving out a mating call. I say “paradox” because such behavior can be a sexual deterrent… yet once satisfied, they are much more pleasant to be around.
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    gf started/is starting to smoke socially

    I’m not sure who appears more impressionable. You mentioned that she’s 23 years old; which would indicate an adult of sound mind. However, you have the impression that she was “pressured?” This seems a little old to be worried about getting shunned by her peers. Here’s the reality. She’s an...
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    Getting rid of intellectualism

    ‘Dummying it down’ is no fun. In fact, compromising our identity for the outcome of snatch can be just as rewarding as self-defeating. The one thing that I’ve discovered is that a woman with a degree (or in the process of earning one) does not necessarily equate to intelligence. In many...
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    How to tell a girl you want her to be your girlfriend

    Welcome aboard. I see that you are a new member. As you can already see from your replies, a lot of members run to their little playbook on how to do things with women – no differently than a preacher thumps his Bible. So far it is not illegal to think for oneself. There are several forum...
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    she doesnt do Public affection

    If you really think about it, PDA is simply emulating behavior – witnessed in others (monkey see - monkey do). Although I’ve done it and I don’t object to modest displays… overall it’s really an act of exhibitionism.
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    Where to meet younger women?

    Your response: "Sounds like you're drinking from a bad batch. Apparently the bitterness is seeping into your message." A Nunnery.
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    Do you like to "sleep around" with lots of Slvts, and expect to marry a virgin Trad woman?

    Although I have no interest in marrying or having children, I get what you're saying (my standards are higher if considering monogamy) . Usually, when I hear a man calling a woman a "slvt"... it's usually because she's slept with everyone but him.
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