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Thanks for the advice guys. My therapist thinks I have rescuer tendencies, and also suffer from co-dependancy which I guess explains alot. It is right to say though that I have learnt alot about myself and relationships...I I know now what I can and won't put up with. Its funny I wanted...

Is it possible there are varying degrees of BPD?

She still denies actually cheating, however I am as certain as can be that she did.....doesn't this show that on some level she has remorse for the cheating and knows it was wrong? I mean she only confessed because I caught her bluff. This BPD stuff is a real head fook.....what the hell...

Thanks for the replies guys. Does this mean that her new man is now being viewed as 100% perfect...and perhaps this will modify her behaviour somehow? I mean if she cheated on me with him, does this mean she views him as someone who can help her behaviour in someway? I must admit it does...

Hi all Would be grateful for some advice regarding the break up I experienced with my ex in May 2009. I realise it was a long time ago now, but I still think about it every day and I have been seeing a counsellor for the last 3 months as I seem to have major problems dealing with this. OK...