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    23 and nofap but **** problems

    Are you meeting (or getting a steady stream of) a lot of good-looking girls? Do you put a lot of time into that dating/sarging? Then yes, nofap will help. Otherwise, it's kinda pointless. NoFap is basically like a "ramjet/scramjet" aircraft engine. Doesn't have the disadvantages of turbines...
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    Fighting back after losing a bar fight?

    Long story short, I came to a bar with a friend to celebrate some guy's birthday I haven't seen in a while. One of his friends mistook me for some random dude coming into "their circle", and (after pretty much waiting under closing) KO'ed me outside and bounced. (I was down just for a few...
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    Date or Not to date...

    Hmm...no date this time, she kinda had some plans over the weekend... Anyway I don't really care for her (i.e., she doesn't really interest me in any way, physically or mentally), but I figured that was precisely why I should have went for dinner. Before I can go out with someone that does...
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    Date or Not to date...

    A bit of background: I'm a virgin, no relationship experience, 22yo. My friends are kind of...demotivating cliqued out group of three smokers (i don't smoke, i don't really care who does). This one girl in class (community college) asked if I wanted to go out for some coffee early in the...
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    Do Not Lose Faith

    IMO, what's hampering sosuave--at least for newcomers--is usually one or both of: (1) People not exactly receiving the advice they came here for in the first place. For example, newcomers/virgins/non-advanced-don-juans asking pretty straightforward questions but getting...
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    Where to meet Fat/Ugly girls?

    What are the best places to meet fat/ugly chicks? So far all I can think of are bars...but it may be pretty expensive to go drink there everyday (even with a few shots of pre-drink). Edit: Ok, perhaps not everyday...but at least a few days each week
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    Where to get it...?

    Thanks for the replies guys... Basically, -get my life together (meaning, get a job, move out, possibly even a car...) -get out, experiment, try new things -meet more people -then get laid Otherwise, we get "grim prospects", as runner83 said. Makes sense to me...
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    Where to get it...?

    Well, the situation is: -I'm a virgin -also never had a girlfriend -Don't have friends that go out -Finished undergraduate education at university, (definitely missed opportunities there...), now finishing up at a community college (two courses) -Currently live with parents, one unemployed...
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    Getting Laid "Scenario"

    Ok, quick question: -What exactly, in terms of "provisions", do I need to pick girls up / get laid? For example, -if I'm at a club, will I need a car? a motel room? an apartment? -say I'm at some college party, at the house of some guy I don't know too well. Do I get it on inside one of his...
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    From socializing to getting laid

    So basically, what you guys are saying is that it's "ok" to not feel totally natural when doing such actions for the first time?
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    From socializing to getting laid

    You guys have some good advice, but how can someone like me who knows absolutely NOTHING about getting laid or what is sexual (aside from occasional hearsay/what is online) begin to follow it? As an aside, is online dating/hooking up any good? Seems like it sort of sets the tone from the...
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    From socializing to getting laid

    Hey guys, how do I move from simply socializing to banging? (currently, still a virgin) I have NO trouble socializing with girls (no confidence/attitude/whatever issues...), but how to move from that to actually getting laid? Sure, I can treat them AS FRIENDS no problem... ok, but I...
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    Bar questions

    Wow man, you sound like an old man, maybe with some paranoia on the side. You might have gone through some fun times, I wouldn't doubt that, and came out a bit "older", but let me tell you this: There is a difference between an old man whose lived his life, looking back and entertaining...
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    Bar questions

    Hey guys, looks like the above sort of turned into a rant... Basically, I'm trying to get out, even if by myself at the time being. Having no social "knowledge" or any significant life experiences, I find it difficult to communicate with people who seek to communicate more..."deeply" on such...
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    Bar questions

    (I was going to post in the "Anything Else" sub-forum, but it kinda grew out of that...) Hey, obviously I'm new to bars, what can I expect / how do I go to a bar? Do I just bring an ID and around $20, and I can sit there and drink some beer? Maybe get a few vodka shots in? Long...
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